I totaly think that it is those who are dumping you that have the problem,if they cant accept the fact that you need to wear diapers for a medical reason,after all they should remember it could be them one day.
As this condition can hit anyon at any time,there is no way i would have though a few years ago that i would require to wear a diaper 24/7,it is bad enough when you dissover that you have a poblem with bladder control and need to wear a diaper every day.