Mommy and Daddy

Cancer has been proven to be caused by Human Papiloma and Human Polyoma Viruses - These viruses are common (75% of adults world wide are walking around with one or more strains of these viruses living on thier skin.)They lie dormant sometimes for many years waiting for the immune system to be lowered from some other causes (smoking, heavy metals, pollution, a really bad flu etc) These viruses are sometimes passed congenitally and do not cause infection for 20+ years, they can be passed by the slightest brush of the skin and the recently developed blood test is not available everywhere. Governments have invested so much in propoganda (anti-smoking) from over thirty years ago that they are now not prepared to deal with what has been called an HPV world epidemic. HPV is found in cancers of the head and throat, breast cancer, anal and colon cancers, lung cancer and cervical cancer. It is thought to have a link to digestive cancers as well. There is a vaccine that is available on a limited basis in some places. I wouldn't worry too much about the baby powder.

Rubber Gloves are just good hygiene when it comes to diapers. Everybody has some hepatitis living in thier intestines naturally - even babies, so this is really important for the messy crowd. A hepatitis infection can happen when that Hep gets out of where it's supposed to live and is transmitted (on your hand)and gets into parts of the body where it's not supposed to live. (Rubber gloves also make for easy clean up! )

Hi Gweg, maybe try to relieve some of the other stresses in your life and your baby side will be more contented. Mommy

There is a huge difference between the kind of roleplay I might have with a sexual partner - them being my sexual partner is what changes the context of the role play more so than thier gender. Rather - when caring for another AB (who is not my sexual partner) - well, I don't feel any other feelings than those you might feel for a helpless baby in need of your care, nurturing and protection. For me it's more about context than gender, but then sex is sex and diapers is diapers eh? When I am diapering someone who is not my sexual partner, it is more like a situation like CPR or health care where you put aside your sexual side to meet the needs of another human being. Beyond that what someone does in their diaper is another matter Mommy

How do I feel when I baby someone I am not sexually attracted to? Well it is still a very intimate exchange. Diapering someone is a very physical and intimate act of nurturing.

Diaper's are made for your pleasure - why wait to wet your diaper and delay getting to put on, (or being put into) another fresh nappy - unless you are into denying yourself the indulgent pleasure of wetting that is! If you are trying to conserve on the number of Diapers you go through, try thick cloth diapers which you can have on hand - fresh from the dryer yes some boys pee while wearing thier diaper without wetting themselves, but if you keep teasing that Potty Monster one o' these days it's gonna come after your Hotdog! - and if the Potty Monster gets your Hotdog then you'll be wetting your diapers like a little girl! Not that I've ever seen that happen, I'm just saying, it could . . . - Mommy

swallowing the key so it comes out inside the locking plastic pants? - sounds like that would work! Also sounds rather uncomfortable . . . maybe you need a grown-up to be responsible for the key (and maybe the clean up).

suggestion for meet up location Money Pennies has a large private patio. They have other groups that meet there and are generally supportive of diverse communities, very trans positive and BDSM aware etc. The food is very good too.

Hey, I count six people here on this thread, I think you have eneugh people to plan a meet up ; May second is a Sunday - first weekend of the month is easy for people to remember, maybe mid afternoon - so folks have time to come into town if they are traveling, say for 3:00pm? message me if you decide to go with this, or what your plans are. Mommy

Hi we are in Calgary, also an ABDL couple, and host AB DL Calgary adult nursery. (we are everywhere! - you are certainly not alone )

Restrictions for carry on limit women to one carry on and one Diaper bag, however they are only allowed a diaper bag while traveling with a little baby, big babies don't count and Mommies traveling to visit Big babies must check thier diaper bags - discrimaination I say! (I hate checking luggage).

Hi from Mommy and Daddy in Calgary!

1) have not seen the movie - but thanks I'll check it out! 2) The challenge facing Canadian doctors is the pull between offering all the wonders of medical science and the restriction of "the budget". If you are not dying immeadiatly you may not get testing that would gain you access to more treatment. Your doctor is always choosing weather to open that pandora's box or let you sit with your symptoms untill you need care. So preventative medicine is constantly put at odds with funding and over all patient health is compromised. The compromise presumably ensures security for when you are dying. - If it's something the governement does not have to pay for you can get what you want done (dentistry, cosmetic surgery). These funding policies sometimes come into conflict such as access to GRS (self funded) vs corrective surgery and prescriptions for intersexed persons (gov funded) - though they are sometimes the same procedures and drug treatments. I am satisfied knowing I have access to health care when I am dying but sometimes frusterated when I hear a dr acknowledge that they would have done more testing but do not want to unneccissarily tax the budget. 3) Incontenance products are funded by provincial health care for those recieving social assistance for disability. As far as I know the products are not generous and must be rationed meticulously and are of a lower end medical quality such as you might find in a hospital but are never of a type suited for an active or working person. In order to continue recieving them some provinces may require reporting between your doctor and social services to conferm every three months that you are still incontenant and will discuss just how incontenant you are. You will be incouraged to " make due " and my witness is that you will sometimes be left short on diapers, by trail by ordeal you will have to prove your need. They are of the disposable type - cloth is not an option though it would be more economical and better for the environment. They are reportedly uncomfortable and tend to leak (wet sand diapers). Can't remember what brand the government issue diapers are - they come in a huge box marked incontenance products (not discrete). Mommy

Weekends - like say on a Sunday afternoon, would make it easier for out-of-towners. For the sake of accessability maybe a coffee shop would be better. I've chaired groups in the past and find that invariably at some point there are members who cannot afford to be going to restaurants all the time and get left out. Though a restaurant or a movie, bowling etc. can be a fun thing to plan with such a group as an occasional thing. AB's bowling in full AB wear and super thick diapers would be fun to watch . . . ahem - supervise - Mommy

ABDL Calgary souviniers actually you get all sorts of goodies with the option to take home with you or to store discretely in your very own diaper bag - that's just for you.

If you wanted official religion status, your group could join an Amish church then form your own splinter group. (The menonites, hutterites and other Amish protestant groups have many variations of thier religion depending on the preferences of the group - how they want to live. When someone wants to do something different, or if the community becomes too large, they break off and form a seperate sect/colony/church). Then you could have a whole colony of diapered folks. In New DiaperHolm wearing diapers could be considered part of modest dress and required at all times! - The thicker your diaper, the better! The Holdeman Menonites are very into modest dress as a demonstartion of thier faith, Hutterites practice this as well. This shouldn't be too big a break from tradition since bonnettes are already part of the religious uniform for many Amish religions. - And the wide waistless suspendered amish pants, and wide full skirts, would have no problem accomodating big practical diapers.

I am just curious how some of the Mommies and Daddies came into the Diapered community. There are lots of stories here about how folks fell into the ways of diapers - but not alot of stories from the Mommies and Daddies. For me, I have always been into roleplaying, and also have training and experience as a helth care aid (read proffessional diaper changer). Daddy also likes to be little so when he showed me his diapers - everything fell into place. This was quite a few years ago. Being a Mommy is a perfect synergy of these skills and interests and has been so enjoyable. I have always loved being the caring, nurturing type so it was natural for me to be a Mommy. Sometimes I like to be little too, but mostly I'm the Mommy In Febuary 2010 we decided to open our home to the ABDL community for roleplaying and ageplay. This was because there weren't too many places where AB's could gather to do roleplaying with like minded people (we are the only location in western canada that I know of). I am interested how other Mommies came into the AB community? - though we played within our private circle, I did not discover an online community until recently. Mommy

Big Swirely "Carnival Pops" - both the lolies, and also I have these giant soother candy lolipops 4 inches pacifier shaped, with a shield and paci ring and everything - and fills your whole mouth with sweet sucking sugary goodness that you can suck on all day long and not get to the end of it - MMMMMMMMMMMMMmmmmmmmmmmmm

Yes Wetnmessy24/7 no doubt qualifies as amoung the most squishy and proud! - But also maybe deserving of a little more acceptance. Nobody should be treated badly for wearing a diaper - weather it's fresh as baby powder or soggy and stinky. When out in public nobody knows that you are a squishy diaper lover, for all they know you absolutly can't help your state, and may suffer from diability - and still deserve the same respect, acceptance and consideration every one else does. I am surprised anyone would be so RUDE and Cruel as to draw attention to what may be a compromising and humiliating accedent. When Wetnmessy leaves his door, he goes as an individual. He is not representing the ABDL community at large, he's just a guy, who might smell a bit - or alot, depending on what time of day it is. I understand having to keep a schedual, having worked in personal care homes, group homes and other health care settings (I've changed alot of diapers) and sometimes people get stinky. (Though Wetnmessy24/7 has a very restricted schedual - I have heard of others who are subjected to similar conditions under home care where they don't even have the option of an extra change or a good scrub) Though Wetnmessy's schedual is voluntary, when he goes out his door, nobody knows that, so he still deserves to be treated like any other fecal incontinant stinky diapered member of society - as an equal and with inclusion.

At 21 you may find that many women are somewhat sexually inexperienced - though girls are having intercourse as young as 9, many do not expand thier ideas about sex and sexuality until later in life. Women can be especially hung up thier own bodies. I have heard of some women interpreting diaper love to a comparison of thier vagina to a diaper (and not feeling flattered about it). - heterosexist? yes. The important thing is to take it slow with people - make sure there is a firm foundation of friendship before trying to indoctrinate non diaper lovers.

I don't know - sounds like wetnmessy247 has a system that keeps 'em well . . . wet 'n messy 24/7 and brings a little diaper shame once in a while - admit it you enjoyed being found out didn't you (just a little?)

Hi Jake and Welcome! I don't think you need to worry too much - however, some places have some pretty severe laws regarding child pornography. In Manitoba (a province of Canada) "zero tolerance" legistlation allows them to go after people for the "suggestion or implication of sex with a minor" - technically it is not legal for strippers (who are clearly adults) to wear their hair in pig tails or to appear on stage holding a teddy bear, though I have not heard of this being used to prosecute people over videos of women in diapers - which may be argued as not being pornographic because merely wearing diapers is not considered a sexual act. If you are concerned you can often ask a lawyer for a half hour consultation free of charge where you can get lagal advice specific to your region.

Okay I'll do what I can to prevent myself from launching into charecter - I do love demeening stinky AB's! Welcome to DD - maybe you will be adopted by a stern UK Mommy who will lock you in diapers and never let you out! Mommy (PS I think we are all a little naughty just for turning up here - you naughty boy!)

So does anyone know which service providers facilitate these kind of fantasies? (We don't have hospital furniture - is there any one who does this - maybe in Montreal or Europe??)

Some good advice Moogle, real health proffessionals are not allowed to baby patients - even people who are intelectually disabled and may actually relate at the level of a three year old, they are entitled to dignity and to be respected as adults. What you are discribing could only happen at a facility geared to ABDL fantasy. We are not currently equipped to facilitate hospital fantasies as we do not have a hospital bed (We have a nursery for ABDL's) There are certainly people here who could do this for you - but not from public health service providers.