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Although I have never been, after hearing about some of the wonderful aspects of capcon, I spent a little more time than I should have listening to podcasts and reading up on it. Anyone that is interested, I encourage you to check out their website https://chicagoageplayers.com/ Also their FetLife page which has a lot of after event thoughts. https://fetlife.com/groups/27245

Haha that's pretty hilarious ? I wonder how it waddles.

I'm in a hotel almost every week for work. I keep mine in my suitcase or on me at all times. I'd be lying if I said I wasn't curious about house keeping seeing them but I am sensitive to the fact that other people aren't prepared to see such things. I always dispose of used ones with others in mind.

I've been there before. I live 15 minutes from the store. Did you ever make it?

I've told my best friend a few weeks ago for a few reasons. 1) I secretly knew that his ex was a little and always wanted to relate and talk about that side with them and 2) it just felt great to explain it rather than hide it any longer. I was a little hesitant to tell him of course but here is some actual text on how I did it Me:Do you feel like there's certain things you can confide in me on with no judgement if you had to?” Friend: " um absolutely" " I wouldn't hesitate to tell you anything" Me: " good answer" Friend: "Why do you have something to tell me?" Me: Something I'd "like to" tell you but still kinda shy about it. Let's just say a lot for me personally has happened recently. Bucket list stuff, liberating stuff. Things that make me feel alive. Now at this point I feel like my friend needs to give up something in order to make me feel comfortable about my secret so knowing that he done some weird stuff in the bedroom, I ask him to list a few to ease my comfort. No I'm not going to list any more of the conversation but he spilled his beans and so did I. How did it end? He was accepting and actually already knew....see his (little) girlfriend talked to my wife a while back, comparing their men or whatever women do. So it made sense. Now I'm not saying that everyone should out themselves as many people react differently. I was fortunate to have a pretty awesome (and far from vanilla) best friend. I think it's all about having a really great relationship with whomever that will make sharing of these things that much easier but also a better outcome.

Hahaha? really?

Hope you feel better! You already know not to wash your car til late may!!!

Cheesecake is my go to craving!

Kitten, you've taken the words right out of my mouth.....twice lol ???

What a milestone!! I just donated! Thanks for such a great platform!

It may be time for some tough love. I doubt anyone is just going to give you some more. If you are just venting, that's fine, we are here to listen and offer suggestions and I'm sure a lot of us can relate to your situation. You can either take the advice or not but we genuinely care. Turn your lemons into lemonade!

That's more than someone with no diapers. Consider yourself lucky ☺️

Yes and no. Yes I am worried for the fact that I am not incon and really have no easily explainable reason to be wearing. Notice I said easily because my need is emotional and could be explained with many minutes using charts and graphs. Back to the post. I wouldn't want to have a big deal made about it.... bottom line. As far as how I'm not worried. I don't think anyone is going to really care as long as it isn't hurting them.

I relate to this 100%. I joke about messing with her but prefer to be respectful to not make her endure the smell. I have thought about taking the odor control pills tho.

I hate that...ruined tapes. Normally I would have some clear packing tape to fix said issue. Nowadays I'm beginning to like Velcro fasteners on Tykables diapers. You can open and close them as much as you need.

OMG that's genius.

Well Google wasn't really big back then so I'd have to say Yahoo. But I also saw an advertisement for wet set magazine in the back of an adult novel which really piqued my interest.

What Mark and Smash are trying to say is that there are ways that work more effective and there are ways that work less effective. Usually people deal with things differently and no one case is the same. There may be no right answer for you but there are personal experiences that you may find adequate. The more information you provide for YOUR individual issue, the better you can be helped. That's what this community is known best for. Helping and supporting others!

Welcome and thanks for the introduction. As you already know, you can definitely find supportive and like minded individuals here on DD. I wish you luck! -huggy

This question is for those who wear diapers for mostly (maybe all, maybe some) sexual nature. How long do you wear? Do you get turned off right away like a lot of AB/DL's do? I welcome custom answers if you wish.

Not to thread-bump but I decided on the cushies and will try a few Tykables in large. Just picked them up from Beth at supply solutions and I'll try them out tonight hopefully.

Oh wow! Thanks for that dyperbole. I would have thought the opposite. That they are a fast mover therefore out of stock. Still doesn't make sense to take a product out if it has sold before. It's not like the xl users just stop using, they go where there is availability even if that means taking their money elsewhere. Sounds like a missed opportunity, but I really don't know more of their side of the decision. Nothing to do but wait I guess.

Thanks for the advice gee. This actually is my next "try it" diaper. Dry 24/7, Rearz, and nortshore supremes are all I've tried so far. I like a really snug diaper and always get a loose diaper after stretching and fluffing prior to use. Therefore I found the Velcro intriguing so I could do a re-snugging.

I just tried them and they don't have xl but yeah that's what I want to try, a thicker plastic diaper that has Velcro. I'm open to other suggestions as well. I fit in dry 24/7's large but I wanted the confidence of an XL diaper. Thanks.

I need help finding them in XL. Tykables website is out and so is Amazon. Any help would be greatly appreciated. Thanks in advance!