DL4Ever

Thanks for the replies everyone, interesting things that I have not thought of. I guess the real reason for me posting the topic was to try to understand how someone can tolerate diapers but not accept them. I just find it hard to understand how someone can openly admit to liking something and not wanting to do it because of the social stigma. I am a casual wearer as is and don't excpect/want to wear often but it is nice to enjoy them together. I know how lucky I am and truly cherish my wife. I know to take it slow with the diapers, it has taken many years for her to even consider wearing them or keeping a stash in the hosue. The whole sleeping in diapers is more a curiousity than a 'must'. To keep the topic on track, what does everyone think about how someone tolerates diapers versus accepting them? Anyone else have a significant other who 'knows' and partakes in your diaper fetish but does not enjoy? Does anyone have an instance where their significant other grew to like diapers and accepts them after a long time of tolerating them? I don't want to hear about people who wear when others are not around but I want to know if others actually get their significant other to wear/play with diapers on a regular/semi-regular basis but don't consider themselves DL.

So anyone who has read the few topics I have posted knows that my wife is accepting of my diaper fetish, to a degree. We have used diapers as foreplay on multiple occassions. This is the only time we both wear and I never wear around her (other than during 'diaper sex') or for extended periods of time. The other day we were talking about 'diaper sex' and she said that she has the best orgasms when we use the diapers becuase the fabric rubs her the right way. However, she doesn't like the fact that it is a diaper causing the friction. Also, she is very quick to take the diaper off. However, one time we were actually cuddeling in diapers so I thought maybe we could sleep in them since she was actually laying there peacefully in a diaper. I casually started to fall asleep but she quickly made sure we took the diapers off before we fell asleep. I guess she likes the orgasm but not the diaper? So confuesed... Has anyoen else encountered someone who admits to enjoying diapers but is not accepting because of the stigma society puts on diapers? I personaly don't understand why she admits to liking it but doesn't want to do it simply because its a diaper. Any suggestions on how to approach the situation? I know to take it slow and let her deal with it in her own time but it is so strange to me to deny herself the plessure it gives her (and me) because its a diaper. It would be one thing if she told me the diapers are a turn off and she gets no enjoyment but it is very obvious that is not the case. I guess I should be glad she is willing to fulfill my fantasies with being open to using diapers as foreplay but I still wish she would accept the fact that just maybe she really does enjoy diapers and accpets diapers more than she thinks. She is the type of person who really worries what other people think. She is very open to new things and is very accepting of different life styles; but when it comes to herself, she is very conservative and not adventerous. I think she is too scared of liking diapers because society says she should not. Any suggestions?

I was wondering if anyone out there could explain how an adult diaper 'should' fit. I have two types of diapers, attends and bambinos. Both fit about the same on me but I am not sure if they are fitting right. I think the diapers are a little large. I am overweight but not 'huge' for my body type and height. I am a 40" waist and do have a bit of a bulge in the stomache and wide thighs so I wear a large in both diapers. Both come way up on me, like to the belly button. I can pull the tape of the bambinos pretty far onto the plastic area. By doing this I get a tight fit in the front of the diaper and the back, but the middle (croch/between the legs) is kind of loose and sags a little and clumps. I don't know if this is from how they are folded sitting in the box though. When I lay it out to put it on the diapers do pull in creating that clump between the legs. Since I don't 'use' the diapers I poured warm water down the diaper to simulate wetting to see if it would leak and it doesn't so I am assuming it is a good fit. Even when I use the booster pads from bambino they clump. Of course I like the thickness that forces me to waddle but I am not sure if that clump is suppose to be their when the diaper is dry. Does anyone know if this sounds like a good fitting diaper or is it too big? I have tried a size smaller in the attends and they seem way too tight, I don't know about bambino. Any help would be greatly appreciated. Also, how does everyone put on their diapers? I lay down on the unfolded diaper and pull one side as tight as I can and tape the lowest to highest tapes first. Then I pull the other side as tight as I can and tape from lowest to highest tapes again. Is this a good way to put it on? Thanks in advance!

So anyone who has read my recent topics knows that my wife told me it was ok if I ordered some diapers to have around the house to use whenever I needed to relax. Well my shipment of Attends and Biambo's Bianco diapers came yesturday afternoon. I was suprised they both arrived within 20min of eachother. When they arrived I didn't have much time so I promptly took them out of their bags and put them away in a box of miscellaneous items and left them on the bed since I was running out the door. My wife got home before me and saw that the diapers had arrived. We went out to eat last night and on the way home my wife suprised me by asking if I wanted to have diaper sex tonight. I was so shocked I didn't know what to say. Before I ordered the diapers she said that she didn't want to see me in them or use them in sex because she was unsure about the whole thing. I asked her repeatedly if she was for real and if we could both wear one, and she said yes (and no she was not drinking). So we finally got home and began one of the best experiences of both of our married lives. Sorry guys no details. Afterwards my wife asked if I felt closer to her and I looked her in the eyes and said yes and she said the same. We have been married 3.5 years and last night was probably the most emotional connection since our wedding night. We usually don't sleep 'close' to eachother but we held eachother tight all night. Has anyone else actually had diapers bring you closer together as a couple? I don't think my wife is a diaper lover or would ever wear one outside of foreplay but I think the fact that she made my fantasy come true brought us closer together. It wasn't the actual diapers but it was the release of emotion to open up to eachother and give ourselves unconditionally, both body and soul. I think we both finally see what a marriage really is with the emotional connection to eachother on a very deep level. We have always been close but now we are connected on a level I didn't know was possible. The diaper play will probably be few and far between and there is deffinately room for improvement on how she puts a diaper on me but the fact that my wife is now open to enjoying my fetish with me is such a great feeling. It took us about 8 years to get to this point. This was the third time she has worn diapers for me, the first two times did not go well at all. So anyone still trying to tell their significant other or has someone who doesn't approve, give it time and be patient. Don't push anything on them and make it as good an experience for them as well as you. Even though it was my fetish and fantasy, I made it more about her needs. Anyone else have a similar experience of diapers strengthening the relationship?

I just recieved my first order of Bambino Bianco diapers yesturday. I haven't ordered any products from them before so I only have this one experience to go off of. I was pleasently suprised at how discrete the box was. I ordered two large bags and they came in an unmarked box that was about 10lbs. The website says they mark their boxes as from "The Bottom Half", which if you do a google search does come to bambino's website immediately. On my shipment there were no markings that I could find so I don't see how anyone could know what was in the box. Now once the box is open it is very obvious what is inside. The invoice has bambino diapers logo all over it and there is a faint smell of baby powder. The two bags were white with a large 'L' and 'The bottom half' printed on them. Doesn't directly say diaper on it but it isn't rockit science for someone to figure out. If you are really nervous and aren't sure you will be there to intercept the package you may try shipping to a P.O. box or UPS store box. That way you can pick up the package yourself and no one will 'inspect' the box at your house. Good luck, I have only worn one of the diapers so far and was very impressed.

Thanks for all the replies everyone. This may be a dumb question but what do you use baby oil for? I have always liked the smell but never knew what to use it for. Is it like lotion and its just good for the skin or is it like powder and helps keep the skin dry? Thanks.

I told my girl friend, now wife, shortly after we started dating. We were talking on the phone one night and somehow got on the topic of 'what have you never told someone'. We were in highschool at the time and I was more into the adult baby side and diaper lover side at the time. At the time she was very interested in adult babies and actually did some research on line and read a few stories I told her about. She was not so interested in actual diapers but just the concept. Time went on with out mentioning it and after we were married a show came on called 'secret lives of women'. The episode was about fetishes and one of the women was an adult baby. That show opened communication about fetishes and I expressed my diaper fetish and she agreed to wear diapers for me. She wore diapers once and didn't seem all into it, I never asked her to do it again. I threw out our stash in a sad moment when I realized my diaper lover side will not be a good thing in the relationship. Now that I have lost my job I told her I wanted to wear diapers as a stress releif and she said fine and even told me she was expecting me to say it. As part of getting the desire off my chest I told her about my fantasies and attraction to diapered women and she agreed to wear a diaper again so she could full fill my fantasy. The diapers haven't arrived yet so I don't know if she actually will wear again. I definately won't push her into it. So after all of that my point is it takes time for people to become accepting. I have known my wife for 10 years and she has known about my diaper fetish for about 8 years. She is just now coming around to seemingly being more open and accepting of it. Hopefully it will eventually be something we can enjoy together but that will come in time. She is hung up on many of the issues everyone seems to have with it and in time she will learn to be more accepting of it. Just don't push the matter and be patient. Take the opportune times to bring it up and be sure to discuss it as a partner thing and not a 'you' thing.

After reading throught the forums I started wondering if anyone else just wears diapers for comfort/relaxation and never uses them for their intended purpose? I have been attracted to diapers for as long as I can remember yet have never had the desire to 'use' them. I went through phases of my diaper desires as a purely sexual thing where there were various fantasies of useing diapers but at the time I coudln't get ahold of actual diapers. Now that I can buy diapers and not have to hide them it seems to be more of a comfort/relaxation attraction. I don't keep a stash of diapers typically but occasionally buy a pack and put one on every so often, like couple of times a month so the pack can last many months. I recently lost my job so I seem to have turned to diapers as a way to relax and cope with the stress. Luckily my wife is ok with this as long as it doesn't interfer with me finding a new job or do it 'all the time' around her. As she put it, if I want to sit around in a diaper all day looking for jobs go ahead; just find a job. I thought that was a funny statment but I took it as, go buy some diapers and find jobs online in comfort at home. So I bought a pack of bambino bianco and attends to hopefully find the 'perfect' diaper. I have used attends before and they are my backup if the bambino's don't turn out as I imagine them. Depending on how long I am unemployeed these should last a while. So back on topic, anyone else wear diapers as a way to relax and get away from the 'real world' and not use them? There is nothing more relaxing then sitting in a thick warm diaper and listening to the crinkeling noise as you shift, or at least thats how I imagine it to be. Although I have recently thought of trying warm water down the front of the diaper to see what it is like to be 'wet'. Any thoughts?

I have recently ordered some Bambino bianco diapers for the first time, along with the quadro booster pad, and was wondering what everyone uses when they put on their diapers. This is not the first time I have used adult diapers but it is the first time in a long time. I don't like to use the diapers for their intended purpose but instead wear for comfort. However, I like to put it on as if I had every intention of using it. I like the bulk of a nice absorbent diaper and the smell of baby powder, which is why I bought the scented boosters. What types of lotions, powders and other accessories does everyone use during a diaper change? Even though I am not a true AB I still like to make the experience as 'authentic' as I can. Any other suggestions for making a diaper change authentic? Thanks