tyrantblade3500

Well, getting fired at this job takes a lot because they work us hard for minimum wage and we have to be pretty terrible employees on a consistent basis to give them a reason to fire us. I just dislike people that wanna give crap to the hard workers and basically do nothing about the lazy ones, so they keep being lazy.

So I'm stuck at work for hours longer than I want to be because the big boss won't let me go home and my line leader (one step above a regular worker but below a supervisor/department manager) keep deflecting problems onto me that are not my fault, furthermore my line leader always has to be right, and if you don't do things his way you are wrong; he can't accept that for some things there is more than one right way. So for the rest of today I'm working in another department, then on Monday if there are further problems I will have to tell my line leader to cut the crap or I won't keep working in that area. I'm tired of having to do more than anybody else, and I'm getting yelled at for problems I didn't make. It's making me feel really mad and really depressed.

Because the medical brands can offer very good products at a lot less than the diapers made with the focus on the ABDL community; and not everybody wants diapers with a print or needs/has the money for the specialty ABDL diapers and the medical grade diapers are also a bit more low key (you don't have to think about what people might think of you as you can say it's a need; whereas what reason would you have for the printed diapers?). Still ABDL diaper companies are bring in huge profits, companies like ABU and RearZ probably make several million a year and I suspect this case is a much bigger deal for ABU than Tykables, after all; all Tykables had to do was change the name.

For me "good enough" is one of those subjective things; but no matter what you should feel good about yourself and the things that make you you. If there are things you want to improve about yourself, these things take time and I find that the harder challenges are the ones that will feel better when you achieve them. Like you there was a time when I barely put forward any effort in school and just passed everything, but continuing with the same attitude ended up being really bad for me as I fell behind in school and almost didn't graduate high school; and all the pressure I was under ended up getting to me in a really bad way. I ended up depressed most of the time for a few years, I also had manic times and self harmed on and off for a a few years. It took a lot of effort to get to the point where I am now, dealing with life a lot better; but I still get depressed at times due to my job and being back down to minimum wage and now I'm trying to figure out how I will pay for a couple dental implants as I will end up exhausting my resources and I don't make enough money to easily save up; but its all temporary and I do have a plan to get a better job, but it's a timing thing and I will need to hold on for a little while longer. Anyways, point is you should be comfortable with yourself and gradually do things to improve what you don't like and to lead a better life. I know it's not easy, but I don't think anything worthwhile in life is. And it sounds like you have some things that are going good, focus on that instead of the negativity; I find that helps a lot.

To me it just seems wrong to be wearing a diaper without the intent to actually use it (and that includes #2 as otherwise it doesn't feel like the complete experience to me); but the thing about ABDL is that we all fall at different parts of the spectrum and so I'm not telling anybody else what they should do; just expressing my opinion, of course anybody is free to do what they will and I expect no different.

I use a work box (I think that's what they are called), which if you don't know what it is, basically it's a long box made to be used in the back of a pickup truck so that you can store items in the back and lock it. The idea is that because it's not obvious what is there and it locks that your stuff won't get stolen; otherwise anything of value that is just left in the back of a pickup truck with nobody watching it is likely to get stolen. It works pretty good as a storage box that doesn't get moved often, and also hides my diapers to anybody living in my house; which is great because I try to hide it and I hate the awkwardness of getting asked about it (only my mom cares enough to say anything if she knows I'm wearing diapers at that time and I'm not in danger of getting kicked out, especially as I pay bills)

It's actually coming out of Baltimore Also great news, my order is now estimated to arrive on Saturday.

By this I don't mean how fast they ship out, which tends to be same day and that's great. What I mean is, are they using a slower shipping service than before? Or do estimated delivery always start out as absurd? Estimated delivery right now on my latest order is 6 days, which seems absurd for what is 2 states away (just putting Baltimore to NY in Google says the 2 are about 3-4 hours away, so even though I'm a little further than that I don't honestly believe it should take 6 days when it has only taken 2 full days and then delivery on the 3rd before). I'm only a bit concerned as I prefer my orders to come at a certain time frame to avoid being asked awkward questions about it This just being because I live at home with my mom and younger brother, and my mom doesn't really understand and asks why? sometimes and I just would rather avoid the awkwardness because she know and doesn't support this habit of mine, but I will always be welcome home especially as I pay money towards bills.

Completely agreed, ABUniverse diapers are very unique, impossible to mistake (for me and you anyways)

Apparently ABUniverse owns the right to use the word "Space" in relation to Diapers, anr as Tykables is going to make diapers they are calling "Space Cadet" Abuniverse is unhappy and has tried to talk them into changing the name; but Tykables doesn't want to. https://amp.reddit.com/r/ABDL/comments/7vkexj/abu_has_engaged_tykables_in_a_lawsuit_regarding/?__twitter_impression=true

Wayne County actually

What are your top 5 from the diapers you have tried? My favorite is ABUniverse Little Pawz, 2nd would be Seni Quatros (ABDL diaper kind of absorption with a really good feel (fluffy and comfortable) and cloth backed so readjustable tapes), 3rd is Abena M4/L4, 4th is Molicare Super Plus; 5th by default for me is Dry 24/7; not that I hate them I just don't love them either compared to the others I have mentioned. I know this is due to change when I try more ABDL diapers later this year, I think next i may try ABU BareBums (in size Large as they have a smaller fit than other diapers in the same size so I'm on the lower end of Large whereas normally I'm on the upper side of Medium)

I'm in the middle of a lot of cities/big cities in the Upstate NY area (for example sort between Rochester and Syracuse, also close-ish to the Finger Lakes). Hoping to be moving back down to Florida within 5 years though because having Asthma, winter up here sucks, warm weather is a lot better for my health and i miss living in Florida (lived there for like 10 years)

Me too.

I haven't tried the super plus,but I have tried Quatros and they are one of my favorite diapers out of all I've tried I also like Abena M4s and Molicare Super Plus, but those seem to have been changed into lesser quality diapers; while the Quatros seem to have not changed since I last ordered them.

You are right, we do like ABDL diapers because they are very absorbent and very thick; I've found medical grade diapers can be pretty satisfying too, but most I've tried are much more satisfying if you boost or stuff them with other diapers or boosters. The Seni Quatros are the only medical grade ones I've tried so far that I feel are about as good as an ABDL diaper without boosting them; but I usually boost my adult diapers anyways as I have so many Goodnites i bought cheap (about .20 or . 25 each) which add a pretty good amount of extra swelling and absorbency.

Do you have different diapers for different occasions or just go with whatever you feel like (as long as it is good enough to not leak and has an attractive look)? I will go with a disposable that is thick and absorbs a lot and has both a look i like and feels good and is just a great product; but I only wear at home when I'm not going to go out for a while Some have been medical grade diapers (which often lack in the looks department, but some can be nearly as good as ABDL diapers; the best one I tried was Seni Quatros) instead of ABDL diapers, but I definitely want to try more ABDL diapers this year, some are ABUniverse, some are Tykables (as they look good, seem to be a great product, and are expanding their range and offer free shipping); RearZ seem good as well, but I don't really care about the looks of them that much. Any particular things you think any of the ABDL diaper companies are doing better than the others?

I often think about how attractive women would look hotter in diapers, that's just how my brain is hotwired to think as a straight ABDL (more of a DL, but maybe i will try more AB things in the future) male

It's good to hear that at least for this year the plastic backed Abena level 4 (M4/L4/whatever) isn't going to change. Similarly if the Molicare Super Plus is still around and minimally changed that is also great. I love both when boosted (I typically use either style of Goodnites as I got a lot of both on a really cheap clearance) as they can absorb quite a lot and swell good and just feel amazing, especially as they have a lower cost than ABDL diapers (which I love, but I also like variety)

Well the single tab thing is something that ABDL diaper companies do on some of their range I feel like it's mostly to make diapers that are like "oversized" (im using the term comparatively here) baby diapers, for those that want an adult sized diaper that looks and feels like baby diapers (If they were upscaled to adult size)

Those of you that have tried both, do you prefer the 1 tab/tape per side, or the standard 2 tabs/tapes per side? I think it's easier to get a good fit with 2 tabs per side, and they fit a wider range of sizes. For example in most adult diapers I get a really good fit in a medium, but I would need to bump up to a large for the diapers with 1 tab per side. Maybe I will try the single tab per side diapers again the next time I order from ABUniverse, but currently Little Pawz are my favorite.

I usually wake up needing to pee a lot

To me it just feels a lot better going in diapers than in a toilet, going in a toilet feels like a chore at times and going in a diaper feels amazing like all the time.

As long as you are buying them yourself and not trying to force it onto anybody there is nothing to be ashamed about. I think for most of us there is this psychological aspect about it, that our parents potty trained us to get out of diapers, and we need to get over that to really enjoy diapers and have no shame about it. Many of us do the "binge and purge" thing at least once or twice before we realize there is nothing wrong and this is part of who we are.

I haven't told anybody in my life that I like to wear and use diapers, but my mom found out and she doesn't really like it, but she mostly tolerates it (probably because I keep a job and pay "rent" money towards bills)