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Really great post Patti! I sometimes live out my mommie punishment fantasies. I play at a place called The Dominion located in L.A. where ladies are professionals at role-play. Tina is one of my favorite mommies. I am a male person but I like to wear female pink panties to relax as well as my diapers. Tina and I make up a fantasy where I have misbehaved. For example, I am a teen-age boy caught having his girlfriend over when he should be doing chores. My girlfriend is sent home and I am ordered to strip and put on a pink pair of panties. Tina then orders me across her lap and gives me a firm spanking. After my bottom is warmed up and she has lectured me, my panties are pulled down and the paddle comes out. Tina paddles my bottom until I am red and puts me in the corner for some corner time. The experience is very exciting for me and Tina understands and allows me to masturbate after the experience to help relieve the pleasure/pain. Whew! What an experience. I can hardly wait until the next time I can see Mommie Tina.

I had a great time with my spanking partner, Heidi, at The Dominion in L. A.! I am what is known in the trade as a "switch." This means I play both top and bottom roles. I am 70% submissive and 30% dominant. For those of you that only want to be the spanker, I feel you are thinking that you want to avoid severe pain. Well, the pain level is negotiated between the participants and no one has to go harder than they want too. Spanking can be very erotic and pleasurable if it is done right and has nothing to do with being "sick" or in need of therapy. Remember, those in glass houses are wise not to throw stones. Remember the people on this site like to wear diapers. Many people would view us as "sick." I do not. The human experience has many variations. Let's all have fun! :-)

I am looking forward tonight to playing at a place called "The Dominion" in Los Angeles. I will be seeing Heidi, my favorite spanker. She takes me through the paces with otk, the spanking bench, and bending over while grabbing my ankles. A variety of implements are uses. A special treat is a few light stinging strokes with the cane. We role-play and have lots of fun. She understands my need to diaper or panty myself as part of my experience. How about some of you out there. What fun have you had with spanking? What are your stories?

Well, it is fun to come across unexpected things. If you check my posts in various places, you know I am quite a spanking enthusiast both giving and receiving. Receiving is more home base to me though. I love role-play and of course diapers can be a great part of role-play. I am DL not AB though and I use diapers in a different way than AB's.

Just use a search engine like Google and you can find many references to spanking equipment from leather to wood.

I am on the same page as you underwear and was very glad to find this section discussing spanking. I enjoy this activity though I have only been able to get it satisfied with pros. This is expensive but I can do it occasionally and it is worth every penny. I have formed a good partnership with two pros. I too was quite surprised when I placed a post called Diapers and Discipline and got so few responses. I am inclined to think it is a matter of embarrasment for many to talk about. Yet people are talking about their diaper desires in this forum. Go figure...

I see professional ladies for my spanking needs. We set up role plays that involve punishment but are really for pleasure. My two favorite women are Tina and Heidi who are professionals at a place called The Dominion in Los Angeles. Hand, paddle, string whips, or light caning are very exciting for me and I wear diapers or pink panties for the session. They respect my limits and understand my need to masturbate because of the excitement produced. The only problem is it is quite expensive to see pros. $100 half hour/ $180 full hour.

Thanks for the post Sarah. I definitely like and deserve to get my bottom warmed with a wooden paddle! It is very exciting for me and I can understand your needs! I love to hear my spanker say, "Diapers down! I am going to spank you. Get over my knee this minute!"

The type of spanking I am talking about only takes place consentually. Erotic spanking is much different than punishment spanking. Also, associations can be changed. No one is prisioner of their associations unless they want to be. I am not into pain. In role play spanking can be a fun power exchange. I have used it as such.

Remember to use simple search methods like Google.com search engines and print your description of what you want.

Thanks Freta for your post. I imagine spanking is not the cup of tea for a lot of people though it is a very prevalent fetish. As far as pay for play, yes, it is very satisfying but when you make only $9.75/hr it is very hard to play without destroying your finances. I recently read about a condition called "sub frenzy" where a person might spend their last dollars trying to satify their spanking cravings. I recently went through this though happy to say I can still make rent and eat but not much more unfortunately. My post was an effort to tap off some of my energy hearing from other people. I thought DL's would have a high rate for a spanking fetish but so far my post does not bear this out. Let me make it clear that spanking for pain is not of interest to me. I simply like a female to take over and spank me moderately. The feeling of being held down over her lab and spanked comforts and relaxes my tensions. Being degraded has nothing to do with it for me. Presently, I have come across some social groups that meet together for dinners and parties. I hope I can connect with them.

This is quite surprising to me! Also, it is surprising to see how many have viewed this post without comment. I hope I have not turned the group off as a new member. It is not surprising though to find it difficult to form a real life relationship involving such activities. In fact, I am 52 and have only found an outlet through "pay for play" situations. To each his own.

I wear Attends Adult Diapers. I would still rate these a 3 since they are traditional white and have ruffles on the side. As this section outlines, we are Diaper Lover's as opposed to Adult Babies. I would not wear anything with animals pictures and the like, however, if they ever make a pink diaper, I will buy it in a heartbeat since I love to be a gender bender!

Okay, I am new to this site but I am going to confess something right away. I liked to be spanked while wearing a diapers or having it in the pulled down position. I am not into high levels of pain. I just like to be given a warm/hot red bottom. Afterward, some hugging and cuddling, as I feel the warmth of the spanking wear off. I have not been able to form a relationship to satisfy this, so I turn to professionals at S/M parlors who will role-play with me. What are your experiences out there?