jenniebear

Happy Birthday Big Bear!...may this next year be Your most special year yet!

welcome chhockle...it's good to meet new people in this community......i remember the first time i posted on a forum or joined in a chatroom.......it took a lot of working up to for me.......enjoy there are a lot of great people to come to know and learn from! jen jen

ugh........all i can say is that as a parent.....you are the adult........and as an adult please consider that everything you do, say or put out there for the rest of the world WILL affect not just you ......but your children also................ you may think what you expose others to is fine because it's all fine for you...but until you walk in the head of someone else i would take extreme caution ........ i know that one of the things i'd wished i'd never heard was my father telling my mother that due to the flu and being a truck driver....he'd had a diarea "accident" of extreme porportions while on the road the night before.......he thought i'd gone to school ...but i was actually home sick that day and heard the whole description......it shouldn't have been that big of a deal and for most it prolly wouldn't have been.......but remember that many of us infantilists tend to have some sort of bagage somewhere.......over the years i've had nightmares about that very incident many times......not a pretty picture of your father i assure you.......actually it is still quite disturbing for me

((((((((chell)))))))))))) and (((((((((((Spawn/Papa)))))))))))))))) welcome to jennie's world

I came clean upfront...though W/we met under an already exhisting alternative lifestyle agenda.... also W/we met online........and though W/we lived close by (within 15 miles of one another)...i tried to be careful to not give out to much personal information before knowing Him fairly well.......and as you can tell by my profile.......W/we are older....which in cases of the heart ...sometimes maturity has advantages when it comes to being descrete and understanding.......W/we'll be together 3 years January 17th........and are in a very commited relationship

Bri, It sounds like you are off to a GREAT start! and i agree cuddling would be a "safe" place to begin...It's non threatening in any way and will just be a way to share the feeling...... i do remember the first time i was diapered by someone else.....it was extremely intimate...embarrassing...emotional...a million things probably went through my mind...and when my Daddy diapered me for the first time...i cried...it was such an emotional release to finally be accepted and loved and cherished so much...accepted for who i was including my strange kink....and by the Man who i'd dreamed of for most of my adult life.....it also left me extremely open ....had He said or done anything to embarrass or humiliate me...or step on my emotions in anyway...i'd have been devastated.......it's become one of the most cherished memories of my entire life...and He handled it in the most loving...caring fashion...it truely told me what kind of Man He was........(all that to just say....it's an intimate moment no matter what the persons feelings are.....and it may very much impact your future) my Master/Daddy isn't interested in being diapered...which works for me.....i'd accept Him either way....though as often as He has to pee i tease Him all the time that He should try You mentioned bdsm might occasionally be a part of your play but i don't think you mentioned who was the top/bottom in your relationship or if you switch....this has just been an observation i've made....but a number of submissive girls i've had online and r/t friendships with over the years have incoorporated the "Daddy/baby" thing in their relationships and at least one i know has become an occasional diaper wearer.....i think there may be a number of submissives who have the same needs as "ab's" but bdsm was the first alternative lifestyle that they felt an interest in...and "ab" things have either not crossed their mind at all........(they never had that "trigger" that we ab/dl's have had) or...they've found it not acceptable and have searched out other interests..... Anyway....i'm sure my Daddy would be willing to share a few emails also....i'll share this thread with Him and i would also be willing to email with either you or your girlfriend if she would just like a "girls" perspective....jennie_bear2006@yahoo.com

i met my fiance through the BDSM community so He was already into an alternative lifestyle......i was very upfront...and told Him before W/we actually even met in person.....though W/we did meet that same day.....When W/we met i actually spent the night the first night and brought my stuffed giraffe, tallie with me. W/we've spent a lot of time talking about it......so He could understand and though i'd wear now and then to bed.......i never pushed any sort of roleplay or sexual play with diapers until He made the first moves towards including them.......He knows they are a huge sexual turn on for me so He definitely enjoys the response they bring about in me........and so has incorporated them into many of our scenes....He will diaper me whenever i ask...usually when i just need it as a stress relief / comfort thing......... but i also don't abuse His generousity....knowing that He desires a sexual adult woman as His partner .... W/we neither one want to get tired of the fun experiences W/we bring to each other...... my advice is to communicate wants and desires about it...don't leave any rock unturned when it comes to you both understanding how one another feels about it......... lol...in the beginning He wanted me to ask (i am His 24/7 slave also) each time i wanted to wet my diaper.......i figured out quickly that He would need to understand that as an ab......it wasn't part of my roleplay to"ask" to wet my diaper......that sorta would take a lot of the fun out of it for me.....it's about being naughty....

Youngest by 12 years...two older brothers so I was almost raised as an only child once they were out of the house.......i was an aunt by the time i was 6......4 times over by the time i was 12.............physical abuse...no..........lack of displays of affection...yes.............parents older and basically not wanting to parent anymore.........but they got stuck with me........

love ya Toddler....and btw.....yahoo stoled my id...so it is now jennie_bear2006 don't want to loose ya ...

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dear mr. bad american.... next thing you'll tell us that you're also a "good" christian...... may you always be fortunate enough to not ever have to walk in the shoes of the very people you've criticized.....but then again........maybe the world would be a little better place if you did....... for your sake though, may every priveledge you've ever been given never fail you....

In the bdsm world they use something called a "safecall"......(i think that's what W/we call em anyway...been a while since i needed one) but you let a friend know details of times...locations etc....and call in at pre determined times in order to let them know that things are going as planned......if you don't call........they are to take the steps to assist you be it police or an older brother with a big bat..... it isn't failsafe that is for sure...but every precaution can help.....

while ADD does mean Attention Deficit Disorder....for many it actually means a tendency to "hyper focus" on things of interest....and to not focus well on things that are not of interest....That is why those kids who are diagnosed with ADD can focus on things like television or video games for hours on end... ADD doesn't make you bouncy or hyper.....that would be the Hyperactive Disorder usually associated with ADD......not all ADD people have the HD part.....and most who do tend to outgrow the HD part if they were originally diagnosed as ADHD by the time they are adults..... i've spent a LOT Of time with children diagnosed with ADHD....and have not myself noticed any of them to have bathrooming issues......i've worked with many a child who had the odd accident at some point...they were so absorbed in their play that they waited to long....or they were uncomfortable with the situation and did not ask to be taken to the restroom....but i've never worked with a child who was not potty trained by what society would consider a "normal" age or had a consistent wetting problem unless there was an actual a diagnosed reason for it..... That's not to say i am an expert.....but i myself have ADD....diagnosed as an adult...(never the HD part)........and have worked in the early childhood field for over 20 years...

i've been kicked before from another room ... for "lurking".....because i was not paying attention to the room for about 20 minutes........i've never gone back........any room that kicks me for something that ridiculous is not going to be where i hang my chat hat........... if someone is in the room for 8 hours straight ... lurking.... and has not left at all during that time period they prolly need booted for their own benefit.......but my guess it is prolly someone who has just left their computer on and forgot to close out of DD........i've done it....and i doubt i'm the only one here that has...... personally i will monitor my own behaviors, i will choose who i talk to and i will decide how long i leave a chat room window open.....do i have any fear of a cop in the room?....no ......i have done nothing to be fearful for.......and again...begin moderating the room i chat in......and i will find somewhere else to chat....almost every mod i've ever known was a little hitler in their own small world of chat......no thank you....i'll pass

Why would anyone care if someone else is lurking.........that's what i don't get.... if someone speaks to you....and you don't want them to.......ignore them....be they lurker or whatever...........other then that.....live and let live.... I lurked in the beginning at DPF for a quite a while before I felt comfortable saying anything....i had never been to a chatroom before....and it took me a month or more to actually enter chat...and prolly a week of lurking before i had the confidence to start speaking at all..... not all of us grew up with the internet as a standard item in our homes , our classrooms or even our libraries....not all chatters are under 30 or even under 40 ......and when new to the internet and chat...the whole thing can be very intimidating...it can move very fast...it can seem as if people are talking about things you've never heard of .... etc.....i can only imagine too if your first language is not english how difficult it would be to follow a fast moving chat room...........

A particular person....who i will not name....once kicked me from a room because i hadn't typed anything for 20 minutes or so.......i knew immediately when i was kicked because i had been watching the room...waiting for anyone i might know to enter....or a chance to join the conversation of a few people i didn't know.... I never saw more the 4 maybe 5 people at most in that room...gee i wonder why........ i was told it was the room owners rule .....but i would wager to guess it was a big part of why that room didn't have the patronage that this room does..... i never went back because it seemed ridiculus to me..... I personally don't speak every minute i visit the room......sometimes i am watching the conversation without anything to say .... sometimes i am hoping a friend or two that i know will show up.....sometimes i am just busy and intend to return as quickly as possible....and by staying in the room i can check now and then to see what i'm missing and then join the conversation when i can......... i've never noticed it....but i suppose someone could lurk for days at a time..........but wouldn't you also have to be there 24/7 to know if that person has been in or out at any point during that time?....i know there are often people ... often newbies who become so "obsessed" with a chatroom that actually do seem to be there almost 24/7........ i suppose if there were times that the room was too full like the old dpf room and you couldn't log in until someone left...then i could see it....but i've never received a "room is full" message from DD just my opinion....but if i start getting booted from DD because i was lurking for 20 minutes or even 20 hours..........i wouldn't come back.... in my opinion...it's one of the ways mods can kill a room......... thank you DD for keeping a self monitored chatroom.............thank goodness the majority of chatters here are mature enough to keep it that way....

Nicholas Cage.....mmmm....no wait...He'd have to be holding the diaper....and i'd be laying on the changing mat on the floor....and.... next to me on that big old changing mat......Drew Barrymore......and .........er.....

Back in the very early 80's when i was in highschool...and thinking i was such a punk/rebel (it was... after all during the days of calvin klein jeans and monogramed sweaters at my school).... i used to wear a jean jacket with band pins all over it........... now when doing something lifestyle related....i wear a jean jacket....that has my collection of vintage diaper pins pinned to it.....(i've got quite a collection...including some sterling silver ones...that i wear now and then as just a regular piece of jewelry...) not sure if it's halloweenie.....but it's fun!

i think you are handling it just right... you've been honest...provided him with information and let him know its a part of you.... with my Daddy i did the same...i answered Him ask me questions when they came up...i brought it up occasionally and let Him know how much it would turn me on if He was to participate ....but i was also patient and resigned to it being His comfort level that would determine how far we went with it....we started small like browsing the baby stuff in the baby isle etc.....but eventually i wore in front of him to bed....and finally He wanted to diaper me.....i was sure to let Him see what a turn on being diapered was for me.....*wink wink nudge nudge...*................and anything that turned His baby on that much....was something He had an extreme interest in.....

awww...thanks Dolly...i've had some computer problems lately...missed you all a lot so it's good to be back.... and yeah...my Daddy is an awesome photographer....He always manages to take a couple photos during each of O/our photo shoots that makes even me who hates having her picture taken....smile....

mine's a picture my Daddy took of me wearing my brand new maryjanes...my brudder lil... aka little guy cleaned up the background for me....and now it's one of my favorite pictures...

While i personally think this is a great site also...and appreciate what Daily Di means to the abdl community... i have not ever paid to belong to an online site...especially one associated with a sexual fetish...and i never will. i doubt i will ever run for president but i just don't want to ever be revisited by a choice i might someday find embarrassing or uncomfortable.... i know...if anyone wanted dirt on me...i'm sure they could find it some way else.....but this is a decision i can live with ....

Not very techno savy but when i opened DD tonight my Norton immediately detected a highrisk virus trying to attack my computer.....

W/we about 2 and a half hours north west of Bloomington..... I grew up near Galesburg and spent lots of time cruising the countryside around there as a kid. If there was a get together W/we would try to make it

I used to order mine online too...but now...living with Daddy.... Diaper buying is an "event" He dresses me in a short girlie dress...diapers me....and then W/we spend the day shopping, eatting out, etc....throughout the day He checks me to see if i am still being a big girl....i usually am...until W/we get to the diaper store...(walgreens or oscos or walmart).... We head directly to the diaper isle...luckily it's not an isle many people spend much time hanging out in.... ....and if i am not wet by then....i tend to have an accident right there in the store...making a big production of having to go...doing the peepee dance before finally while holding myself and squeezing my thighs together.........i wet my diaper....Daddy always asks me questions like...did i just pee my diaper....and if i lie and say no....He reaches under my dress and checks for Himself..... Sometimes W/we walk around the store...looking at baby stuff....buying baby wipes or a new paci....but sometimes W/we just come on home where i get changed....and babied for the rest of the night.... ahhh...life with Daddy is good