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I was wondering: 1. What kind of jobs do you have? 2. Did you choose the job because of you incontinence? 3. Have your incontinence ever hold you back from going out with colleagues or going to a party at your job? 4. Does your incontinence set you back compared to your colleagues? 5. Is there anything difficult in terms incontinence when you sit in a position like yours? 6. Any positive or bad sides being incontinence at your job?

I'm a little conserned about that it might show (the bulk) under a normal par of swim trunks. Then you just buy the swim trunks in a size bigger than normal or?

I think it's a little too much "I'm wearing a diaper" at the beach with the velcro. I prefure a little more discreet.

Hi I'm looking for something swim wear, where you can have a pad or a thin diaper in a normal swim wear like swimming shorts. What do you use when you are on the beach? I hope you can help :-) Regards, Diam

Hi George First I would like to say that I'm behind you 100%. I would like to know how the surgery went (when you are back in November) and I think there are more people out there who also are curious. Like I said, I'm behind you 100%, and I say go for it! It's a big step and you properly has given it a lot of thought and considered every aspect. What keeping me back for doing it is that I can not go to a party and get drunk. It does require too many changes (after several beers) and I don't want to keep a diaper bag with me all night long. One thing is private parties. An other thing is when you go into town for partying. I can't see my self wearing a diaper bag in the middle of the dance floor and those places I know do not provide toilet booths that are big enough to change. (And I can not imagine myself not going to the beach). That is my only concern. But it's about what you are willing sacrifice. When the time is right for me, I might be willing to do the same think (unless the two our pill is invented). Family and friends will of course accept it, for you are who you are. No body can change you. It will be a whole new life and I would love to hear from you about how it went. You might be the first that do it, but you are not the last! Good luck and my best wishes, Diam Ps. And to all of you that are saying

I love when the diaper crinkles. That is a real diaper! Unfortunately I wear the abena with the new layer of cloth-cover, because that is the cheapest, so no plastic

How does a normal day for you that are incontinent look like? From when you get out of bed and to you go into bed in the evning. How many changes do you need doing a normal day?