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Currently wearing a thick cloth diaper absolutely soaked and plastic pants, my go to diaper.

So do I, I do not use catheters but make my own stents with the same result I might say. I have been doing this since 2006 and never had a UTI (knock on wood). I love the feeling of having no control over my bladder.

Cloth diapers and plastic pants still my go to diaper wouldn't wear anything else if i had the chance.

When I started out with catheters and stents, the first year and a half, maybe a while longer I used nothing else but catheters in order to reach my goal, that was around 2006. I didn’t modify them used them as they came. Never had any issues with catheters no uti’s no nothing, for me it was just not real enough. Another downside you couldn’t keep them in for more than a couple of days without the risk of bacterial growth and / or uti`s so you have to be aware of that. Like Fakename4me said after removal things normalize fairly quick, so to me (but I am no doctor) catheters will not make you incontinent when used properly. Then again same thing applies for stents they will not leave you incontinent. Nowadays I use my stent 24/7, this is the case since 2014 and if I take it out things normalize within a day or two.

Without any doubt option four.

To be honest I don’t know, never gave it too much attention. I know I try to do everything in a normal fashion so I do not draw any specific attention to the fact that I am wearing a diaper. In general I wear sloppy clothes to cover it all up and since I lost a significant amount of weight I feel my diapers are even more hidden. To answer the topic no don’t think I go about my ways differently.

A view apply let’s see: Protected (physically), Safe (mentally), Like I am being myself, Like wanting to wear them for the rest of my life, Like wetting in it and last but not least Like wanting to become incontinent for pee There is no specific order to the list but the most important one for me probably is like I am being myself. I feel so incomplete when not diapered, feel like I am falling apart and disconnected.

Made me think of another one showing in the Netherlands. https://www.google.com/search?q=reclame+vernieling+is+zo+kinderachtig&rlz=1C1GCEA_enNL820NL820&oq=reclame+vernieling+is+zo+kinderachtig&aqs=chrome..69i57j69i60.27355j0j7&sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8#fpstate=ive&vld=cid:ecfa3949,vid:oLRF0SQ0Kv4 Translation reads: Vandalism is so childish.

That is a trip down memory lane indeed. I do remember the ad and I do remember they even showed in the commercials, I flipped over backwards the first time I saw it. The one thing it made me realize there were plastic pants on the market that would fit larger kids and grownups. As for the question in the ad I would go for plastic pants any time, but that is just me. Nice to see it once again it faded into the background over the years.

Absolutely I was back in diapers decades before internet became a thing. Internet did help a lot as it comes to finding likeminded people.

Good question and frankly do not have any answers, I can only draw from my own thoughts, feelings and experience. I however do not think we are further down the line in the continuum we are just following our desires and maybe dreams, my take on it. On a personal level I have rather strong memories going back to the age of three years old wanting to be back in diapers and fortunately I was allowed to do so. I was allowed to wear them but not allowed to use them this felt very wrong to me and in a way conflicting. I can’t say I feel like a baby throughout the day for I am a diaper lover at least that fits the bill best although if I wake up in the morning and my diaper is soaked front to back it feels very babyish and I need time to get that feeling out of my system. In general I get out of bed an hour earlier then what is actually needed for me to get ready for work. I really like the fact that I have no control over my wettings as it make me feel complete and how it is supposed to be. These two worlds are miles apart, on one hand being an adult taking its adult responsibilities and on the other hand being diaper dependent in order to feel complete and functional. With functional I mean focused on my adult tasks. I do belief that it is some sort of coping mechanism only how it came to be and why it manifested itself on such an early age (in my case) big question I don’t know do not have any answers.

I like bulky diapers but not to the extreme especially at night. Cloth diapers do an excellent job keeping my bed dry while my diape is wet.

Started wearing 24/7 some 25 years ago never regreted it. Still have some adult underwear but never wore them since I turned 24/7 to diapers

Soaked cloth diaper and plastic pants

No can’t say I share the experience it would freak me out to be honest. I walk a lot while at work and the thought of pooping my diaper without control because my stent irritates my bowels, would worry me and freak me out. In general I am quite happy with the way my stent works and the time I can keep it in. The only thing is, I have to stay hydrated to avoid irritation which by itself isn’t a bad thing since it will make me pee a little more. And every so now and then I have to take it out to clean, something I do not like but a stent evidently requires some maintenance. I wish I could find a way to extent the intervals between the cleaning cycles.

Absolutely not. I do not poop my diaper myself no way I would change another`s poopy diaper

Cloth diaper and plastic pants

Every situation is different although there are a lot of similarities amongst people who wear diapers. For me personally diapers are the best, a very good thing. They keep me in balance, they make me feel safe, they make me feel comfortable and to a certain extent happy. As it comes to landfills not so good. Personally I prefer to wear cloth diapers which means I have to wash more often, which means not so much waste which will go to an landfill buy more waste water. Always two sides to a story.

No diaper no comfort no rest, happy to hear you back in diapers I feel the same if I am out of them.

I wear diapers 24/7 also in public that is how I like to live my life. As far as I know nobody ever found out.

If I am not diapered I am naked and most likely standing under the shower or in between changes. No big boy underwear for me, the thought alone.

I used to use catheters but no longer do as it wasn’t real enough for me. they never caused me any problems never had a UTI, maybe I was lucky. I was very aware that they could easily cause UTI`s so never really pushed the boundaries. Turned to stents and to my personal opinion they do a better job and the risk of UTI`s diminished significantly.

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First of all I would lay off the pull-up style diapers and go tabbed with a descent amount of absorbency which suits your needs needless to say. Secondly plastic pants of something similar will do the job just fine.

I don’t consider a pull-up a diaper I wouldn’t dare to go out to work wearing one of those. Taped diapers are the best if you are still active.