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I think its the combination of mask and head gear I use keeps my mouth from drying out. They wanted me to use a full mask but there is NO way I could handle it! Constantly smelling my own nasty breath all night regardless how many time I brush my teeth was terrible and I felt clausterfobic wearing it... I chose a nasal mask and to prevent my mouth from opening I wear a chin strap... I look like a complete freak at night but in the end its worth it. Luckily I don't have diabetes but I'm sure if I don't make a change in my diet, that could be in my future so I need to make more personal changes. I am on blood preasure medication (that includes a water pill) but I take that in the AM so I just have to pee A LOT during the day. It doesn't seem to cause any issues at night that way.

So before I begin, I use to be much more active on here a few years ago, I would say back in 2011 I think (I want to try an be more active on this website) and for those few who remember me (I may have been a bit awkward and going through a rough time) might remember that I have mentioned my problems with bedwetting since I was a kid. Well back in August I was officially diagnosed with Sleep Apnia And after fighting with doctors, insurance...etc (God what a nightmare that was) I finally have a BIPAP machine I sleep with. I've had it since Nov 20th and since then my bedwetting is no longer a problem! Turns out (according to my doctor) that my body was making me have to use the bathroom during the night to wake me up (since my brain was not getting enough Oxygen) and mix that with a weak bladder, you have bedwetting! So Instead of having to use the restroom every hour of the night (literally, I have journaled the need to use the restroom every hour quite a few times), now I don' have to use the restroom during the night at all! Maybe once if any at all. So this entire time, I might have had a bit of sleep apnia contributing to the problem. Now I'm sure there is someone thinking (aww sorry your not a bedwetter anymore! I would love to be a bedwetter!) Don't get me wrong, I love waking up a soggy crinkle butt as much as the next diaper loving fruit tart (I can say that cause I'm a diaper loving fruit tart!) but honestly? Being a bedwetter sucks! Always waking up in a bed soaked of pee (because when you have to pee a trillion times in the night, it doesn't matter what precautions you take, somehow you manage to leak) and having to wash sheets every other day or having to cover your bed in towels in the middle of the night so you can get some sleep and deal with it in the morning sucks ass! Now I can wear a diaper to bed in confidence without having to worry about waking up in a pee puddle and that makes me super happy! Until I get the monthly bill for the machine in January (considering my deductible resets and my payments on the machine are more then my car) in any case I'll probably think at some point "could I go back to being a bedwetter...?, cause... this is expensive as shit...". The answer by the way is bo... falling a sleep while driving is not good and I feel so much better then I did before. So if your a bedwetter who feels tired all the time, who Does off sometimes while you drive, who wakes up with headaches every morning and has cotton mouth every morning to the point your uvula swells then you might wanna look into a sleep study!

Well I just pre-ordered mine this morning and I dont think I'll get

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I don't want to minipulate him by any means! =( I've only been padded around him once. I'm still really embarrassed about being padded around him even though he was definitly ok with it the one time. I definitly dont want to ruin anything cause it is a really good relationship and I'm really happy to have the close relationship we have. I will say I already have passed Gass a few times once by accident while snuggling and I apologized. We both laughed immediately after. Anyways, I don't want to pressure him at all and I don't wan't him to do anything he doesnt. I just like the idea of trying that with him but not sure even what to say if I even say at All. Maybe I should just forget it. =( I just thought who better to ask about this kind of thing but you guys since most of you are experienced mommies, daddies and caretakers and maybe some of you have history in this kind of situation? I mean he is always telling me to never hold back any interests I want to explore with him even if I think he will say no?

So I have a very close friend that I'm in what I guess can be considered an open platonic relationship? We are friends and we share an intamit relationship where we do just about everything but the actual act of sex. (Sex is off limits) We just call each other friends but obviously it's a little more than that And I know he has other friends that he is close too as well. Although he has no interest in diapers, he is very open minded and says if I wanna wear diapers when we snuggle that he is ok with That. He wants me to be open about things I want to do even if it's something he isn't into. He says he likes to know how I feel and likes to share an intimate bond. I'm hoping to get some advice on how to tell him that I'm interested in him maybe trying a caretaker or daddy role with me? I have no clue if he would even consider it or honestly what that would mean. I don't even know what I would tell him that I would want him to do. I do want to wear around him more and I do have a big interest in him trying a caretaker daddy role if he was willing too. He has mentioned me being 100% honest about how I feel and what I might be wanting in the moment even if I know he isn't into it. So what do I do? How do I explain to him what a caretaker or daddy even is or what I would like him to do? I'm really embarressed about this interest around close friends because I know it's really wierd and probably incredibly disgusting? I mean being open about your love for diapers is hard enough let alone asking someone to be your daddy or caretaker!

1 1/2 years ago I had an online friend offer to be my online daddy. He said that he thought I would benefit from having a daddy to talk to when I'm upset and a daddy to help me feel little and special might make me happier or benefit me and he wanted to be that for me until I met someone special. Since then it's been really nice having someone even online to be that role. A week ago I met a new furry online that is also a caretaker that I think is pretty cool. Where am I going with all this? Well I was thinking today about how happy having an online daddy made me. I can't explain the joy I get when I feel special, little and cared for. The feeling of needing your daddy makes me happy and for those who are just DL's that might sound absolutely crazy but those who are AB OR ABDL understand what I mean. I was thinking about how wonderful it would really be to have someone in real life be that for me and I was wondering if that was actually a reality? I mean, do people really have daddies and caretakers in real life there for them? Does the permanent daddy and little one relationship exist in real life? Does that work or is that relationship a time and place type of situation where a person is only a daddy or caretaker to someone else at special scheduled times? If I met someone who was a caretaker kind of person, and we really liked each other, what are the chances of having that relationship and would it cause issues between 2 people who cared for one another in an adult relationship? I'm just curious about other people's experiences, specially those who are lucky to have a real life caretaker/daddy relationship with someone or your partner.

Now that I've been through 2 cases of these diapers and I'm impatiently waiting for my 3rd case to arrive today, I think now would be a good time to express my thoughts on these diapers. I had said earlier that I came from store brand pamps and coming from store brand pamps it's of no surprise that these would be my favorite diaper to date! Lol there so much more absorbent then what I am use to, I don't have to double them to get a good experience, they're thick and there plastic! I can't tell you how much I have missed plastic backed diapers! At this point there is no way I could ever go back to store brand diapers. I mean, I ran out of diapers On Thursday night hoping to receive my shipment Friday not knowing they would ship this time from Cali. Instead of buying store brand to tie me over I had been pamperless since then! I know what your thinking, so brave! D: it's been scary! :< With that said I have experienced the pin hole leak a few times. It appears only to happen when you overload a particular area. These diapers (like most I'm sure) don't do a very good job at evenly distributing liquid through out itself and they don't absorb as fast as others. I think they used the softer thinner plastic they use to help with air flow. I think instead, liquid tends to escape out of micro holes that will naturally be in the material they use. As far as the tapes go, like all diapers, if you tape the diaper on too tight, the tapes will break under pressure. If you have any oil or powdery substances on your hands then the tapes will not stick properly. Personally out of the 72 Abena Xplus L4 diapers that have been on my butt, I could count all the fails I have experienced on one hand. I find taping the diapers on slightly looser then tight helps with that, not to mention in order for the leak guards and things to work properly, you will need some room in between the legs and other places to do its job. For now, I'm satisfied with these diapers and they will continue to be my diaper of choice until I get the chance to try the Infamous Dry 24/7. I also plan on trying Bambino Bellissemo diapers very soon. I hear those are wonderful. I'm still in diaper experimentation and I havent tried all of the different brands. On a side not, I plan on leaving work a little early so that I can rush home and get my butt in a diaper before going out to dinner and movie with my fur friends! I'm excited! :3

I've had a history of bedwetting most my life. I didn't stop wearing diapers till I was 9 and even then I should have still worn them. I've had problems off and on since then. With my most recent goal of being in control, I have discovered why I have accidents and I'm now 110% positive that I have an allergy to milk that causes bedwetting. This is an issue becoming more and more known online now and from what I read, milk can irritate the lining of the bladder and cause the sphincter to relax up to 50% more then usual causing someone to possibly void with out warning while in a deep sleep. I spent the last 30 or more days cutting off milk all together and I have not had a single accident since then! I drink tons of ice tea and even soda on occasion and no problems. Last night I had milk and 20 min ago I woke up soaked. I am convinced 110% that for one reason or another, milk caused my bedwetting problem and I can not allow myself to have milk passed noon if that. Just thought I would share and anyone who who has a bedwetting problem that has a history of drinking a lot of milk late at night should just trying cutting off milk drinking and see if it changes anything. I'm just happy that I have figured out my trigger. I do not like bedwetting, its embarrassing and It's a nuisance to me. And it makes it incredibly difficult to share a bed with someone you may like with the fear that you might haven an accident and get them wet. Anyways, that's my share time! I'm going back to bed!

Hmm I was hoping someone knew of a few good websites that sold adult baby clothes that might have them maybe even with cute design on it.

Yeah! That is exactly what I'm talking about! I don't know why I forgot they where also called shortalls lol I am looking for khaki shortalls!

So hopefully this is posted in the right area! Lol I was wondering if anyone knew or could link me somewhere that I can find adult Tan Khaki Overall Shorts. I'm not really looking for anything with kid stuff on them (Though I'm not entirely against that either) however I'm looking for tan khaki overall shorts like a kid would wear. Plain tan khaki overall shorts with pockets and stuff! I'm having a hard time finding them or adult kid clothes in general.

I wear because they make me happy. I find comfort in having a nice soft thick crinkly diaper wrapped around my butt like a hug! When I am upset, sad, overwhelmed, frustrated or alone they help me find comfort and safety. I sleep better with them on at night (when I am not having a leaking problem). I am just happier in general when I have my diapers near by!

OK! So I just ordered a case of Abena Xplus L4's and I wanted to discuss this diaper somewhere. I thought this was the perfect place. So these diapers are really thick and there is o much plastic! @_@ I'm use to store brand diapers (cloth) and so it feels so different to wear plastic diapers again! I LOVE THEM! D: However I had a few questions for people who are more experienced in these diapers. How should these diapers fit? I noticed when I wear these, there is a gap near my rear in the leg holes and I was wondering if that was normal? Also, according to XPMedical there is suppose to be rear elastic waistband and I am noticing there isn't one, is that because I am wearing L4 and not M4? I have to get use to a diaper that I can't easily reseal. That means putting it on and tapping it up right the first time. Maybe I am not tapping these tight enough. The leak out the side earlier and that was what I was hoping to make harder to happen. Let me know what you think from your experiences with this diaper.

Well according to an article on goodnights.com (http://www.goodnites.com/bedwetting-education/articles/eating-and-enuresis-how-foods-affect-bedwetting.aspx) milk can irritate the lining of the bladder which can cause bedwetting and since I tend to drink so much it's possible. I know thi article is designated for children but I don't see why it can't apply to adults to.

I usually drink 2% though because I'm counting calories and going to the gym 6 days a week I switched to 1%. I haven't had any milk today at all so we will see what happens. I'm only gonna use milk in my morning smoothies for now.

So since this is the place for bedwetting I thought I would drop this here. I have a theory that I am gonna start testing tonight and I was just Curious of anyone else has heard or experienced this first hand. I noticed the other day that when I have nights of bedwetting where I completely sleep through wetting, I had Excessively drank milk that night. I personally have what I would like to call an addiction to milk. I tend to crave it in the middle of the night and ...well all the time really! O_O most the time if I buy milk half a gallon is gone in less then 24 hours and that's me being conscious! I have had severe events where I drank a gallon in 24 hours. I read that there is a very small percentage of people who could actually experience bedwetting after drinking milk late in large amounts because its known to promote deep sleeping. Has anyone else experienced this? I have always been a heavy milk drinker. I think it might be tied to my night time accidents. I GUES we will see cause I am not drinking milk past noon.

Well I can't even wraps my head around going through all of that but I will say I have only worn one diaper with no stuffer again last night and I haven't had any accidents at all in the past 2 days however 3 days ago I was padded with a stuffer and I soaked my bed so I don't know. I do know that I like wearing to bed. I am gonna continue to wear and see what happens but I do drink way to much caffeine and so maybe I should cut that out. When I get paid next I will invest in better diapers. I am thinking dry 24/7. I guess what I will do is I will have to let the hotel know about my accidents and I will bring extra sheets and cover in case I need it.

Well, to clear up a few things, I wanna start by saying I've had this problem most of my life and it has only become more of an issue gradually in the past few years. I wet the bed every night till I was 9 and even after I quite wearing diapers, I still had accidents a few times a month. One of my biggest issues is the fact that I have to go potty in the middle of the night easily 3 or more times. Its like my body has 4 bladders to empty out at night! I am familiar with sleep apnia because my dad has been diagnost with it (finally) 2 months ago. I have been trying to get him to get tested for over a year now. with that said, i do not have a problem eith getting goodc Rest in fact if anything i sleepctoo well. When I'm wearing I don't wake up, PERIOD. I completely sleep through the night and if I have to go, generally when I have to go, either my body just releases it with out warning or Im in such a deep sleep that the warning is not strong enough to wake me up... Not sure what it is however woken up from the urgancy to go potty while wearing a diaper a few time however, I have no explanation. I did stop wearing diapers for the last 2 months to see if maybe I could get it better under control and I didn't really see much of an improvement. As usual, when I am not padded and I'm sleeping without a diaper on, I usually wake up either In the middle ofvalready wetting the bed or At the exact moment of wetting e bed unless I'm in a deep sleep in which I don't wake up until I feel like I'm swimming in a cold river. That is when I realize I have soaked the bed. However I will admit I feel like in a 7 day week I have better ods waking up if I don't wear then when I do because I sleep WAY better when I wear a diaper to bed. I think this might be part of the problem. I think my problem is that I have to go so Frequently and with such urgency that when I am sleeping that if I'm getting too good of sleep, my body doesn't know I need to go and I just go. Honestly, I can't find a pattern! Last night I only put on one diaper with no stuffer and I didnt wake feel the need to go potty till that morning and usually I can Guarantee soaking the bed when I only wear one! So honestly I have no clue what the deal is! The problem did start to get worse a few years go when I started wearing diapers for the first time since i was 9. So maybe that has something to do with it but its really frustrating. I just wish i could wear to bed becausd it makes me happu when im not a bedwetter. I wan't to say that I work out at the gym for a half to an hour a day 6 days a week (excluding Sunday unless I skipped a day). I wake up every morning around 7 am and generally work 10 to 6 o'clock shifts as a contract salesman for 2 cellular carriers. I do drink a lot of soda (diet) probably more then anyone should, I don't drink enough water and I am addicted to milk at night. I crave milk usually in the middle of the night so if I do wake up in the middle of the night regardless I can guarantee that I am craving milk in which I keep stocked. I will not wear a cathator or keep a unreal jar bedside, that's unsanitary (both) and if I am waking up to go, I can go to the bathroom seeing as I live in a 365 sq ft studio.

Thanks for the advice, I have been avoiding ordering online diapers because of shipping. I'm woried some drunk in my apartment building will steal my packages thinking he can sell it for money or something. I need to look into a PO BOX or maybe leaving it at the post office for me to pick up then because store brand diapers are not absorbent or tall enough. As far as my friend who I am rooming with goes she knows about my problem (incredibly brief conversation) and she knows I am a babyfur but I didn't go into detail about my problem. I'm too embarrassed to talk to the hotel so maybe I should just ask them what size the bed is and buy plastic cover and sheets for it myself?

Well, I didn't want to Start a new topic considering this is really a continuation of this topic post (which I already started) so I though I would ask and update here instead. As I have already discussed my bed wetting problem (including history) in this and other topic posts I will not go into detail repeating myself. After reading pinned topics in this forum, online and advice from a friend who is a Physical Therapist, I have come to realize that "curing" this problem will not happen over night and seeing a specialist will not only equate to several possible visits but tons of spent money and I think for now I'm just going to accept and deal with the problem like I have been since I was a kid. It's a really frustrating problem (as you all may obviously already know) but I think a good amount of my frustration could be relieved if I learned to manage it better so with that said I have a few questions. First of all I would like to know if there is really that much of a difference between buying store brand diapers and online diapers like abena xplus or dry24/7? Curently I'm buying store brand diapers from Sam's Club (large pack of 48 diapers for $20) obviously for there price and even though I double them by stuffing one inside another for more absorption, I still leak usually for 3 reasons, (1) they overflow (2) they leak if I'm unintentionally sleeping on my stomach or side (3) (i don't mean to be TMI) if I become randomly erect during the night they leak out the side or top. If spending a little more money on different brand diapers will help increase my odds of a leak free night then I will do that. My other question is in regards to traveling. In May I will be attending a furry convention and have booked a hotel room with a friend for 4 nights. My friend is slightly aware of the problem but I'm embarrassed about the idea that I might soak the bed in the middle of the night and need to change the sheets or call room service or whatever. I want a good experience and I don't want to have any problems while rooming with my friend. I was wondering what precautions I should take when staying at a hotel. Should I let the hotel know? Do they have things for people like me to protect the bed and should I request extra sheets or should I just spend the money and buy my own? What is the proper Etiquette for a bedweter when spending the night at a hotel? Any other suggestions would be helpful if I forgot anything. I'm just done with waking up soaked from chest to knees in urin. I hate having to change sheets every other night and having to do extra laundry because of soaked pajamas and bed sheets! If I'm gonna have accidents every night I would like to be able to sleep through the night knowing I'm protected. I would like to keep my bed, sheets and body as dry as possible. If it helps at all I have to go during the night more then the entire day so bathroom breaks would be 2 or 3+ times a night otherwise.

I can Understand your concern. I mean I for some reason find myself in the same boat. I mean I have a history of liking stories involving sissies and I have had interest in exploring but I find myself too embarrassed to follow through. I also find myself almost hoping a close friend or someone maybe... pushing me into trying. I think the urge to exploring sissy interests is partly my frustration with myself being so embarrassed and afraid of just trying things. I get frustrated with myself because I am so closed and I wish I wasn't so afraid and embarrassed.

I wear Aeropostale Sweat pant shorts over top my diaper when I am at home! it is loose enough to be comfortable but it is still tight so you get severe diaper butt! You know, where the bulge and outline of your diaper is a heavily visible! I also wear Aeropostale sweat pants as well! there my 2 favourite things to wear with my diaper! Not only do they show off my diaper pretty good but they still look nice and there still comfortable! Not to mention the fact that the draw strings on the top are great for making sure that the top of my diaper is nice and snug when I tight the draw strings! I also wear just a diaper and shirt but not just any shirt I kinda like to wear this Red V-Neck sweater from Old Navy and a diaper because it kind of looks a little girly which makes me embarrassed to admit. I kind of want to try a skirt over my diaper that barely hides it but I am to embarrassed to try it. Honestly I kind of wish someone would make me try it. I would like to buy some more sweat pant shorts and sweat pants from Aeropostale but I would like a pair of pink ones which I don't think they make for men.

Sam's club brand adult diapers that are double stuffed for a better absorbency. I also double stuff them because then there thicker! I get 48 diapers for $20!