Pipsqueak

I took a year of French in high school. Here in B.C. more people speak a Chinese language (Cantonese or Mandarin) or Punjabi than speak French.

I'm so sorry for your loss, Adam!

I agree with Tigger's post. People don't change their behaviour unless they make a conscious choice too. And even then, it's hard. Your brother's behaviour is his problem to change or not to change. Love him but don't buy into his games and don't try to change him, because none of us can change someone else. That's something we do for ourselves.

I hate to tell you this, but this post doesn't actually make you look any better because now you've just admitted to being a liar as well.

Oh, bayb! I just hate it when people hint at things and then keep them from me! No cookies for you! EDIT: Actually you can have all the cookies you want, because I figured out what you're talking about! And it is good news!

Someone explain to me why it is some people believe that it's their right to get their rocks off at the expense of other people? And the least you could've done after that inconsiderate display, Jackass, is to clean up your own mess! That is simply disgusting, disgraceful, and completely disrespectful.

I think Mean Mommy might like doing some poking, Repaid!

You're welcome. Just don't lock me in a closet as a way of saying thanks! You'll have to do a lot of poking around to find them on alt, but they're there.

Oh, but they do! There just aren't a lot of them on this particular site. There's a particular category of AB/DL who refer to themselves as "slAbies" or "slave babies". Slabies go for the extreme bdsm in conjunction with the usual abdl stuff. You are more likely to come across them on sites like Alt.com, as well as their dominant mommies and daddies.

I suspect it means quite a lot indeed to the gay and lesbian couples who wish to marry. Whatever the reasons for getting married were at some point in the past, all things change as society changes and evolves. At one point in history wives were classed as chattel like the livestock and other possessions of their husbands. Should we have left it that way just because that was once how it was? And should we ban heterosexual couples from marrying if they decide they don't want to have children? Should they only be allowed "civil unions"? Should folks in their fifties and sixties not be allowed to marry because they're past their childbearing years? How can we say that a homosexual couple who wishes to raise a family together shouldn't be allowed to marry but a heterosexual couple unable or unwilling to raise a family should?

I would agree with that - in my case, that is. I want a partner that enjoys playing the caregiver role. I don't have any interest in having a partner that is also an AB. It's not that I couldn't play the mommy role and even enjoy it but it's not what I want on a regular basis. I could do it once in a blue moon, but if your partner is also an AB then you need to both be happy with an arrangement of switching roles regularly and that's not what would make me happy.

Glad to see you sweeping up in here, bayb! There were a lot of dust-bunnies last time I looked.

diapercj, I think what tigger and sarah were referring to are the obnoxious private messages women receive when they register on these sites and not the actual forum posts regarding diapers. We girls are here to talk about diapers too. Some women leave because of the endless hounding via private messages regarding "will you change my diapers?" "will you be my mommy?" and some stuff much, much ruder than that. As for this comment: What goes on between your ears is your business but when you make an ass of yourself by trying to involve someone who is not interested in fulfilling your personal fantasy, you make them mad. If enough guys behave in this way, you've got a lot of pissed-off women and eventually when they've had it up to their ears with that crap they just leave. Thankfully on this board, most of the guys are considerate in how they treat the women here, which is probably why you see more of us here.

Welcome, Newroad! And congratulations on having discovered your wife is supportive of your interests!

Hip size is the main consideration for women when fitting disposable diapers. Men generally have narrow little hips and if their waist size is fairly small, then there's a small possibility they could squeeze into a baby diaper. A woman can have a small waist size but her hips are going to be wider than her waist. Many adult diaper manufacturers make diapers with cloth-like outer covers (in fact, most seem to be going this route) and most of these are not going to be super thick. These companies also have websites that tell you the correct sizing based on waist and hips. You're probably better going this route than trying to squeeze her into a baby diaper. I'm not saying she couldn't find one that will go on, but the adult diapers are going to fit better.

I agree, Mal. How does one randomly stumble upon ABDL content? Most people who aren't involved in alternative lifestyles don't have a clue what AB or DL means, yet this guy has the lingo down and is so worked up about it he goes to the trouble of posting rants.

I took the survey a couple weeks ago. Thanks for doing such a thorough job of these surveys, Bittergrey. These may end up delivering the most accurate picture of the community as a whole.

Yes. Your home. Unless your arms don't work you're perfectly capable of changing yourself. Please don't inflict your fantasies on the unsuspecting public. And leave the poor ex-daycare worker alone.

I don't know where the best place to buy a Nuk 5 is in the U.S., but if you have trouble finding a supplier there you can get one from Cutest One of All in Eastern Canada. I personally love my Nuk 5! Despite the fact that I have a pretty small mouth, I still find that the baby size Nuks cause my jaw to ache because the nipple isn't long enough and I'm obviously putting more effort into keeping it in my mouth. The Nuk 5 is big enough to stay in comfortably and the plastic shield covers a larger area around the mouth which also seems more comfortable to me.

While twenty years ago I felt this was a terrible burden and wished that I wasn't this way, that is no longer the case. I've accepted that this is part of who I am and it's really not so terrible. In fact, it's a lot of fun and makes me feel good. It's kind of odd, a little silly (maybe a lot silly ), but so what? It's silly to wear a foam cheese wedge on your head at football games too, but people still do it. So now if some miraculous "cure" was offered to me, I'd turn it down. I'm happy with my quirkly little oddity. I get pleasure from it and because I'm okay with it, it no longer has the same power to control me, as it once did. It's just part of who I am.

Krinklypants, if you're severely depressed please have your doctor refer you to a good psychiatrist. Most of us can relate to the diaper wearing/baby play as a means of escape from our adult stresses. The problem is that even if you let your business slide and you stayed at home wearing diapers and playing baby all the time, your depression would not go away. Your depression is most likely not coming from not being able to be a baby all the time. It's more likely that your mind uses that baby need as a coping tool for your depression. You're treating the symptom and not the actual problem. Depression is treatable.

While I certainly agree that it's rude, inappropriate and infuriating, I also have to parrot tigger's comment "welcome to my world as an AB girl". If we left the AB lifestyle because of harrassing IM's and PM's there wouldn't be any females here at all! Absolutely none! These guys are complete morons. They're only brave enough to send you that garbage because they're invisible on the net. Delete it and ban them from IMing or PMing you. If you let them drive them away from a place you enjoy then you're the one who loses, not them.

It may defeat the purpose for YOU, but obviously not for LonLon. A lot of people simply enjoy the feeling of wearing a diaper, and wetting and messing it are of no interest to them. It's not wasted money if you get something out of it, regardless of what that "something" is. To each their own.

That Fischer-Price telephone with the eyes that rolled when you pulled in on a string. Lite-Brite was great too as was Etcha-Sketch

I think that's the crux of the situation. When I reached the point of accepting and embracing this part of me instead of being ashamed of it, things changed. I now let the little me out to play when I feel like it for my own enjoyment, instead of having her grab me by the throat and demand it now! Grown-up me and little me live together in peaceful coexistence now. Little me now trusts grown-up me to take good care of her so doesn't constantly demand to have her needs met.