Letluvsrool

Onesies can be tough to get a proper fit. Go buy a sewing type tape measure so you can get measurements on your chest, waist, and shoulder to crotch (plus an inch or two for the diapers . I get mine from ebay a lot since the sellers there post the sizes down to the inch rather than S/M/L so you'll get a much better fit if you get lucky and find one you like in the right measurements. The styles are also waaay more varied, cute and babyish than on a lot of websites. (if you're into to that of course They also can shrink in the wash (especially fleece) so be careful. I have a onesie that felt too big when I first got it but now after a couple cycles in the wash it's great; snug but not too snug.

Get a shower nozzle that has a detachable handheld sprayer doohickie. Seriously, they're cheap and easy to install--all you need to do is use plumber's tape on the screw threads and you're done. Then marvel at how even super messy poopy diapers can be cleaned up with ease with this hand held weapon of mass sanitation. I've been poopin my diapers for so many years now, and lemme tell you brother it got so much easier when I installed one of these babies. Remember it's just poop! If you actually reproduced and had a real baby you'd lose your apprehensiveness to the stuff REAL quick.

Get yourself one of these...

OP needs to give us more details. Are you planning on wearing diapers to work or something? How exactly would your "lifestyle" come up as a topic of discussion at work in the first place?

I just add metamucil to a dinner already chock full of fiber. Usually the next morning I'll have one big poo right as I wake up, then another one an hour or two later. I have indeed had diaper loads big enough to squish forward, backward, AND side to side oooh yeah!

ABUniverse carried them for a while but there was some difficulties getting them stateside and so they were discontinued. I think personally you should save your money and try the Bambino Bellissimos instead; I've heard they're about the same thickness and much cheaper here in the US.

Have you tried eating lots of fiber or taking metamucil? It's fun to drop a load in your diapers under normal conditions, but it's that much better when you've prepared and really have to unload. Having a truly massive squishy load in your diapers is way more fun that just a normal sized poopy. You could also try suppositories or enemas if you want the feeling of completely losing control and loading up your diapers.

It's actually baby-pants.com, without the hyphen you'll get a placeholder page.

Abenas were my go to diaper for years but now with all the options like bambino, ABU, and the others I'm kinda over Abenas. The stuffing falls apart way too quickly with them.

Ha, don't hold your breath, it might take a while before anyone imports bambinos or even just nicer diapers like abena or tena. I've seen videos of those cute "Dr. P" diapers that are Asian, but I think they aren't being made any more. I've also heard they weren't that great anyway. Something tells me getting a business set up in a place like China as a foreigner would require a fair amount of bribing local officials for the permits.

There's a whole subforum for these types of posts. There's also lots of ABDLs in Oregon, you should be able to find some new friends

My favorites on this site are these:

I can't stand the way desitin smells, way too medicine-y. I've been using Balmex lately; it's not as expensive as triple paste (which is awesome too but pricy) and is completely fragrance free.

I think jumpinjammerz.com was selling footed pjs with different collegiate teams on them, not sure if your school was one of them. And I know I've seen marvel comic themed onesies on ebay. If your wants are really specific, you should befriend one of the frequent sellers on ebay and get them to do a custom piece for you. You'll pay a little extra but you'll get exactly what you ask for.

I used to do that a lot as a teenager. I'd stuff my undies with a baby diaper and not tape it up, just to have the nice padded feeling as a slept. I'd wet it in the morning, if you squat on all fours just the right way you can slowly pee into it and it won't leak.

For the baby diapers, pull the elastic waistbands off them; they should come off fairly easily without ripping open the middle part. I use a pair of scissors to poke small holes in many places on the plastic rather than make a few big cuts; this prevents the SAP from coming out while allowing liquid to soak through easy. Also using a hot glue gun to secure it in place inside the adult diaper helps. Or of course you could just buy stuffers from bambino or ABU; they work great because you don't need to poke holes and they have adhesive backing. If you're still leaking frequently, take more care when taping up the diapers perhaps. Lay down and do the lower tapes first snug along your thighs, then do the top tapes angling slightly down. Also if you're going to wear in public, get some lycra shorts or some sort of snug underwear so your diaper does shift around as much. For nighttime use, I have a washable mattress protector I got off ebay. It about 3 feet square, plastic on one side and a cute winnie the pooh cloth cover on the other. I don't wet the bed but if I'm really drunk I'll wear a diaper to bed and sleep on that so I don't ruin the mattress. Saved me quite a few times

I'd say it's when I put on a onesie/footies over my diaper and pop in a paci. If I'm still not in full baby mode then it's certainly once I've loaded my diapers.

Don't think of it in terms of "getting rid" your fetish. You can't get rid of fetishes, you can merely choose to not act upon them. Just accept the fact that you have a diaper fetish, and learn to live with it. If you choose to not wear them, great. Just don't think that you're "cured" or anything.

Being stressed out can definitely make me want to go into full baby mode, which if I have sufficient time alone then certainly would include pooping my diapers on purpose. Of course even when I'm not stressed the thought of poppin a squat and loading my diapers is quite appealing

You're allowed to believe what you want, but your attitude of dismissing that which conflicts with your worldview is exactly why Republicans got their asses handed to them in the election.Ignore the truth at your own peril.

wetset maybe?

Loling at the sour grapes in this thread. For the record, the Ben Franklin quote is bullshit; it's been going around the net recently attributed to all sorts of different founding fathers. None of them said it. http://www.theatlanticwire.com/politics/2012/11/sorry-conservatives-de-tocqueville-did-not-call-2012-election/58839/ And to anyone accusing the president of being a Socialist, I ask you this: How many industries has he nationalized? Hint: Healthcare is not one of them. As a unabashed liberal, progressive, whatever label you choose, I grudgingly voted for B.O. because the alternative was simply too nebulous. Romney tacked WAY to the right to win the primaries, and then proceeded to flip-flop on every single major policy he claimed he stood for months earlier, even being audacious enough to reverse positions within hours or days. It was so obvious to the American people that the man has no principles whatsoever; he will say and do anything it takes to get elected. Obama is too conservative for my tastes; he's continued Bush's secrecy with regards to torture, rendition, and drone attacks, plus his ordered assassination of Osama Bin Laden was a blatant violation of the Geneva conventions which the US is a signee and agreed to uphold. Some people love to hate on Obama for trying to protect social programs for the poor and elderly members of our society, but the bottom line is he's still under the thumb of the US Military Industrial Complex, and powerful multinational corporations who benefit from massive government subsidies (aka corporate welfare) while flouting our tax laws---both drain so much more money from taxpayers than social programs, yet I never hear so-called fiscal conservatives complain about out of control military spending or using public funds to subsidize private corporations who owe no allegiance to the USA. Society works best when we cooperate; we should be emulating European style economies that provide a generous social safety net in exchange for higher taxes. Countries like Sweden provide its citizens with better education and healthcare than the US; one need only look at the rates of infant mortality, prenatal care, access to higher education, and overall happiness of its populace to see just how backward and inefficient the United States' economic system is. Fortunately, the demographics are steadily shifting away from the xenophobic WASP brigade of regressive taxation, lax environmental and business regulation, and fuzzy accounting gimmicks that have been the totality of conservative policy for the past 30 years. We've tried it, it doesn't work, now it's time to leave the trickle-down bullshit in the dustbin of history and rebuild this country back into something like the one the rest of the world used to admire and respect.

Check out your local camping/hunting type store and you'll probably find some for cheap there. Also military surplus stores are great places to get long underwear for cheap.

My biggest annoyance is when there's an extended scene of desperation that ends with the character making it to the bathroom and pooping in the toilet. I know others aren't as gung ho about messy diapers as I am, but if you're going to write about someone needing to poop real bad, the obvious expectation is that they eventually lose the battle and fill their diapers. If you don't like messy diapers then why even bring it up in the first place? It would be like reading a naughty story where a couple flirt with each other all night then right when you think things are going to heat up, they politely part ways and go home alone. My personal opinion is that when I look for a diaper story online, the whole purpose is I want to read something that turns my crank and makes me want to play with myself. If I wanted a complex story arc with dynamic characters and an all-encompassing plot with non-ABDL elements, then I'd crack open a real book and read that. All these attempts to make stories about diapers into complex Sci-Fi novels or whatever are just terrible in my opinion. If you want to write novels, great! Write a novel and don't try to include any fetish elements that will limit your potential audience. If you just want to write a dirty story that makes people horny, great! Focus on that and don't try to conflate the two.