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My wife has told me in the past she will not have sex as long as I wear diapers the thing is she was not able to have sex way before I started wearing my diapers 24/7. So my diapers is not the reason she has not had sex. After her cancer of 2006 she had bad reaction to the chemo, and can't have sex, then my cancer in 2007 and for several more yrs fighting it, So due to all of that we haven't had sex since we last tried in about 2009. I started wearing full 24/7 I think around 2013. But her comments about not having sex were in the past 5 yrs, and I just say you can't have sex anyhow , see the cancer she had was hormone kind and that limits her on creams lotions etc, as well as a lot of stuff. I wish my wife would be supportive , but it is what it is.

Thanks, I will check it out.

Thanks, I guess I need to find some cheap onesies , I have a couple but they are fun stuff for in the house LOL. I have to be seen as normal as I can out in public , my wife is getting better,, but not that much, the fun print ones , well ... what is the best site to get some cheap plain onesies ? I have thought about making them out of T shirts, it is not that hard I don't think anyhow , it looks easy. I have some extra ones. But not sure if I should use snaps or buttons?

I have played on my back and peed all over myself back when I had a good pee stream . I have always loved pee play

I'm only a yr older than you, I have a little gut I had shorts just like those but since I can't get new ones anymore I am so far stuck with the gym shorts . My gray pairs were just like the pair you had on in the pic.

Hey it happens as we age,,,,,, I have been sitting much much more over the past yr, and I have gained 10 plus pounds so I am really up there with it not staying up on my butt, if you have answers please post or MM me I am also open . I do thank you for the reply you did the other day, Thanks Why is it we gain the belly fat as we age, why not in a good location🙄Where we can use it

What shorts can be worn with an abre diaper? I can't seam to wear anytime but a pull-up with shorts unless it bulges

I have carried a diaper bg for a lot of yrs, it was a thing I would diaper change in the car under a blanket while she was driving.....

I don't diaper in front of my wife, she is getting better about seeing my built up diaper when she has to come in after my enema that has gone bad... But she still is not liking my diapers.

I too at a young age was attracted to diaper smells and pee smells I have loved smells of pee and old diapers as long as I can remember . My brother and I peed on each others beds as a fight a few times. And our mom made us sleep in it, that was bad on her but good on us????

I wear pull-ups for daytime, I don't work anymore , I have the same complaint about if I am out I have to try to hold most of it and go pee in the restroom or I do take tape ups with me if we are gonna be out for hrs. Then I can change to a tape up. I can hold it for a little bit but I guess my other is also if I try to hold and have to let go the pull-up will leaks, they can't take the rush, and I get the nite time pull-ups .

I would strongly agree with you , till then have fun. When safe

I am not really sure what age I stopped wetting the bed, my mom would not put us in diaper even if it meant her doing the was 2 times a day. As you can see I think in my page that my brother and I peed the bed into young school age. My dad was really into making fun with us so that is most likely why I hid any wet spot I would have done in my bed, I did however Love getting into my brothers bed and soaking up the pee on me. and getting hard as a rock.

I am DL first and AB second, mostly for the family reason, my wife is the only one that knows. My wife has a Buch of stuffy/Dolls etc. It's been a long process with her accepting some of my stuff.......Ie have a lot of my own, stuffed animals, dolls, several baby bottles, I love to lay and play on crib mattress, I have a lot of fetishes that it is so hard to keep hidden. (some of my fetishes I keep from my wife) I really wish I could tell my son, he's older/married, I have thought about telling him. How hard was it for some of you to tell family anyone else on here? Any ideas on how to break the Ice? I do wear 24/7 now, and I think my son saw my diapers yrs ago we went to a mens retreat and shared a room. But he never said anything. We sleep with our stuffy and dolls. I would like to get AB clothing etc, but not fun to do when my wife is not into it...... I am jealous of some of the ones that were brave and told family.

It maybe my age, but I rub myself raw if I do the masturbating in a disposable diaper at all. I can play with a soaked cloth diaper. But I used to be able to do it in a baby wet diaper, ,, my skin I thin is more sensitive since I am 24/7 in a wet diaper. I do miss it sooooooooo much doin it with a good wet diaper......

Thanks, that's all I am saying, is we are human and we are all different and what will work for maybe even a mass, will not work for all. If I had it to do over again with my cancer in 2007, I would maybe had done more research , but they used the scare that with oral cancer you have a 50/50 chance of living 5 yrs, well there is living and living I call it the after math of Radiation I can't eat and this is the second time since then I lost my mouth opening twice it was over 100k to try and fix it then, I have lost all of my teeth from it. I have evolving issues in my head, neck etc etc from the cancer that is coming back in a different cancer that the radiation has caused..... So that is my reason I am very very rough on any Dr, I do have several that are used to me and have been with me for over 10 yrs. So I do trust them but I will still question them. I mean I am 65 yrs old and I figured it is my decision to do what I do. I just had my annual with my primary, he said I am fine, I had a chance taken from my cheek a few weeks ago and the radiation caused that skin cancer. But I still have never nor my wife taken any Covid shots at all, or Flu shots. I think all of that is my choice, as I told him we are very cautious , we wash off everything that we buy with wipes, and keep our distance etc. I don't as with many others want the poison they did a crash course of testing on John Q public , of the untested vaccine . It's still each of us that makes any choice of what we put in our body. Now if someone is working with a lot of people or in a school etc I think it's not there choice because they have a lot of lives besides there own to worry about. We as retired have a different view. I do trust that a Dr has a lot of yrs of book study. And some yrs of experience . But as I said we should know our own body better than them, I do think a lot of people don't know how to explain to the Dr what is going on?, what's different from last month? If we explain in detail to the Dr, they will make a good decision . But again we should know our body.

The problem with the so-called High Fiber being good is crap. I have diverticulitis Not os. I was yrs ago forced into a high fifer diet. And that put me into the hospital for a week after I had the do up chucks from both ends for a day. I got soo plugged up by the dumb Dr I will never listen to any Dr again, unless I decide the things I do. Don't just do high fiber when they say that will fix everything . I have acid reflux, (My acid reflux is a 25 yr thing) I have a bad valve they can't fix due to cancer, everyone is different and your body is in my opinion something the Dr is Practically on. I have learned a lot from yrs living after cancer. ( mine and my Wife's Cancer) That I make my decisions, Not a Dr. I take what they say into consideration . And I will tell my Dr what my decision is, and I will discuss my problems with them, I am not obligated to do what they say. I learned that To many people say the Dr Has the last word in your care. I being older have had a lot of Dr's. And if they are not willing to take my issues with conversation then there is another one down the street....

I make up a 3-4 layer diaper by doing it the old way open up the top like a bag of potato chips, then after I put inside all that will fit to make it 3" thick, I put a cloth diaper on top, and I use boxer briefs that are a spandex , to help hold it up and plastic pants, but if you use cut up diapers as a stuffer, make slits in the bottom of the layers, all except for the bottom one that's inside, you want it to hold the pee.....I sleep in my recliner with a foam inner crib mattress on it if I think I will be excessive leaky that nite I will put a towel under me, but I wear sweat pants with a long under pant inside. We don't like it hot in our home, so thermostat at 60 deg, and then an electric blanket. When I sleep in my regular bed it has 3 layers of plastic on it I don't need any pads, maybe a bath size towel? so I will not leal over onto the floor. See our bed is a split king it's like having 2 twin motorized beds together. So I don't want to leak onto my wife's side....??

I leak , but not enough for a Dr to give me a script for diapers. I dribble , And if I stand up after I would pee in a toilet,, I keep doing the dribbles...... I Love Diapers , and wish I can find someone to give me a script for them . I do wear 24/7 out of choice. I do have an occasional poop , like a loose one. I have leaking in my Dr files now. My Skin cancer guy gives me a tub a month of the Hydrocortisone oint, and he knows it is for my rash. Last time I was in he said it would be best if he had a look at it, I didn't even have an issue I dropped my diaper and he had no issues keeping me in oint. Anyhow I do have the leaks, with sneezing etc, I start to leak when I am out trying to work in the yard etc, and I can't no way make it to the bathroom at all, so if I didn't have a diaper on it would be an issue.

I have had a small success with a file on warp your mind, called MBM I am not sure who the author is, sorry. I would like better. Without paying a person to get it in person, they are very costly and I have been on disability since 2016. So I keep trying the record files. And it is a little hard to trust, people you don't know to get into your head and play with your mind......

I just found your comments , and I am in such agreement with you I have done my self training to wet, for the last 10t yrs. I don't have the success you have had, I am very jealous .. I would love to MM if you are willing to see what I am doing wrong. I do wear 24/7 but I am finally having some times in the day that I can't make it to the toilet. My wife will not put up with the pee sheets. Or I would sleep in our split king. My twin is plastic covered but I can't leave the good pee smelling sheets and blankets . But I do have a spare bedroom I use for the play, and pee. it's just that the bedrooms are really close, so I can't leave the pee sheets in even that room. But your info says girl, so I need to be careful , I don't want have a fight just win case she would see my post. I really want some of your info on how you got to be a bedwetter soo fast. I sleep in my recliner, I have a bad back neck chronic pain, on mega pain meds, so the chair is whee I sleep. I also only sleep a few hrs insomnia .