babytommy1981

I lost my wife do to her disloyalty may not say more on that matter, I had issues for years with wetting and my wife at the time got me into AB play as a away of over coming my medical issue she would baby me so much and I enjoyed it while it lasted, since she left. I have met this wonderful girl she is a little older then me but she is very understanding, she knew I had medical issues and that I was going through treatments to fix them, it's been months wit being diaper free. I just have this feeling of having to pee all the time now, well just the other day I told her I miss wearing my diapers. She asked why I said I miss the feeling between my legs and the wet feeling, she said I won't baby you I'm not into that. I said I don't want to be babied just want to wear diapers sometime, well today I woke up feeling depressed and asked her if it was ok to wear my diapers today. All day, she said ok just take it off when u get home, I agreed and my day has felt so good. I just wish she would open up alittle bit and share the time wit me while I'm wearing a diaper, not to have her baby me or change me but to support my feelings. I don't want to push anything onto her about this. But how should I go about talking to her more on the fact that now that I don't need them but I still want to wear and wet in them.

That's cool your friend is cool about, I have a long time friend from school as well and she knows I wear and use diapers for medical reasons but she also knows I like to be treated as a child and she has well been my baby sitter, from full on changing, bathing, feeding and clothing me, she has even spanked me for not listening to her. Real friends understand and don't judge

I like to say that first by him opening up to u about this means he has lots of trust in you, let him control the pace, ask him questions like what kind of diapers he likes and if he just enjoys wearing them or does he like to also use them, yes some of us like to only wet in our diapers. And some of us like to fully use them for wetting and messing. Just don't come off that your grossed out or disgusted with this, some of us like to role play some times and if he is into that. That can bring new heights to your partnership as you would play a mommy role and treat him as your little boy. There's so many different things he could like or not like so just be relaxed and let him come out over time font rush him.

Bambino diapers I say are closest to real baby diapers. In adult size. To really make them smell like baby diapers go on ebay and find mommy diaper scents. Brings that pampers scent we all love

when i first meet my wife, I told her the fisrt date, that I have to wear diapers for a problem i have no control over, I also said if you have a problem with that then we can finish our date or depart at this moment, she looked at me and said well ok, then she started to ask me things like, how did it happen and how hard is it to live this way, and she just wanted to learn more about me and my problems, and from that day forward its been great, I have had girls in the past that say yuck or your broken or your a freak. these are the type of people that i say to my self I hope something happens to you and you have to make a life change and then you get treated the same way. so yes theres guys/and girls out there that wont nothing to do with people with medical problems they think we are strang or freaks, and then theres the ones who dont mind, and are caring and just open minded. these are the kind of poeple this world needs.

also drinks that detox like the vitiman water xXx drink, i noticed since it is an antioxidant drink, it makes your pee smell funny and very strong. I have found that if I rub a deoterant on the out side of my diaper it helps with any smells, also I found on ebay this oil, called fresh diaper sent, its the same scent as baby diapers, I put a drop on a cotton ball and rub that on the out side of my diapers, gives a nice scent that women like as it brings that baby smell, the baby diaper smell alot of women now and i found it is a relaxing scent to women how have had kids.

I too, had an accident witch left me, in the state I am today, I was in a motorcycle wreck, when a person ran a stop light and hit me head on. It took me a full yr of pushing my self everyday, never took a day off, to learn how to walk again, at first is was like being a child learning to walk again, all the nurses cheered and clapped the first day I got up and took my first four steps on my own, i still fell down but I did it on my own. i remember that day very well, i kept getting back up and trying to walk on my own, in a couple of weeks i was able to walk a cross a room on my own. I have no control at all over my bladder, and some bowl control, its been 10 yrs since my accident and I havent let it slow me down yet. theres days i wish i didnt have to wear my diapers, like on very hot humid days, those just suck. It has come to that its a normal thing to be wearing a diaper, like when i dont have one on for a good amount of time I feel wierd, i think its because my mind has learned that i need them and when they are not on me my mind nows something is wrong. Hang in there dont let this slow you down, prove to your self that anything can be down,

I some times only wear my diaper and pants, if I'm going out I will some times put boxers on as a diaper cover, but lately I have been wearing adult plain white onesie it helps keep my diaper from sagging when wet, plus looks like an under shirt tucked in my pants.

I too was in an accident witch caused me to loose my bladder control and I have nerve damage in my legs, if I have a bruise I have to go get x-rays done. It took me a yr to learn how to walk again. I still walk like I'm a child that just learned to walk, I some times I loose my balance and fall down, but I get up and do my best. If I'm going to walking far I now use a walker. I excepted my diapers and I enjoy wearing them. I even got into acting like a child for fun to spice up life alittle bit.

Military docs give pills like candy. Get to a civi doc and tell everything but the AB stuff of course. Pills are not the cure to all. I have tried so many meds I gave up so to me wetting like a 2 yr old is normal to me. O and thank you for your service to our country and god bless u.

Now what I hate I can't go in the water at all those swim diapers don't hold pee it just runs out, so when sitting or walking on the beach I have to be wearing a diaper that holds wetness and we all know what happens if u go in water with a diaper on. I don't know how to keep my diaper from soaking up water if I want to swim. I wore a swim diaper once and got laughed at when pee was running down my legs when I was walking to the beach.

Also look at the stress factor we have today, the body can only deal with so much, after that it starts to shut down what it don't need to survive. U don't need bladder or bowl control to live. Just my .02 on this

I'm unsure, but I leak pee during sex, and after alot of attempts and lots of fails, I was able to get my wife pregnant, yes pee weakens the sperm cells. I found that if I cath, before sex, I didn't leak as much. Just that hard to get on the mood with a rubber hose going up inside of you, and after removing it, still having that feeling it's inside was hard to make sex enjoying. Talk to your doc, and find other ways.

My whole life I was a bed wetter, till I became incon, I was used to wearing for bed time so full time was ok for me, then I meet my ex gf who turned my medical ptoplem into a fun thing, by roll playing as an A/B. After we broke up, she moved away, we still talk too, I meet my wife who also enjoyed the roll playing and now she is my full time wife/mommy. So is it weird not at all, is it weird for a wetter to enjoy messing so his wife/ mommy can change him like a baby. I say nope, enjoy life it's the only one u got.

Well we all dread it but it's what I call diaper/ heat rash season again. Wash up good in your area, and dry off good, apply rash creams, use breathable diapers. Hope everyone stays rash free this summer.

holy wow, this story is great.

Going good, sara will find out sooner or later, She should bring up something like her sister is coming over and she is a bed wetter, and see how mitch reacts to it.,,

sorry I havent been online in awhile, I already have them given away. thank you everyone.

sitting tight, but dont know if i can sit in one spot for too long, i gets ants in my pants. lol

got to love the ads for these bladder drugs, as they may stop wetting, but you may get anal leakage, bloody noses, ringing in the ears, blurred vision. i say i rather wet my self then have those problems.

I also was offerd drugs for my wetting problem, and i turned them down, as im not a fan of drugs, unless they are 100% natural. plus most drugs out there cause other problems, and 80% OF the drugs on the market have mercury in them. witch over time causes other health problems. I said ill take pills if It comes down to life or death or if i cant get it up anymore.

OK first off if you dont tell them and you wet the bed in boot camp, you they will treat you like a mental person, two they will charge you will fraud. unless you can get a medical waiver form stating you can perform your duties with your problem... if not then you could be charged with fraud, witch follows you for life. I say talk to your rep, and go see a doctor and get tested, maybe some meds will help you so you can serve, taking meds in basic I know is ok as long as they dont cause you to have performance problems.

since im already a full time wetter not by choice, all i can say is if you really want this, your going to be ending up with not just having to buy diapers, but also rash creams,and powders. also dont shave your diaper area every day, shave every other day to three days, so not to get razor bumps or razor burn, also your going to get diaper rash, it happens and it sucks, your going to leak at times you wish you didnt. also to save money on diapers, use booster pads, and remove it after a couple of wettings if you dont go #2 in your diapers, buy the type you can untape, and retape. I found that the ABDL bambino diapers work very well for this, if your diaper is alittle wet when you go #2 in the potty, reuse it, but before putting it back on put rash cream and powder on to help keep the wettness off your skin. A good diaper will last me a good 8hrs of wetting. over time you will find your self checking your pants for wet spots, and doing diaper checks to see how wet you are. if your going to be a full time wetter and this is what you want, you going to need to learn to say to your self this is normal. also make sure to tell your friends and loved ones you have a problem, and when in public and you need to change in a public rest room, use the handicap stall and poeple will be talking and you will get wierd looks when you exit the stall with a rolled up wet diaper in a diaper sack I hope, also no matter were you go carry a diaper bag or a back pack. and be ready for secirty officers to be looking in your bag when you leave stores. and be ready for them to pull your stuff out in front of poeple. living the life as a full time wetter has it moments of saying why did this happen to me, then theres times when you see poeple in long lines to use the rest rooms, and all you can say is at least i dont have to wait to go. make sure your fully 100% ready for your long life change as there might not be a going back for you.

its hard because most girls, see men as pervs and all we are looking for is sex. if you want a mommy, first find a girl who like you as your adult self, then look into bringing her into your AB self, but dont rush her and freak her out she may think that your a sick minded person. I know it has happend to me in the past. when you find that right person, and she becomes your mommy its never ending love. like my wife/mommy i love her as my wife and as my mommy. she loves me as her husban and as her little baby boy.

10 days now, im starting to worry onto what happens to melissa, I have read the story over a couple of times, and every time it seams better then before, this story feels like it could be true inway on how its played out. I kinda wish i was this girl melissa and get to be treated in a good way like her.