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yeah it happened to me two weeks ago at Office Max. My diapers were all in the wash and my printer ran out of ink. So I figured I could make it and back before I had to go. There was a sale going on and it took longer than I thought. I was at the end of the line when I started to pee and pee and pee. I felt it running down my leg! I felt it soaking the front of my pants. Luckily I had a some what long coat on and pulled it down as far as I could. But as I paid I think the clerk noticed because she kept looking down at me. I paid and hurriedly walked to my car. I wonder if anyone slipped in the puddle

Good for you! None of us can live up to others expectations. We can't live anyone's life nor follow in their foot steps. Life is about choices and adventures and living life to its fullest. Some climb mountains and some climb mountains wearing diapers. My congratulations to you on your decision, BRAVO! I believe you will find that as time goes on and you are happy and comfortable in your diapers you will notice that you are exuding the same positive energy. People will take notice and want to know your secret, and won't that be fun!

I checked out this site and all I can say is I guess it gives this idiot a sense of purpose. He searches the message boards and finds something that he doesn't understand and exposes it to the vanilla public like it is a Taboo. His closed mind won't let him investigate further or read a primer or any real life stories of people like us. NO!, not only is he an idiot, he is ignorant and closed minded. I have met people like this in my life and sometimes they have the most to hide. Given the choice of dealing with a person that wears diapers by choice and is a genuine happy and understanding person, not to mention tolerant as well, or this type of wing nut, well the writings on the wall. Years ago I was reading the Sunday paper and I came across an article. It was about a local sex shop. Seems this group or this guy walked into the shop, grabbed something off of the display, walked up to the clerk and threw it down on the counter and exclaimed,"THIS STUFF OFFENDS ME!" So what if it offends you. Don't go into the sex shop! These pea brains can't help themselves. They have to go around crusading for what they term abnormal. Funny thing about that word,"normal", there is no such thing except to say that normal is what is what you do on a daily basis, day in and day out and that's it. Some of us use diapers for security or stress relief. I guess to this guy it makes more sense to crawl into a bottle of alcohol or do drugs.

I don't have to be seen as a DL, I am a DL. and by the way I hate that classification. Wearing diapers is as natural to me as it isn't for others. I am diaper dependent and I know I will never out grow my need for them as I have tried countless times. I am not medically incontinent and yet if I were to do go any where without wearing a diaper I would pee my pants. I don't have to force myself or consciously tell myself to pee, It just happens. I have been wearing diapers full time all of my adult life and just like many here, it began when I was just a kid. Wearing diapers is a life style choice and one that has more pluses than minuses. First of all there is nothing that is more comfortable than wearing a diaper, whether it be cloth or a disposable diaper. Secondly they are so incredibly convenient. No searching and then finding a less than sanitary restroom. No waiting in long lines at a public event. No loss in production during the day or frequent stops to pee. Clothing fits and looks better. Diapers offer a little extra padding between you and that cold car interior during the winter months. They offer a comfortable, safe and secure sense of well being. They're a conversation piece, nothing starts a conversation like, "Hey, are you wearing a diaper?" LOL! Whenever I either told someone that I wear diapers or if they found out on their own, most of them come to the conclusion that I'm still the same person, albeit a bit more vulnerable now. It is that vulnerability that has made me a much more understanding, tolerant and genuine person. I like myself and am comfortable with who I am. How many people that you know can say that. So take my advice, Put on your diapers and enjoy the ride.

You could asking at the medical or hospital supply stores if they would order them for you?

Every time I check out my profile it says that I have not yet set my status? I don't know what this means nor do I know how to set it. Any advise?

I did this very same thing eight years ago. For some reason I thought I was living a double life or living a lie or not being true to myself and yes, I thought I would explode if I didn't tell someone. My wife knows I wear diapers but for some reason it wasn't enough. I started with telling a couple of friends that I no longer worked with. I didn't come right out and tell them in person, I wrote all of them a letter. The first person I told was my sister. I called her on the phone and told her I had something to tell her. I spilled my guts and we had a long talk about it. She said she remembered coming into my room when I was a kid and catching me in a diaper but never saying anything about it. I felt the weight of the world fall off my shoulders. It was quite liberating. I thought I was on a roll so I told a bunch of my friends over a few rounds of beers. One got up from the table and said, "Don't ever contact me again!" and stormed out. The other three that were there shocked me by not batting an eye. There collective comments were that they couldn't believe they never noticed before. We are all still friends, although the subject does not come up anymore. Lastly I told my brother and he didn't speak to me for five years. He was so shocked and angry that I thought we would never speak to each other again. This caused such a rift in my family. My wife felt betrayed and I was on the verge of a divorce. What liberating effect i felt at first was short lived. I accomplished nothing and only destroyed my reputation with them. So take my advise and tell only those people in your live that a re truly open-minded and preferably AB/DL aware as it is just not worth it

When I was first married we live in a four family apartment. My wife worked retail and often worked nights until ten or eleven. I was wearing Curity flat diapers back then. I would go down in the basement at night with my diaper pail as the washers and dryers were usually freed up then. I had been doing the laundry for a while when the phone rang. I ran up to answer it and as time went on I forgot about the stuff in the dryer. I ran down stairs and there before me were all of my diapers, neatly folded in my clothes basket. I never found out who it was. We bought our first house in the suburbs and it was a fixer upper. I was always doing home repairs. One particular summer I was sanding all of the old paint off of the house. I was up on a ladder when my neighbor came bay with a cold beer. I came off the ladder and we stood their talking and drinking, all the while my neighbor had this smirk on his face. His phone rang and he excused himself, I went to climb back on the ladder and I saw that my diapers were exposed at my waistband. I was diapered many times after that and he never made any comments. Last summer I was on a company outing for all of the employees in our construction firm. The boss had rented a pontoon boat and we were cruising a local river for the day along with food and drinks. I made sure I was well diapered for the day so I added a booster pad in my disposable diaper. As the day went on I was getting bit wet, not to the point that I was concerned I would leak but my diaper was swelling a bit. Throughout the day, people kept getting up to use the restroom on board. Paula, (one of the sales people) came and sat down next to me and whispered in my ear. She said,"Apparently those diapers you're wearing are holding up quite well!" I must of turned a few shades of red. I then turned to her and said, "You know, you are the first person that has ever noticed I was wearing diapers!" "Don't kid yourself, we've all noticed your crotch all bunched on many other occasions, it's no secret to most of us!, but don't worry we all like you!" The following month the economy took a hit and most of us had been laid-off.

Bladder control? what's that?! I wake up in a wet diaper and as soon as I am out of the shower, (sometimes before) I am peeing again. Dry diapers do not last too long on me as I have been peeing without notice for a few years now. Except for that fluke of five weeks that I was actually dry, my normal life is wet 24/7. In addition to this past five week dry spell, I have been wet all of the time. Take my advise, if you wet constantly like me, don't buy a cheap diaper that needs to be changed several times a day. Buy top of the line, you will not regret it.

Well I am surprised to say the least and a little embarrassed at the same time. I realize now that I should have done a members search to actually see you is on the DD sight. My apologies and thanks to all who replied. I feel much better now that I know I am not the only old fart here. Many thanks!

I was right around forty- five when I began telling my friends.

I am fifty-four years old, male and a DL if that helps

I couldn't agree more with what has already been said. When I began falling in love with my girlfriend, I had a ton of anxiety trying to figure out how to tell her of my diaper desires, however once it was out in the open and she accepted ALL of me,we got married and have been ever since. I know to many people that have tried to keep their diaper wearing a secret from their spouse. Some succeed and some have been caught. It's never a good situation to spring this type of thing after the "I do's." Be honest with each other from the get go.

I am fifty-four years old and I believe that puts me in a class by myself. If I had to guess at the average age here at DD, I would say it is in the twenties. I don't know the exact number of older adults here but I'd say the number is less than ten percent. For those of you just getting into wearing diapers or the ab or the dl scene, just know this, these feelings that you have will never go away. This attraction to diapers is as intertwined into the core of who you are as DNA is. You can wake up someday and think that you have out grown your need for diapers, pack up all your stuff or throw it all away and think it is all behind you. THINK again, as soon as you are out, give it a week, a month or almost a year and the desire to be in those diapers will be back with a fury. If I had the choice to go back in time and not be attracted to diapers or to keep things the way they are, I would choose not to have the desire. I have been wearing diapers, either cloth or disposables over half of my life. I have done this by choice. I got tired of all of the mixed feelings that come with this lifestyle. The feeling of being the only one. The feeling of not having anyone to talk to about this,(pre-internet). Being afraid to tell anyone. Thinking there is something drastically wrong with me. All of these feelings and so many more. I finally came to the realization that in order for me to remain sane and start being happy was to accept you I am. I went from frequent diaper use to 24/7 diaper use. I became comfortable with wearing and wetting in public to the point that I no longer ever wore adult underwear. To many of you, wearing diapers is a very private and secretive thing that you do. For me it was the feeling of living a secret or double life. So I chose my closest friends and I came out to them about my diapers. It is as though once all of this was out in the open, the weight of the world was off of my shoulders and I could really begin to live. In my humble opinion be careful what you wish for cause you might just get it all. I have accepted myself and my lifestyle. I wear diapers all of the time and live a fairly normal life, albeit well padded. Nowadays I can't imagine my life without diapers and I have come to the realization that I will Never outgrow my need for them. On the other hand I wish sometimes that I never was attracted in the first place.

And people hear about our community and are disgusted?... Go figure

I also enjoy this same thing,of diapers and spanking. Fortunately I married a truly loving and understanding lady. Soon after we began dating , I came out to her about both issues. WE just had our thirty-first wedding anniversary on the 12th of August and the diapers are 24/7 and the spankings frequent as well.

I wear these diapers exclusively 24/7 and yes the tapes can be a pain. I solved this problem by applying a strip of white duct tape over the diaper tapes at the legs. Haven't had an issue with the tapes ever since.

are these still for sale

Like most of us in the diapered community, we all at one time or another wondered what was wrong with us that attracted us to wearing diapers. In addition, many of us have been overcome with guilt and vowed to put all of our diapers and things behind us (no pun intended) an every time we did this we all have come back time and time again. Take my advise from a guy that has been wearing diapers all of his adult life. Calm down, take a deep breath and accept who you are and what completes you. In all of our cases that commonality is a diaper. Don't get down on yourself because you like to wear or wet or mess in your diaper. Don't read more into any of this than there is. And Please don't start believing that you are a freak or weird or that something is mentally wrong with you. Come to the diapered community to find answers, advise and companionship. You are among friends here, and more so than anywhere else. Take you time and experiment with your diaper wearing and find out what you like about them. Are you a baby or just like to wear them as in every day life. You are not freak you are however unique. So many people search their whole life in search oif happiness. Consider yourself fortunate that you have already found it.

Hi everyone, Wearing diapers really do make me happy, hence my screen name. I have been wearing them by choice all of my adult life. Although I have worn cloth diapers with vinyl pants, I switched to and consider Abena Abri-Form extra plus diapers to be far superior to cloth and any other disposable on the market. I feel completely normal wearing diapers so much that I don't even own a single pair of adult underwear. I figure what's the point when I am in them around the clock. I know I am older than most here but I have tons of experience dealing with every aspect to diapers and this life style so email me and let's get to be friends

I have been wearing diapers all of my adult life. I used to wear cloth for both day and night, however doing all that laundry is just a royal pain. I have been wearing Abri-Form extra plus diapers for the past year and I think cloth has finally found it's match. These diapers are the best disposable diaper, heck the best diaper period. I wake up every morning soaked. I take off my diaper and wrap it up and throw it in my diaper pail. After showering and a drying off I apply a small amount of baby lotion to my diaper area. I take a dry diaper from the closet, a Tena booster pad and a pair of plastic pants. The plastic pants aren't really necessary but I just like the feeling. I lay the Abri-Form out on my bed and take the Tena booster pad and punch a bunch of holes in it before pulling off the strip and adhering it to my diaper. I lay down on the diaper and apply some baby powder. Then I pull up the diaper between my legs and tape the top tapes first and then the leg tapes. I find that this gives me the best fit. Once diapered, I pull out a roll of white duct tape and tear off a eight inch piece and tape over each leg tape on each side. I follow this with either a pair of Abena "fixing" pants or a pair of plastic pants and I finish getting dressed. I work as a service guy for home builders. This requires me to travel throughout the day. I am a moderate to heavy wetter and with the booster pad, I have not leaked yet. This means that I can usually make it over eight hours before I have to change. I do however keep extra diapers and stuff in a diaper bag in my trunk, just in case I am out longer than planned. When I get home I do a diaper change with some Pampers wipes and powder and add a booster pad to my fresh diaper and the cycle begins all over again.