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  1. Uh, I never said anything about "leaving them all over the place...". Rather, I mentioned the two specific places I left them, which would be logical places for an incontinent person to have diapers.
  2. Thank you.. it happens that there's an event in town this week (not sure if it's even proceeding with the snow storms, but the guests are here anyway). So the hotel is packed. As I type this, there's been somebody at the room across the hall banging on the door and yelling at the person(s) inside for about 6 or 7 consecutive minutes. Kids are running up and down the hall at all hours of the night. The floors in the lobby have been dirty and wet from people exiting the indoor pool area without drying their feet. Somebody was eating KFC in the laundry area for some reason and conveniently left the boxes in there with gravy on the folding table when they finished. In other words, I'm thinking the guy with the clean room and a few stacked diapers is probably not chief among the immediate concerns of hotel staff, maids in particular, but I suppose I could be wrong.
  3. The majority of responses appear to agree with your position that what I'm doing is wrong, and I'm sincerely taking it to heart. That's why I asked for feedback. With that said, I think your responses have been pretty over the top, so I'm going to defend myself a little bit. So you're saying that any grown man who leaves a pair of underwear around his hotel room could potentially be prosecuted for harassment? That seems like a hard one to sell to a jury. Understood that many people would NEVER leave underwear in plain view around their hotel room, but others would, just as they would leave clothes hanging in the closet Why is it any different if I have a few clean diapers neatly folded by my bedside? I'm just speculating here, but I'm guessing a maid would rather *view* a few clean, folded diapers vs picking up somebody's dirty socks, shirts, underwear, etc., as we all know they do every day. As I stated before, it's fairly likely that my room is far cleaner than most rooms they enter, so I don't feel I'm "interfering with their work". They likely come in, turn down the bed, set some clean towels next to my diapers, and then leave. While I agree that it's probably odd for them to see diapers, I seriously doubt they're traumatized by the experience. I would also assume that a maid who sees diapers in a hotel room wouldn't have any reason to think they belong to an "adult baby". These are plain diapers, not animal print or anything.
  4. Hmm... I invited feedback, so I can't be upset when it comes, but let me clarify a couple of things: First, as a couple of posters mentioned, these are CLEAN diapers (hence me saying they were there for changes... who would change into a dirty diaper?). They're literally stacked next to some t-shirts and socks on my nightstand (and a few more by the towels in the bathroom). I'm almost tempted to share a pic or two of my hotel room. It mostly looks as it's already serviced apart from the aforementioned stack of clean clothes and the unmade bed. Also, as I should have mentioned before, any dirty diapers are wrapped and tied in a grocery bag and disposed of either in my bathroom or a hallway receptacle. I'll admit I still feel a bit guilty, and perhaps rightly so, for even making the maids deal with them, whether they're wrapped in a grocery bag or not. Presumably they've been around long enough to do the same for legitimately incontinent folks, but that's out of necessity, not so I can satisfy my need for embarrassment. In any event, I appreciate your responses. It appears that most feel this is inappropriate - so I'm glad I asked. Little Sherri, thank you - it's good to get input from somebody who's full-time.
  5. I'll start by saying I'm the type of person that really enjoys the embarrassment of people knowing I'm wearing diapers... This week I'm out in the midwest for work, but we're having terrible snowstorms so I'm mostly stuck in my hotel room without much to do. These tend to be the times when I get obsessed with diapers and related embarrassment. So I drove around to a couple stores in town yesterday looking for diapers, and then when they were ringing me up, I made sure to offer a comment along the lines of, "maybe next time I'll plan better so I don't run out during a blizzard." The purpose being to indicate that the diapers are for me as opposed to an elderly family member, etc.... Today I had an even better opportunity when I realized that housekeeping was on my floor and that they'd want to clean my hotel room soon. Better yet, both of the maids were cute, youngish girls (which for some reason makes the feeling of embarrassment even more enjoyable for me). So I placed a couple diapers in the bathroom where they'd be replacing the towels, and another couple on one of the nightstand shelves next to my bed along with some clean socks and undershirts. Essentially, I wanted to make sure it looked "organic", as if I stage these things around my room since "i'll need a change" when I wake up in the morning or when I get out of the shower. Conveniently, these are also areas that the maids can't possibly miss as they're doing their work. Anyway, I grabbed my computer, threw it in my backpack, and then on my way down to the "business center" of the hotel, made sure to comment to the maids, "I'm out of room 527 whenever you need to go there" so they'd know that I was, in fact, the person with the diapers in his room (once they went in there). Questions for the group: - Am I going too far? There are moments when I "come down off my high" when I feel legitimately guilty for subjecting others to my weird fetish. These girls are just trying to do their job and they walk in on something that has to be, at the least, a bit surprising/jarring to them. -Would an actual incontinent person behave this way? In other words, do incontinent folks generally hide their diapers away in their suitcase, drawers, etc., so that people would never see them? Or is it reasonable to think they might set them out with the rest of their clean clothes just as a continent person might do? -This question may be a dumb one, but... are there many people who appear perfectly healthy, have no issues walking around (i.e. no spine injuries), are of middle age, etc., who are actually severely incontinent? I'm generally at least somewhat healthy and athletic looking, although I do legitimately have nerve damage from a back injury about 20 years ago. I wonder sometimes if people would think there's no way I'd actually be incontinent just based on how I appear from the outside. Appreciate your feedback! Thanks everyone!
  6. Awesome, thanks everybody for your responses. Really appreciate the help. Regarding reputable vendors, I often times prefer to just buy them in public at places like CVS/Walgreens as I enjoy a little bit of embarrassment (provided that I'm among strangers). That's one of the advantages I anticipate if I end up using an FSA card - makes it more obvious that they're for me and not somebody under my care. Of course, when I'm after anything of decent quality I typically order online.
  7. Thanks Menaiya! So you didn't have to have an incontinence diagnosis to buy them? I would think it wouldn't be necessary, but I saw one FSA/HSA-related website where it said "you may be asked for a diagnosis..."
  8. Hi all, Apologies in advance if this has been asked previously (I imagine it has), but I was wondering if people in this group use an FSA account to purchase diapers. I don't think insurance coverage is an option since my understanding is that you can only get them through medicaid and I have a separate policy. If you do use an FSA, were you required to provide an incontinence diagnosis first? I don't technically have one, although I have notes about "bladder urgency" and "spinal injury" in my record dating as far back as 2010. I imagine I could get my doctor to help me out. Here's a dumb follow-up question: My employer will know what I'm spending the money on, correct? It's not the end of the world, I just work for a large company where most people know me, and I would rather not have the state of my continence be public knowledge. Especially since I'm most likely going to be buying women's incontinence supplies the majority of the time. Obviously I assume it's strictly forbidden for the FSA admin to share any of this info, but I suppose it could get around to HR people, etc. I actually haven't set up an FSA in many years despite having the option to do so. For those of you who use them, do you typically carry an FSA card? Or just submit receipts at the end of the year for reimbursement? Thanks in advance!
  9. I don't get it... was she just joking before or something? Sounds like she was definitely into it.
  10. Hi all, I have a rather random question for those of you who have been successful in your incontinence journey. I'm working on that myself, but not fully where I want to be, yet. I'm also an AB who craves a certain amount of humiliation. Fortunately for me, I have a mommy who is willing to indulge me that from time to time. For example, we might be in the baby food aisle with other moms and she'll ask me which flavor I want that day. Or we'll be in line at CVS with some adult diapers and she'll ask me to confirm that they fit right last time she picked them up for me, etc. Anyway, our next idea is to put me in a situation where I might have an accident in public, once I'm at a point where I've lost enough bladder control. Of course, we would have to be careful how we planned this, as I don't want it to turn into something that's unsanitary or uncomfortable for others. We're probably talking about a public park, with me undiapered, where I'm too far from a restroom to make it in time, etc. So I'm wondering what that would look like for somebody who was actually incontinent. I realize people have different forms of incontinence, and that most people who are incontinent would never have any reason to be in public without a diaper or urostomy bag. But, just imagining you were... how would it go? Most of you are probably having urges/spasms every 15 minutes or more, correct? Do you typically have ANY control to hold it if you try? I imagine, even though this is my desire, that I'll probably panic and try to "escape" when it actually plays out in public. Assuming we try this once I've lost a significant amount of function, would my accident presumably be noticeable by the time I had made it to safety? Anyway, sorry if this is a weird topic for some, but maybe there are other people in this group who enjoy the humiliation aspect as much as I do. Maybe we can have some fun with it.
  11. That's exciting. So would you attribute most of that success to the "Coach"? I was considering going through the program myself.
  12. Thank you both for your input, it is very much appreciated. What each of you is telling me sort of reinforces what I was thinking. Bettypooh, what started your spinal deterioration, do you know? Also, were you ever asked to do a urodynamics test? I had to do that a couple times shortly after my injury. Not comfortable! And I'm thinking I would need to be well into my untraining program before I agreed to one of those, as it would identify if my bladder muscles were working properly.
  13. So, a little bit about me: I had a spinal cord injury in the upper lumbar when I was younger, in my early 20s. Initially, much of my bodily functions "shut down" as I was left without sensation in certain areas of my lower body. Fortunately, much of it came back rapidly (I think this is common with spinal cord injuries). I was catheterizing for about 1.5 months, as I recall, until I finally regained the ability to void on my own, albeit with a weaker stream than most men and occasional partial retention (seems like it comes and goes... maybe based on how much caffeine or other irritants I have in my system). Once in a while I'll dribble a little bit - just enough to dampen my underwear/diaper - which, again, seems to be the result of irritants, exhaustion (this is common for whatever reason), or a cough/laugh. So I have a couple questions: 1. If I was to carry on with 24/7 diaper-wearing and an unpotty-training program, would it be believable to a physician that my incontinence was actually the eventual result/deterioration of my existing injury and bladder issues? This seems like a preferable outcome compared to admitting to a doctor that I purposely became incontinent. Perhaps I would even have an outside chance of having my diapers covered by insurance - I don't feel too bad about this as I pay plenty of premiums and taxes as it is. I know many people here are of the opinion that you should never lie to your physician, which I respect, but I'll ask that you keep those opinions to yourself for the purposes of this discussion. 2. As mentioned before, I have occasionally had minor issues with weak voiding and urinary retention. Apparently the issues aren't too serious as they have not resulted in UTIs, etc. But it's probably safe to say that I have to focus on voiding as much as possible each time I use the restroom or my diaper. So my question is this: As unpotty training involves relaxing muscles as much as possible rather than bearing down to urinate, would my retention issues be likely to get worse? Could I be setting myself up for health problems down the road? Thanks in advance for your help!
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