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All good reasons to use a quality diaper covering. You’ll be happier for it.

Yes the packaging of these diapers are a major downfall. If you don’t fluff them up you may as well cut out 2 holes in a box for your legs from your next Amazon order. But if you fluff them up & leave them open they work very well. It would also be nice if a case consisted of 4 packs and not 3. You cannot get a months supply with only 3 packs or at least I can’t.

For those into it, it is very relaxing. Now add a boat & sunset that’s just added pleasure

Pay no attention to the man behind the curtain

Don’t know what you use for a barrier cream but I find Medline makes the best out there and gets rid of rash quickly.

Nah... you’ll get used to it all and learn how to manage it. With the proper covering and good timing you’ll find that accidents in public are no big deal unless you want them to be. I don’t want to make a public spectacle of myself. Being double it just happens. However I am fortunate that I do not flood ever. Just constantly leak so there is a better absorption verses flooding. So unless I sit down and liquid presses out there won’t be any leaks. If there are it’ll go into the diaper covering. Bowel incontinence is a little different. I go multiple times per day which would be smaller amounts which is generally more manageable than what used to be, for me, one large load per day. But everybody is different with incontinence. People who flood need to protect themselves well with a lot of rapidly absorbing product like a high capacity diaper with a very good booster to take that high flow quickly. I’m fortunate in that regard that I don’t have to deal with that.

Sorry to hear about the stomach cramps but you were prepared. Using a quality diaper takes the anxiety out of it to be sure. It’s good to be able to trust your diaper.

I’ve wrestled with this question since it was posted in April and still today I cannot fully explain what I feel. I can say that it’s not regression nor is it sexual. It’s not relief and it’s not satisfying. It’s not a diaper thing because I view the diaper only as a tool. After I became urinary incontinent the need for bowel incontinence just seemed to weigh heavier on my mind and over the years I felt that this was just something I needed to do. So after years of thinking about it I just started doing it. I didn’t just do it sometimes when I started like a binge & purge situation either. The day I started I never looked back and have never done it other than in my diaper since. That was 6 years ago that I started. I’ve been urinary incontinent for 11 years now. Today it’s all automatic. When the body says it’s time to go it happens just that fast. And each time I just feel normal like that’s just exactly what was supposed to happen. There’s no real thought about it and when it’s my regular changing time I just expect for it to be there. Rarely it’s not. I read that others out here enjoy it for a bit then change so they can move on with their day but very much enjoyed the experience and at their next opportunity will do it again. There are also a few people that talk to me privately have that same deep seeded need to do exactly what I have done. Strange thing about it is that they cannot explain the need either. So I guess the best and currently only way I can describe what I feel is normal. Maybe if I had a better writing vocabulary I could better answer the question. But I don’t and I just did the best I could for now. Cheers all!!

Taking the dog for a walk this morning. Both the dog & I had to go.

Enjoy!!

Sitting in line at the local donut shop. Had to get out of the car & stand up to finish

You’ll find the more you do it the more you’ll enjoy it. You’ll find you’ll spend more & more time in a messy diaper. Nothing wrong with that.

I love it when it happens. Gas station, grocery store or anywhere really. And if I’m staying local I never bring a change with me.

There is a thread that asks when was the last time you pooped your diaper but how about where? For me today I was filling my car with gas & the poop surprise came! It was a great way to start my day. Went into the gas station to pay my bill & was able to hop in the car fully filled for the next several hours. I love it when that happens. It always feels like a new experience. How about you?

Have you tried diaper suspenders? They work very well.

I buy electrical tape by the sleeve, maybe 4 or 5 sleeves at a time. It works great and 4 or 5 sleeves literally lasts for 4-6 months. It’s easy and works very well And if you use a diaper suspender and clasp then where the 2 ends of the diaper meet you never have any problems.

Can they still be packaged in a 15 count but a larger package? I will open a package, fold them down the center & leave them out until needed. It doesn’t seem to change them much even after 4 days of being open.

I have never trusted the tapes so I use black electrical tape & wrap it around twice across all 4 diaper tapes. So I’m in the diaper until my next changing time.

This is the million dollar question. How do you know you need it? It must be something from deep within. When you don’t you know something is somehow not right but when you do you feel satisfied and as if it was the right thing to do. That’s how it is for me. And no it’s not wrong for you as it may be for others. You certainly are not hurting anyone. If this truly is something you need/want then keep it up regardless of what you think others may think about it. It’s not about them. It’s all about you.

I’ve mentioned this on other posts but every 4 to maybe 6 weeks my body seems to do a self cleansing and I do a massive BM. This morning it came unannounced. I’ll be able to enjoy it for the next several hours. Top notch protection is well worth the money on days like today!

Ginger, the journey isn’t that long if it’s something you really want. Like you, it’s something you more than desire. Basically if you’ve only done our duty in your diaper you are at the very least mentally incontinent. It’s more than desire. It’s a need that I cannot begin to explain. The physical incontinence comes later & over time. You’ll find you do it wherever & whenever. There won’t be any embarrassment. There won’t be any running to change quick. However when that time comes, and it will, you’ll need to invest in some enema fear because there will be times where you just can’t poop. Weddings etc. So doing a enema will allow you not to poop for at least 24 hours or more. Usually it’s a minimum of 48 hours for me. It’ll be those times you’ll only have to manage urinary in continence which, as you know is pretty easy. Best wishes to you!

That’s why it’s always best to use a diaper. Over time you’ll find that you’ll get some feeling but it’ll be far to late to do anything about it. It’ll just happen. Staying in a diaper allows you to just go about your business until your next changing time.

Spot on Carsfan! Had I not become urinary incontinent in my early 50’s I would have never thought of becoming bowel incontinent as well. Now that I am I wished I would have done it years & years ago.

I agree with you minus the wanking. I pretty much always have a mess back there and am always wet. It is a great feeling that gives me a sense of security. It’s the right thing for me.

I’ve never done that so I shouldn’t actually reply but it is thought provoking.