SnapPea

NO I understand it as a form of self defense. I should have maybe gone into more detail about the situation! I have know something was bothering him for over a year. He would just never communicate with me! (I think it's because we are seriously looking into marriage and maybe he wanted to get this off of his chest.) I knew it wasnt something he was comfortable talking about so I went through this life change of becoming more open and accepting things I would have just written off. Maybe that had something to do with him opening up to me. I have no idea what made him open up. I am just glad he did. So now it is my part to get educated so we know how to communicate about this.

NO I am not. I really want to know! I love him so much and it took alot for him to come and bring this us to me. I want to support him and keep the line of communication open. I just didn't know the questions to ask! So thank you to everybody being willing to open up to me about hings I could ask. I do understand the cynicism. I know this is some sort of taboo. I just have this feeling of wanting to understand him. Like seeing the look on his face when he was saying "I was trying for so long to tell you this" really made me want to find out more. I am not a troll. I am a genuine person with a genuine interest in learning, Just as you are a person with genuine feelings.

My boyfriend of 4 years just told me that he has a diaper fetish. While I don't understand the idea and meaning behind this fetish I am accepting of it. I love him very much and I know that this has taken alot for him to bring it up to me. While I want the time to try and take in this information I was wondering if any of you could possibly give me any advice? Maybe even after some time I can involve myself in diaper play with him! While this all just happened today I would still like to talk to him. What relevant questions can I ask him to see what kind of diaper play he is into? Any other thoughts or suggestions? I don't want to push the issue. I just want to have a causal conversation about this and would like to be more educated in the different types of diaper play. Thank you all so much!

My boyfriend of 4 years just told me that he has a diaper fetish. While I don't understand the idea and meaning behind this fetish I am accepting of it. I love him very much and I know that this has taken alot for him to bring it up to me. While I want the time to try and take in this information I was wondering if any of you could possibly give me any advice? Maybe even after some time I can involve myself in diaper play with him! While this all just happened today I would still like to talk to him. What relevant questions can I ask him to see what kind of diaper play he is into? Any other thoughts or suggestions? I don't want to push the issue. I just want to have a causal conversation about this and would like to be more educated in the different types of diaper play. Thank you all so much!