KawaiiLilMary

Geez, there's how many girls on this site and I'm only the second one to reply? Girls, you're slackin! Welcome to the site, onlygirl. ^.^ You're definitely not alone and don't feel bad.. I'm not huge on the ab thing, I'm more of a toddler myself when I do tap into that side, otherwise I'm strictly DL. *hugs* ^.^ Feel free to send a message if you need someone to talk to. This is a recording! BEEP!

Hmm.. I know I don't really say much on these boards, but this time I find that I should actually drag a pearl of wisdom from deep within the vast ocean of useless knowledge that is my mind. Zipo, No matter what any of us say, in the end it's your decision as to whether or not you wear. I'm not saying it to be cold, but it is the truth. Now, let me finish before you start getting all "who are you to crush my hopes and dreams" on me, lol. Most of us have been in the same boat as you. I agree with Singner and gbw_dl, in the end, it's just going to have to be something you have to try. You may decide it's something you like and want to wear all the time, you may want to just wear when you feel like it, or rather, when the urge strikes, or you may decide it's not for you. All you can do is try really. Your parents don't have to know. I live at home still at the age of 22 (pathetic, yet truthful since college, even community college, is too expensive to just move out and live on my own, even if I could), and my parents don't know. Or, if they do, they don't say anything. You just have to be careful about wearing. If you plan on using them, definitely put the used ones into grocery store bags and tie them tightly shut and try to get them out to the garbage as soon as you can. The plastic from the bags, if tied shut tightly enough and properly, will reduce most of the smells. *hugs* Good luck on your road to self discovery, though. Remember, we're all here to support others like ourselves. We're a close knit group (well, most of us are, though there are a few "loners" that just lurk around and give advice when need be), and we try to help others as we'd like to be helped. ^_~ Good luck. KLM

To be quite honest, I've actually talked to my doctor about losing the weight I have. Sometimes, just the normal exercising and smaller portions doesn't work. There are multiple factors that can trigger the lack of a response from said dieting, for instance genetics. My father's side of the family are all heavy (granted I'm not morbidly obese like they are), and genetics are hard to fight. Sometimes that extra oomph from a dieting pill while using the normal exercising while watching what you eat is what some people need.

The only diaper moment that sticks out in my memory for me that I still smile at today is the day I met my ex boyfriend for the first time. We'd talked on the phone, been online friends for five years before we decided to date. The day he showed up, he came a little earlier than expected and I didn't have a chance to take off my diaper. Let's just say things got a little hot and heavy and he didn't mind that I was wearing. Infact, he ripped it off then told me afterward to go ahead and put another on. *smiles faintly at the memory* Meh.. Now I miss him. Bugger. >.<

Yep, us females definately exsist. But.. We really only exsist in your mind. Sorry to burst your bubble!! jk!

Currently, mine's sitting on the bed playing Final Fantasy Online. He' knows I'm a DL and he says he's ok with it (and doesn't mind me wearing.) Whenever we get our own place maybe he'll participate more..

Welcome back, Necros. *hugs* I think all of us go through a purge cycle without really realizing it. I know that I, myself, have gone through them only to realize later that it had been atleast a month or more since I had worn. Usually, though, that happens when I find myself starting a new relationship or trying to find a job and what not. But when I do realize, the urge to wear is insatiable. I'm sure many others have felt this, as well. My advice to you, though it's the normal you will probably hear, is to just relax. This is a part of you that more than likely won't go away, and most of us have come to terms with this part of ourselves, well.. Ourselves. I know it's hard and it doesn't feel like a normal person goes through that. But honestly, what exactly IS a normal person? All of us have our kinks and ways to deal with stress. We all have alter egos though few of us would admit it. Purging is a way to prove to yourself that you can go without this afflicted kink or whatever you would like to call it, but in the end it will always come back and you won't be satisfied until you've fulfilled that kink. Come to think of it, it's actually been about a week since I've last worn. Sometimes life gets so hectic we fail to realize what we need to do to calm ourselves down or to just relax after a long day. If this is truely affecting how you deal with people, you should honestly just stop fighting the side of you that wants it. Give into it's cravings and return yourself to normal. However, that may not be what you feel you should do. None of us can tell you what you should do in this case, only you can make that decision. We can, however, give you the advice you seek and make suggestions. A suggestion I would make to you would be this: Take some time each week, even if it's only for during the night time if you can get away with it or an hour two a day once a week or every two weeks and give into this urge. It might keep you balanced out and even relieve the stress you don't even know you're feeling. I hope I helped. If not.. well.. Feel free to kick me in the arse and tell me to be quiet. *hugs* KawaiiLilMary

Actually, I've had the same thing happen to me a load of times. I can even remember it happening when I was around 7 or 8. Lol, I snapped awake and had to feel around to make sure itw asn't a real dream. Also, Runaway, you come up with the greatest reponses =3

o.O If you don't have a diaper rash by now, you must have one really strong layer of skin to resist that.

My mom's dog is weird and freaky.. I swear she's a hybrid between dog/cat/bat/gremlin/pirahna/monkey. >.< You turn her upside she looks like a bat, she grins she looks like a gremlin. @.@ freaky freaky creepy dog.

I don't get how anyone can stand outside in the freezing cold for anything @_@ My sister and mom does it for Black Friday. I just waited til 5am and waited til they got back and went "Ok. I'm ready to go!" and pulled a hissey fit how I never get to go XD.

Umm.. not exactly a TV show but a movie on Sho - Lemony Snickett's A Series of Unfortunate Events.

I agree with high_waisted_diapers, you need to make sure you can trust the guy before anything. I've told a grand total of three people about this (that know me more personally and I didn't meet in the AB/DL chats). All 3 were fine with it, which includes my current bf of almost a year and a half. Like you I hinted at it and beat around the bush on telling him until I finally felt he needed to know. At the time he lived across the country but we were planning on him coming to visit, and I knew it would be imparative for him to know. Well like any other non ab/dl would be, he didn't know what I meant, so I gave him a few links to read and tried to answer any questions he had (which, actually, were very few.) He was fine with it, and I even asked him if he'd ever diaper me and he said he'd have to learn how. Well, back in October he moved here and it took me a couple months but I finally wore around him for a couple days and he didn't mind. However, keep in mind that you would need to start out slow as I have, which means *le sigh* dry diapers. Since then I've worn on and off to make sure that he's comfortable with it and I'm slowly wearing around him more. Hmm.. maybe I've gone off topic *sweatdrops anime style* But yeah.. keep these points in mind: 1) Make sure you trust him (just like high_waisted_diapers) said. If he doesn't understand and isn't trustworthy, it could come back to bite you in the arse. 2) Make sure you explain throughly to him that it's something that makes you happy and why you like to wear. Some people confuse our lifestyles to those of Pedophiles, so make sure you stress to him that this is NOT in any way related to doing ANYTHING to small children. I'm not sure atm of the links, but I know that wikipedia has a page on Diaper Lovers, Infantilism and adult babies. 3) Don't push it on him all at once, it could potentially scare him off if you put too much on his plate so to speak. 4) Answer any questions he may have. I'm sure there's a few things that I failed to mention, but I can't think of anymore off the top of my head. I hope I was helpful in someway to you and if you need any advice, feel free to send me a PM on here. *hugs* Good luck!

I've been shaving for a while now and to be honest, I never got the itching except when it started growing back. Now there's like no itching. ^^ So after a while, the itching goes away.

Hmm.. I think the longest I resisted was about 6mths? Give or take? I wear off and on now, as I still feel somewhat uncomfortable wearing around my bf, but when the urges get too hard to resist is when I give in most.