Christopher

Haha yeah I found a gf who didn't mind me wearing so I am happy to be back in diapers

haha I've only worn around her once. The only thing I'm afraid of, is that when we go out, we tend to end up having sex when we get back for the night and I don't want to turn her off so much that she will turn against it. I might try wearing around her tonight because i don't think we're staying together over night. We'll see what happens.

haha thanks for being optimistic for me. I guess I just really dont know how to approach the topic. Cause I usually go about telling a gf by giving clues or soemthing and I can't do that cause she will know off the bat and for some reason its just awkward like that. It will happen, trust me, I just need to find the way and the time. I'll keep you posted.

haha damn, sounds like it turned out pretty well for you. BG sounds like a real closed minded bitch though. (sorry about the language).

haha get some tequila in them and they'll probably want to see you in your diapers. Anyways, I'd put a decent amount of emphasis on how this fetish is classified in the psychology community as a non-coercive sexual act. It is innately innocent as long as you don't bring other people in contact with it if they don't want to be. Now, they may bring up that you brought your gf in contact with it when she didn't want to be but thats not really the case. She walked in on you without you knowing she was going to be there. It's your right as a human being to find pleasure in whatever you want as long as its not hurting yourself or anyone else. I recently bought this really good book on kinks, basically for the fun of it but there is a lot of really good information in it. It's called "Come Hither: A commonsense guide to kinky sex" written by Dr. Gloria G Brame. I suggest anyone buy it. But in one section she lists our basic sexual rights as represented by the U.S. Constitution. 1. The freedom of any sexual thought, fantasy, or desire 2. the right to sexual entertainment, freely available in the marketplace, including sexually explicit materials dealing with a full range of sexual behavior 3. the right not to be exposed to sexual material or behavior 4. the right to sexual self-determination 5. the right to seek out and engage in consensual sexual activity 6. the right to engage in sexual acts or activities of any kind whatsoever, providing they do not involve nonconsensual acts, violence, constraint, coercion, or fraud 7. the right to be free of persecution, condemnation, discrimination, or social intervention in private sexual behavior There's a couple others but nothing that really pertains to your particular situation. I would focus on numbers 1, 4, 5, 6 and 7. Especially 7. Furthermore, I would bring up the fact that according to the Diagnostic and Statistics Manual of the American Psychiatric Association, fetishes are not considered psychologically unhealthy or non normal unless they have a significant negative impact on your life functioning. And, you sound like a decent guy with his head on straight so I'm sure its not effecting you in a very negative way at all. I want to note that I do attend a nationally recognized university and the classes I have completed were all led by significant influential psychologists in their respective fields. The book we used in my psychology of sexuality class has this to say about fetishes; the only note-worthy crime that most fetishists commit is burglary to obtain the sexual object if they cannot get it on their own. Only very rarely does it develop into something more severe. That's all I can really think of for now but keep me updated.

Haha I try really hard not to assume anything in any situation but I think this goes beyond a feeling that she knows. While I was dating my ex, she told me that my current gf knew I liked to wear diapers and had asked her questions about it. So it was brought up before we split up and not after words... but I do think they had a conversation about it at some point recently as my ex is not happy that I am dating her roommate. Go figure!

wow.... how do you think you're going to go about explaining it to them? I've been through a lot of psychology of sex classes and I think I could pull something out of my ass if I were put in that situation but I'd be freaking nervous as hell. probably need to be drunk to have that conversation. Good luck and let us know how it goes.

Junibug... I'm sorry to hear about your parents.. thats gotta be pretty rough. Anyway as far as me thinking she knows about it, I actually am positive she knows that I like to wear diapers. I'll tell you the whole story. In high school (I am now almost out of college) I worked with this girl who became one of my really good friends. She was one of the first girls I ever told about the diapers. Well, she didn't really care but thought it was pretty weird but told my now girlfriend who she has been best friends with for a while. Well I started dating one of her roommates in college who I had quickly told about the diapers and she took it really well participating nearly every night if I wanted. That gf (now my ex) is roommates with my current gf and had told me that she knows and has asked about it before we were dating. i'm not sure what she asked about but I dont think it was that bad. I also don't think its too big of a deal to her because we are dating now and I don't think she would have started dating me if it was that big of a deal. The thing that bugs me now is that my current gf knows that I wore diapers around my ex gf. And I just think thats kind of a weird situation. It's already weird that I've had sex with both and they know that... but diapers brings it to a whole nother level. I know I can't keep it secret for that long because it is a part of me and I'm not going to withhold that just for a girl I'm not even in love with yet.

I agree!

I think thats how I might bring it up but she may not remember

haha oh trust me I tried. I asked her what she meant but we were with a bunch of my other friends and she didn't say anything else about it.

Keiff I'm not sure if she accepts it or not you know?? The only time she ever came close to saying anything was about 2 years ago when we were drinking and she said "I know your secret" and then winked and never said anything else. So I'm not sure if she's hoping I won't bring it up or what. Well it should be an interesting story when I do actually tell her and I'll keep you all updated.

Yeah, I'm not commenting at all but this is the only good thread I'm reading right now! I'm not in the same boat as you but I'm curious to see how it goes because I'm about to tell my girlfriend about my diapers one of these days.

haha junibug that actually does make sense. I definately don't want to make it into a huge deal or anything. I kind of want to tell her in a joking way. But, cat, I'm positive she knows. She's friends with my ex and my ex told me she knows.

Yeah, maybe she is waiting for it but I'm not sure. I don't want to push her away, but then again she does already know. Should I just come out and tell her or let her find out about it somehow?