Diapered Dave

But wasn't part of your incontinent desires to need diapers and everything that goes with them? I think the big thing is that you were use to one routine all your life, and now you just have to change your routine to adapt. I mean, when you consider all the other challenges some people face, being diaper dependent is a relatively minor one. ( Compared to being paralyzed, blind, etc... )

Damn.... I don't usually have to think this hard on the weekend!!! 😂😆 How is the shower stall enclosed from the locker room? Shower curtain? A door? If it's a curtain, put a hook on the bag and hang it on the shower curtain rod. If its a door, hang it on the door knob, or hook it on the top edge of the door....

This is what happens when I don't wear my tin-foil hat... People steal my thoughts! 😂🤣😆

Where do you put your towel while you shower? Is there a wall hook or something to hang it on? If so, get a draw-string bag, either cloth or plastic, put your diapers and powder in there, and hang it on the hook. You could probably even use a plastic shopping bag with handles.

I think there are many factors that come into play... Example- a woman going into the restroom with a bag, purse, etc .. not uncommon. They generally don't walk thru the office openly carrying a tampon or kotex pad. A guy going in with a bag or backpack, less common. I worked for a small company once, only 5 people. The restroom was RIGHT next to the boss's office, who was an ass. He'd often make a snide comment if he thought you were going to the toilet more than he thought was normal, to him. Also, it depends on work attire rules. I worked in an office setting that required dress pants, tucked in shirt. Harder to hide a diaper bulge than if you could get away with a longer untucked shirt. Before I retired, I was wearing diapers quite often to work, so I went with black pleated dress pants, one size bigger. That usually hid my diapers pretty good, unless I was wet enough to have a "swollen diaper bulge".

Great story!! Love it !!

How long can you wear it before it becomes uncomfortable? Do you get any leakage with it on?

great so far !!

Is she on a Medicare Advantage plan, or original Medicare? Some of these Medicare Advantage plans are a nightmare to deal with...

We never heard from him again after that last post... What did "Mommy" do to him? Has he been kidnapped and forced to live forever as a baby? Does she have him gagged, bound, and diapered, in a dark dungeon? Has he been turned into a diaper slave, forced to work in a sweat-shop? Or... Is he buried in her backyard? (Yikes!) Maybe a combination of ALL of these. This has all the makings of a great mystery novel !!

I use the one that smoothes the holes. 😂

Wait... We're supposed to throw them away? Huh!! Go figure! 😆

BrownBobby... You've written a few times about how you're happy with you're increased level of incontinence. I'm curious about how it affects your daily life. From what Reddy has written, he's apparently a manager in an office environment. How do you deal with diapers daily? Does your job make it easy or difficult to change your diaper when needed? How about wet diaper disposal? Does your work attire allow for discrete diaper wearing? Do you wear thinner diapers during work, or do you have to risk a "diaper bulge" to get the absorbency you need during the day? I think a lot of the people following this thread are either working towards incontinence, or hope to get there someday. But some folks may not have considered the logistics of diapers and a work environment.

Is it leaking around the outside of the catheter? If so, it sounds like the catheter isn't big enough. Then again, when ever I've had a catheter in, my bladder never contracted, because the catheter kept it empty! Sounds like a question for your doctor.

I've been diapered twice when I've gone for a massage, to two different Asian massage places. Both times, towards the end, the gals had me roll over, for a "Happy ending". Both of them just un-taped my wet diaper, and "got busy", like it's something they see everyday! Maybe it's because I'm older, and perhaps they DO see it often with the older guys??? One of the gals even asked me if I had a dry diaper that she could put on me afterwards.. (Damn, I KNEW I forgot something!!)

Brown Bobby.... I've found your postings regarding your incontinence very interesting... I don't know if you've mentioned it, but what's your diaper preference? Disposables only, or cloth diapers and plastic pants too?

looks like a great story so far!! 😁

Great to hear from you again! So when you catch to stretch things out, how long do you have to catch for? Days? Hours? And what size cath do you use?

It would be interesting to hear from BrownBobby too, on how he's doing... They were both down there at the same time, though for slightly different procedures. I wonder if the surgery results for BrownBobby have changed at all...

Yes.... Actually, I was woken up by the urge to pee, but as often happens, when I reached down and checked my diaper, I was already wet!!

Great story!!

I was a bedwetter until my mid-teens, then it gradually tapered off and stopped. In my mid 30's, it started back up, maybe once or twice a year. Over the years, my bedwetting has increased, to now in my mid 60's, I wake up in wet diapers every morning. I have also developed urge incontinence in the last few years, that is slowly getting worse. My doctor has run all the tests, everything appears normal. He said sometimes childhood bedwetting and other incontinence issues DO re-appear in older adults, for no obvious reasons. So I just diaper-up, and get on with life.

So during the one or two days to get back to normal, what are you experiencing? Dripping? Leaking? Urge incontinence?

Actually, you do have some options. A while back, after your first surgery, I believe you tried a Foley catheter with a shut-off valve on it. That's one option you could use to "take a break" from diapers. Another option is using a condom catheter, with a leg bag. Or you could try a cunningham incontinence clamp. So yes, you ARE bladder incontinent now. But not necessarily trapped in diapers full time.

When I started having bedwetting issues again as an adult, the FIRST thing the doctor asked me was did I often experience constipation.