Interesting idea, but twisting these facts versus creating a new one I am not sure that really helps now. I gave this a lot of thought and I am certain this is the best way to handle it for the family, myself and people around me.
Would I like to be fully open about it, sure and which ABDL would not. On the other hand are many people around us and the society in general ready for this fetish I argue not at all. It is about finding your own right compromise to handle the delicate subject. But I will keep the idea in mind, maybe over time there is some merits to it, thanks BabyBrian.