I've yet to reveal my AB-ness to anyone outside this forum, but here are my thoughts. When I personally get all diapered up, I act like a baby. There's nothing personally sexual about diapers to me. I don't even think about sex or masturbation or anything when I'm in this state of mind. So if I were having a hypothetical play session, I wouldn't want to have sex. So really, it does depend on the feelings of the participants. If either of you are having pedo thoughts then I agree with whoever said it earlier, break the ageplay and be adults. =]