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  1. Its great that both of you can enjoy nappies together. I was a nappy lover at an early age, my teen masturbation orgasms were often accompanied by thoughts of, or actual wetting pants or makeshift nappies. Gradually the association streanghthened until reaching climax almost became dependant on thoughts/images of, or actual wetting or wearing nappies. In a relationship with my now wife, she is happy to encourage me to use nappies as part of the sexual build up. For example, I may be told to wear nappies and that she'll undress and take care of me later... I lay down, she removed my clothes before opening out the wet nappy, leaving me laying on the warm squishy wet softness, feeling it on the back of my legs extracted even more physical nappy pleasure. After a little teasing and relaxed fun, she would sit on top and ride me. With the right combination of nappy fetish and real sex, our physical and emotionally dependant sex switches were activated, leading to very enjoyable orgasms. A sex councilor advised something similar, he told me not to worry about the fetish dependancy, it helped me, and to continue as we were, but to gradually take the orgasm a little further beyond the wetting or changing stage. For example, the wet nappy could be moved further down so I wasn't experiencing so much of its physical feedback and more of the human touch, but in a combination which still leads to orgasm. After gradually Increasing the nappy to sex seperation, the her on top could eventually be after a nice wash, with the wet nappy still on the bed, but not in contact with my body. The fresh one was also there and ready for my wife to make me snug and secure after, still providing those combined nappy/diaper experiences which we have grown to enjoy and which may lead to sex at the next nappy change. The clean collection and injection of semen into the vagina after masturbation is a viable method, not as technical as AI but techniques and disposable medical devices are available for doing this yourself, they'll be somewhat cleaner and look more suited to the purpose than a turkey baster.
  2. Sorry Dyson if you took my info as if it was advice specifically for you as if youre a newbie. It was meant as general topic info, lots of new DL'S read these posts and they may not have the practical experience like us. I don't remember much forum discussion relating to top or bottom 😉 I was wondering about the lack of double tapes on your Tena slips which you mention - In the UK Tena Slip active fit in Plus, Maxi and Ultima are my normal nappies. All have double tapes, maybe they're exclusive to active fit (plastic backed) only?
  3. I wear Tena too, for a few years they have used double tapes, a darker blue base and the pale upper tape printed with Tena. Lifting the blue tape from the parking strip and folding it outwards brings the Tena tape with it. Fit your nappy and get it snug, apply the four combined tapes as each corner is ready. To adjust the fit, the Tena tape has a small zone with no adhesive, lift this edge to pull the white Tena tape away from the blue one, which remains where it first landed. Now you have a fresh tape to help with adjustments or so your nappy can be removed and put back on later. My wife changes me sometimes, once she dropped a tape too soon in the wrong area and tried pulling it off, as others note, these don't come away from the backing. I wasn't sure if mid nappy change was the right situation for me to tell her how the double tapes worked. I risked it, telling her in a subtly submissive way, she was fine with the nappy advice from the baby being changed. Top or bottom! Did you know that depending on whether the nappy user is standing or laying down, doing up either the top or bottom tapes first makes a difference to getting a secure fit and can make it easier? Standing- Top first Laying- Bottom first This was user guidance with some disposables I once used. Top first helps when the wearer is standing, when they're probably changing themselves. I followed this and have found that it definately helps with getting a dependable leg seal and fit for use either in bed or about through the day.
  4. Pullups are fine for little leaks, which the wearer would want to stop as soon as possible. AB's DL's prefer to let go of a full bladder, the experience of which, in a decent nappy is amazing, stays warm, comfy and generally won't cause those cold leaky areas which a pullup would after the same wee. Pullups are excellent for pants pooping! I bought a pack of pullups once, to find that they couldnt manage a full wee. I kept them and tried them for pants pooping when I wasn't going to wet myself (much). Their light and discrete form felt just like wearing and pooping normal underwear and pants, the warmth and bulk was easily accommodated without excessive straining, its feedback wasnt masked by a thick nappy and it was better contained than some underwear could manage. The bonus was that they could manage the sometimes unavoidable small squirts of wee as one tries to have a full and complete pants pooping, allowing more comfortable time to be spent in this naughty situation with dry outer pants and no stains finding their way through, even when sitting down! Some may say that smell is contained, but we all know that's impossible, it's escape is only delayed and pants will get stinky too. Wearing and pooping pull-ups as disposable underwear makes cleanups much easier, with only very occasional slightly messy outer clothes in need of additional laundry effort.
  5. The shower head advice is good, blasting a poopie bottom and removing or loosening a good amount of poopies before rubbing with the hands then more normal washing with cleaners like soap or shower gel to remove all remaining solids, but a residual smell can often can remain, deep in the skin. Another thing which helps a cleanup is having a smooth and hairless bottom in the areas where poo is expected to end up. Poo is plastic, with a hairy ass, it could be fibre reinforced and more difficult to remove. Desensitising to our own scent. After a messy nappy change and a realy good shower, rub, soapy wash, repeat, it is possiblle that there is still some residual aroma, but as nappy users, we become desensitised to it, especially just after changing! . Others may detect the baby aroma, its carried into skin by fats or oils in poo. Good skin cleaners won't and shouldn't remove natural oils completely and a slight aroma may still be noticed. Baby powder, scents and perfumes can mask it. Be careful how you interpret something which I found can totally remove that residual messy nappy change smell from my hands and even ass when used carefully and followed with moisturising cream. I do it so you don't have too! I was doing domestic duties right after changing myself in the morning. I was washing some surfaces and soaking coffee stained cups using a safely diluted bleach/water mix. I stopped for a rest and found myself doing a quick hand sniff test, the remaining poopie smell had totally gone without scrubbing. The cleaning mixture strength would be similar to swimming pool water, which can leave the chlorine smell on the skin for a couple of hours. So if you've had a poopie nappy and there is a detectable scent after showering, go for a swim in a pool ;o) The cleanup is often quoted as an unpleasant experience, some saying it makes them wish they hadn't tried. But it becomes quicker, easier and the use of hands is accepted and is no problem. Also cleanups done when there are no time or privacy limitations can be relaxed and allow some additional personal attention, with its pleasing result being associated with this ultimate part of using nappies for all of their intended purposes. Being male does mean that after self pleasure, I may not immediately want to wear another nappy, but back to big boy clothes prevents overuse of nappies, which reduces some of their intense anticipatory, situational, sensory, physical and exciting pleasures. Big boy clothes can always be used as if one isnt potty trained, just impulsively letting go the moment a suitable situation combines with the recognised need for a big poo. A whole different combination of experiences can be had, it justifies your next nappy, but also has its own combination of containment and leakage risks, along with different cleanup needs, which can be more effort than just disposing of a poopie nappy. How do pants poopers prepare for, or deal with what could be much more messy than a nappy?
  6. Mmmm, yes, it's so intense. I started combining poop play and masturbating many years ago. Beginning with subtle contact and no touching with my hands. First I sat on the toilet holding a length of doubled over toilet paper running from front to back, I caught my poo poo in this, feeling it's weight and subtle contact against my ass, then dropped it into the toilet before pleasuring myself. Then toilet paper laid on the closed toilet lid, pooping on this and feeling more warm squishy softness against my ass. Then wetting an pooping into a towel pulled up between my legs. Over the years it evolved to wearing adult nappies, with longer contact time, I would lay down, open up my nappy like change time and enjoy the feel of poopies up against my ass whilst pleasuring myself. Then squishing forwards, feeling the poo with my hand, gradually evolving through more touching until now, when given change time privacy, I often reach into, or open up the nappy, getting a hood handful of warm softness, which I squish allover my front parts, whilst masturbating with my messy handful. The overall situation of laying on my messy nappy and sensations of warm squishy poo poo around this area and inner thighs and sometimes being squished onto and rubbed around a nipple with my other hand are the most Intense feelings and orgasm ever. Well worth the next stage! Cleaning in a shower takes a while, but Ive edged towards the necessary direct touching during the pleasure stages over decades, my hand is already messy, so it's not a thing now. A good wash and applying a good nappy cream everywhere poopies contacted reduces the chances of rash or infections. I'm married, my wife plays along with my nappy wetting, she even wees into mine when changing me sometimes. She knows that on a non working day, if ive worn a night nappy, I often keep it on until after my morning poo, but doesn't want any direct involvement with this side of the hobby. I respect that and understand how the sight and smell of our own poo is not bad but those of other people are really yuckie! I place a known object on the stairs so she doesn't walk in to a yuckie situation.
  7. I also occasionally enjoy the different experience and physical sensations of a good poo in my pants instead of a nappy. Because messy briefs are less easy to clean, I usually wait for a pair of my briefs to be showing some wear. Then I can keep them for a messy retirement before simply throwing them away. I just noticed a suspect pair whilst putting my laundry away... These will be retired in a full filling way in about two weeks when my wife is working away for a few days. Wake up, breakfast, a little while after which I may begin to feel the need for a big poo. If the day is right, I'll change into the old undies and just continue fixing up the house, urge is quelled a few times , each getting more intense until I just pause, rellax and let the next one go as if there is no other option! My slips stretch out, catching and containing my poo, but with so much more warm squishy feedback against my body than in one of my already bulky and warm, wet nappies. The experience can be realy pleasing, and to just keep on doing odd jobs, adding more to my poopie pants like nothing unusual happened provides such a release for the mind. The non nappy option can't continue for too long without the risk of accidental staining of furniture, so I have a towel available to sit on. Soon another kind of release will happen as Im laying on a change mat with my full slips part way down my legs! I'll give them a pleasing send off.
  8. Yes! It took some time for my wife to get used to changing my wet nappies or putting on my 1st nappy, but now it's a special thing which she endulges me with a couple of times a week. After years I seeded the idea of her needing a wee as I was laying on a fresh nappy, leaving her only options- 1. Have an accident and wet herself, the bed and the carpet. 2. Use my nappy, after all, that's what they're meant for! I reminded her one weekend by telling her that ive made a very safe nappy change mat on the bed incase she gets any sudden urgency whilst putting me in a nappy, and to call me when it's a suitable nappy time... I could tell later when she was walking about the house in a slightly uncomfortable way, that she was in need of a wee. I said nothing and waited in anticipation. I was called up for my night nappy and layed down on the change mat. She straightened the thick disposable, then hesitated before pulling it up between my legs. Then she rushed to remove her jeans and panties, sat astride me and rubbed about a little before relaxing down more onto me, in this close and intimate situation, I felt her legs squeeze a little, then a trickle of wee ran over my balls, she relaxed a little more before releasing a blissfully warm, hissing flood of pee, which flowed over my groin, and cock before continuing between my legs to be absorbed into my waiting nappy. I told her how amazing it felt and how I loved her hiss pussy sounds. Knowing that her efforts were appreciated, she then finished applying my fresh but lovingly warmed nappy. I enjoyed walking about with that 1st pee feeling in the nappy, but with that warmth felt on my skin not mine, but coming from deep inside the body of my special woman.
  9. I enjoy pooping nappies, when wearing them, I cant just take them off, so wee and poopies are expected to be done in the nappy. But do I really need to wear them? The only way to know is to wear normal pants, so that I'm able and expected to use the bathroom. If I wet and/or poop my pants, it is a sure sign that I do indeed need to keep wearing nappies.
  10. You only get out what you put in. There is no artificial way to achieve what a good fibre loaded diet will provide, bran breakfast, cooked oats, grain and fruit snack bars etc, and a good sized dinner with bulky veg will prime the system so that a big poo will happen almost every day. On a high fibre diet, some days it can feel like a missed opportunity if the bathroom had to be used! If your GI is well stocked and you can feel the imminent need to poo, it may be the perfect moment! Holding off a little longer is possible, but it may become a little too hard and need unnatural force, nothing like a reflexive baby nappy messing or big warm "accident". So if you've been saving for later and the ideal time is approaching, use a suppository, the only artificial method I would use to reliably make an accident happen within an hour or two and it isn't wet and runny like enemas. The suppository will start to soften the load without making it wet, building up to a situation where pooping your nappy can happen by just relaxing, as a baby does, then can a gentle squeeze will get the rest of that nice warm stuff into your nappy where it feels so good. No need to tell anyone, just sit down or carry on with what you were doing until someone notices and decides it's change time, but hopefully not too soon! Not wearing nappies? Suppositories are powerful, try to resist the power of the force, but ultimately, it will win! You will cross the threshold and lose control, or just resign to the inevitable- having a big, soft, warm, pants filling accident, which you just couldn't prevent. The experience of this is amazing but it might mean you have to wear nappies if happens too often!
  11. As a long tern nappy lover, I became latched onto the same system which was being used as I grew and became aware of nappies, terry cloth and plastic pants. I started wanting to use these real nappies more often, which lead to storage and intense laundering, which isn't a low profile process! I still have some cloth nappies, but disposables made things easier. If I'm at home and discretion isn't required, I adapt them by wearing terry and PVC pants over the top, making them look and feel just like the real thing, providing that comfort when all know along with loads of leak protection for night use. An incontinence supplier in the UK sells these extras, the terry pants don't always become wet or stained, so light laundering helps them last 2 or more years. The PVC pants are the weak link, many of us will be aware of how the soft plastic gradually hardens and ultimately cracks. I order a fresh pair with roughly each 3rd box of disposables, by then, one of my pairs is starting to harden and is almost ready to to go the way with a messy disposable. The main reason that these degrade is gradual loss of plasticiser from the material. The pants aren't cheap and I would like to make them last longer without hardening, I treat them gently with gentle washing, only a little liquid detergent, no conditioner, gentle drying and keeping away from UV light (direct sunlight). I have been looking for products which would re-soften the PVC and make them last longer, searching for PVC clothes treatment, I came across two options- Using an off the shelf automotive vinyl upholstery cleaner Applying mineral oil by wiping a very light film with a soft cloth and removing any excess. Does anyone have experience with these two, or know of a better solution to keep our PVC pants nice and soft so they last longer?
  12. Yeah, I've noticed that people use these for incontinence too! If im on a drive more for than a few hours and not wearing nappies, with my maturity and BPH symptoms I may need to wear incontinence slips so I dont wet myself visibly as I rush from the car. My nappies would be bulky enough to make the whole journey and I wouldn't carry my fresh incontinence slip in plain view, so perhaps this was a DL getting some fun during their journey. Although once, whilst driving with a bedpad protected seat, I did work up the courage and urgency to stage a total wetting of my jeans in public whilst walking briskly towards the main entrance of the motorway services. I stopped as the leak began before reaching the entrance doors and just let every drop go without embarrassment. People did notice, some watched but no one made a fuss, I was miles from home so who cares! I finished and casually walked back to my car whilst enjoying the warm experience that we all love. I drove off, sitting on my protected seat... This happened after I was going to try wetting my jeans without a nappy whilst driving, but couldn't relax enough to do it without it becoming a major distraction. I didn't quite make it to these services in time to avoid the inevitable ;-)
  13. Thanks for the info, I'm glad I just ordered a single pack, the other 5 were active fit. I haven't tried them yet, but I'm not surprised that they leak, clothbacked nappies have never been very good, but I was hoping these would have improved. Previous experience with cloth backed nappies has always lead to wet clothes or bed from leaks or dampness through the backing, well before reaching capacity! For extra confidence during my wetting, I use pvc and terry pants over my nappies at night so I can wake, wee and sleep with minimal disturbance, my bed, & often the terry pants are still dry in the morning. Does that sounds like a sanitary towel advert? I guess this extra protection will definately be needed before I try a gaming evening wearing a daytime absorbancy Proskin nappy.
  14. They may have a different name outside the UK. Can anyone offer any experience with these new "nappies" from Tena? I love the active fit Ultima with plastic backing, a really secure nappy, which I can just let go and wet, they can see me through a night and upto 10hr if I'm having frequency issues. I've just ordered some new items and included a pack of the PROskin in a daytime absorbency to try. They appear to have the breathable backing, has this improved or will I get wet pants if I just relax and let it go without extra protection?
  15. I purchased a few pairs of size large double thickness terry pants, which are great for overnight back up of disposable nappies. With a 38 " waist, they are too tight and I haven't used them. Send a private message with a UK delivery address if you want them.
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