Abi

Let's all talk about the games we used to play and love in the school playground and elsewhere. I'll start. A firm favourite was "kick the can". You either used a real can, or an object which was designated as "the can" (we tended to use a tree). One person was the designated seeker, and closed their eyes and counted to 100 while the others all ran off and hid. They then went in search of the others. When they saw one, they had to stop and call "kick the can, seen you [Tamsin, or whoever]" and say where they had seen them (e.g. "hiding behind that bush"). Once they'd said this, they had to run back to the can and kick it. Tamsin, once she knew she'd been seen, had to try to run to the can and kick it first. If she kicked it first then she was "home" and safe; but if the seeker kicked it first then she was "out". You could, of course, break cover and run for the can at any time .... but once you were out in the open the seeker was likely to spot you. However, the seeker still had to shout that they had seen you and describe where you were (e.g. "running this way") before they could run for the can. A variant on the game was called "forty four", and was exactly the same except the seeker only counted to 44, and shouted "44 seen you" rather than "kick the can, seen you".

AVG says my computer is clean, so I'm assuming that it is. Any updates on when we expect a fix to be in place and to get our chat rooms back? I know Allison was saying the site was behaving very strangely for her last night - she couldn't get into chat from her computer but could from her phone. Could this be related?

Um ... well ... yeah. I have to say this ... anyone who thinks that physical height matters so much that they're going to blow you away because of it without even giving you a chance is so excruciatingly shallow that you really deserve better than them anyway. Unfortunately, most of the people in the world ARE excruciatingly shallow. Hang on in there, though, and believe in yourself. Be the fun guy you know you are (no ... I'm NOT going to make any mushroom jokes at this point) and concentrate on being the person that people want to spend time with rather than the person that people want to get romantic with. Because, you know, romance often grows out of that desire to be with you. Oh ... and if you don't mind a little self-deprecating humour, you could always buy a step ladder, and when you want to ask someone out you go to great pains to fetch the step ladder first, set it up, then climb a couple of rungs. Then you smile a little self-deprecating smile, say "I felt I had to do that because the last couple of

A wise old person once said "Speak when

You don't need to say anything. You have a back injury ... it's caused you to wet the bed in the past ... your mother has no reason to suppose that ti doesn't still cause you to wet the bed. She's already put two and two together in describing them as "medical supplies", so accept the description and leave it at that. Collect them, say "Thanks, mum ... sorry to have troubled you with this ... I forgot to change my default delivery address when I moved out" and leave it at that.

Ellie ... you are most welcome in the Infant school. If you're too big to wear diapers then you're definitely one of us, even though you don't go to school yet. And if you should happen to have the occasional accident, well, you certainly won't find anyone HERE who insists that means you should be back in diapers. So relax ... you're among friends ... we understand you here.

This thread is here so that everyone can introduce themselves to one another. Play nicely now. OK ... I'll post the first introduction. I'm Abi. It's short for Abigail (which is one of my names ... but not my first name). In real life I'm about to turn 50, but the "little" part of me never stopped being 6. I love 6. It's a great age. I loved everything about being 6 (except for the time I wet my knickers at school ... ) I have a partner IRL who isn't interested in any of this, so the only time I get to explore my little persona is when I'm online. I just LOVE to RP with other "older littles" like myself. So if you see me in chat, please PM me (after asking permission in main chat first, of course ... ) if you'd like to talk about being little but too old for diapers, or if you'd like to try a bit of RP. Hugs, Abi

Tee hee ... great fun

Many MANY happy returns

<---- not remotely bi. Only ever been romantically and sexually interested in women. Sorry, guys ... that's just the way it is.

*waves to Shygirl* Welcome ... you're among friends here

That's right

*bouncey bouncey bouncey* Me all excited. Me going to Scotland on da sleepy train. Won't be back online until the end of May.

I have a stammer, rather than a stutter. Not a bad one, but it can be a problem at times.

Hi MotherFaith. I'm an "older little". About 6 is my favourite age. I work in London, too, but couldn't live there. I'm not a city girl at all. Have you found that retro clothing place at the top end of Drury Lane? I think you might like it ...

Ooops ... I tried to go to chat before I saw this. It told me to try again, so I did ... 9 hours and counting. Must be some error!!

I like your set diagram, diapersalways, but I think it's actually a little more complicated. You need two intersecting circles - one is "DL" and the other is "little"; and the intersection between the two is "AB" - i.e. people who are both "little" and diaper lovers. But there are diaper lovers who are not AB (in the DL circle, but outside the intersection); and there are those of us who are "little" but not DL (in the "little" circle, but outside the intersection). I can't draw the diagram on da pooter, though - I don't know how cos I'm only little. So you'll have to draw that ...

Oh dear ... everything that I said was solved ... it's back to how it was.

Di - yes, I WAS getting kicked while active!

Features that I've noticed and not liked:- room - if you clicked to see someone's profile it opened a new tab, so you could keep the chat room open at the same time. Here it takes you out of the chat room to see the profile. Any chance of a reversion to getting a new tab? Every so often without warning or explanation it logs you out. The first you know is you try to post something and it doesn't send. But it takes you a while to realize that cos sometimes there's a time lag anyway. So you go through all the faff of logging back in ... and when you get back in you've lost all your whispered conversations and cannot retrieve them. Similarly, if you switch from one chat room to the other, when you come back you've lost all your whispered conversations

Pangaea - thanks for those thoughtful observations. It's not hacking I fear, though (and yes, I did set up a specific e-mail address for accessing these sort of things that I don't use for anything else). It's what happens if a false safeguarding allegation is made. It goes something like this. (1) You arrive at school in the morning. You get called into the head teacher's office and get told that an allegation has been made and you are suspended until further notice. You must leave the school premises immediately. (2) You return home, and find that while you have been having an interview with the head teacher, the police have visited your home with a search warrant. They have already broken the door down, uplifted ALL of the electronic devices in your house, and imaged them. They do this very quickly, to make sure that if you have the means to remote wipe them, by the time you know you need to do so it is already too late. (3) They go through the imaged devices at leisure; and if they find any trace of deviant sites they say "Aha! She's a sexual deviant ... look, we can prove it! So these allegations look as though they may well be true!" (4) You then find yourself arrested and answering questions under caution, trying to explain the difference between paraphilic infantilism and paedophilia, to somebody who's IQ is rock bottom but whose triumphalism is sky high, and for them the mere fact that what you're doing

Elfy - yes, I know there are ways around it for people who understand their IT and know what they're doing. But I don't and I don't. So I couldn't be sure that I would be keeping my browsing record "clean". I have been subject to false accusations before, and both times they had an absolutely devastating impact on my mental health even though I knew that there was absolutely nothing that could possibly implicate me in any way. I fear now, though, if the false accusation were "not safe to be trusted to work with children" and those making the accusation could say "And when we imaged her computer, guess what we found? She regularly accesses a sexual deviancy site with thousands