diapermommie

Have you asked her about it? You're getting married, so it's a good habit to get into. Maybe you're assuming she finds it dirty, when that's not the case at all. Maybe she really doesn't mind it, it just doesn't do anything for her either way. Which is ok. But maybe what's going on is that she doesn't know enough about it. Maybe when you wear them 3 days in a row when you don't normally do that, she's starting to doubt whether you're still attracted to her. Women have a tendency to second guess everything, and if something changes she's going to wonder what she did to cause the change. I share this fetish with my boyfriend and there have been rare occassions I've found myself in that frame of mind, even though I *know* better, I still doubt when I'm having a bad day, or whatever. SO maybe instead of assuming she thinks your dirty or bad, you need to just ask her why her attitude changes, and what precisely makes her uneasy about it. Because it may be something you can reassure her about.

If you keep a paci in your pocket at work cuz it makes you feel better If you visit the toy and baby aisles of every store you go into If you wear your diaper to work and giggle every time you hear it crinkle If the biggest communication problem you and your partner have is because you both have pacis in your mouth If you watch cartoon theme songs on youtube (Gummibears, bouncin here and there and everywhere!) If you get jealous over the toys your own kids get for Christmas

LOL always good for a laugh anyhow. No, Oblivion is a video game that I play (no my 5 year old is not allow to play it but he knows what it is) One more I thought of, he pronounces his th's like f's sometimes still.

I reiterate from my previous posts, unless it's medical why on EARTH would anyone tell parents or relatives? I sure don't call my mom up and talk to her about orgasms, or details about tampons, or any other private things, why would I have a need to tell her, or anyone else in my family, about my fetish??

I would say that if they are ending the relationship due to the diapers, then they weren't the right person for you. Because you're not going to be happy having a relationship where you can't share something that important to you. Giving up diapers in order to find someone else, just isn't going to work out well for most people here, I don't think. Too many people believe suddenly finding a relationship is going to make you happy or fulfill something, and that's just not true. There are ways to fulfill your life, and be happy without worrying so much about not having someone. People who work so hard to get a relationship frequently end up without one...until they learn to accept themselves as they are, carry on with life and enjoy it, and then that special person wanders into your life. I totally believe people give off an energy of sorts, and when you are not content with yourself, they are going to know it. Giving up something important to you in order to find someone, is just going to backfire. They might not end the relationship over diapers (obviously because you quit using them) but it'll end eventually because you aren't being your true self in the relationship, and that never works. I know this is easy to say when I have someone who I can be myself with...but honestly I would rather be alone than be with someone I had to hide part of myself from. I've done that, and it never worked. I was more alone in that relationship than I was just being alone. Because being in a false relationship is much, much worse. Once I gave up and decided just to live my life how I wanted and under my terms, the goofy boy that is more perfect for me than anyone I could have dreamed up, wandered into my life. It was more than worth the wait. I know that was sappy bearie, sorry

Oh I definitely have the same problem. Like right now I'm totally in baby mode and want a blankie and a paci and to hide under the blankie with my bears. But I have my kids so I can't. It's a stress reliever for me alot of the time, so I always want it when I'm cranky or stressed out, and that's always when I can't have it! Had an argument with my bf today too, that made me wanna throw chicken nuggets and cry. I know what I'm doing later! Ok I might not throw chicken but I might get a new pink blankie and hide under it. The worse is when it hits when I'm at work cuz I can't really even talk about it or read online, at least that's something.

understanding.infantilism.org no log in, tons of information presented without any leanings. Just information.

I say do it how you want. 5 year olds are school age kids, they may have issues with bigger words or certain letter combinations but they speak pretty well as alot of them are already learning to read and such. They repeat themselves alot when they know they pronounced something wrong until they get it right. And boys at least obsess about bodily functions. If it involves their blood, poop, pee or boogers, they will very candidly share it with you. My son is 5. The one thing I can think of he mispronounces is "oblivion" the combination of the b,l and vare tricky. Usually comes out "oblibion" Anyhow it's more what they talk about at that age than how. Tho they do tend to be rather whiny at that age too.

As far as mental health goes, it's generally only considered a problem (it being anything, from fetishes to other personality quirks) if it's causing distress to your life or those around you. I think of it as a preference. Some people wear their thongs hanging out of their pants, some people get off on watching dogs screw chicks. Whatever *shrugs* I happen to wear different underwear and different things turn me on. What I like is just different, doesn't mess up my life, my kids lives, my family, my work. It adds to my relationship with my boyfriend, it's fun, sometimes it's comforting, sometimes it's silly, sometimes it turns me on. It's just part of my life, and I don't analyze it anymore than I analyze the kind of car I drive or the job I chose. Now how it falls into place in my relationship with my bf, sometimes I overanalyze that, but that's my own insecurities and fears, has nothing to do with the ab or dl stuff. I don't know what to say to get anyone to accept themselves however. You're not a freak, you're not weird. Better than that you aren't boring. Nothing is worse to me than people who live every day trying to be a typical "american" than ever giving thought to what makes them unique. Enjoy the fact that you are instead of trying to punish yourself for it.

i don't think it's bad advice either. I do think she shoulda been more honest with him in the beginning, and her focus on how attractive they both are was a bit odd. I can relate tho not in the same way. We both participate in the abdl fetish to somewhat differing degrees, I'd never change it for the world and I don't want to stop any part of it. I could write paragraphs just on why I like it so much. But occassionally i find myself wondering if my boyfriend is attracted to me or just thinks about diapers so much and I happen to fall into to picture now.I mean I don't think he's not attracted to me, I dunno how to explain it lol. We were together a while before the fetish made an appearance and things were great then too I just had a much higher sex drive than him which then left me feeling not good enough. Now sex is there whenever I can take it except it has more to do with diapers than me. I dunno this prolly makes no sense. I'm not complaining by any means. I guess it's like the one quote that says the desire of man is the woman and the desire of the woman is the desire of the man. Except in this case his sex drive has nothing to do with me Anyhow like I said I wouldn't change anything about our sex life or our relationship in general cuz it's wonderful and I love him more than anything, for more reasons than I could ever put in writing. I just think about things too much, it's a girl thing!

Fantasy...hmm...I do wish my boyfriend could manage messy pants on a daily basis. Every few days is still nice though! And a contest! To see who can hold it longer after a suppository is used And to tie my boyfriend on his belly in a sopping wet diaper, undo the tabs, and use various items/toys on him anally when he can't see what's going on. That's it. At least that I'm willing to share!

There is no right way. People have trouble because if it doesn't work out, that person can tell whoever they want about all your secrets. Some secrets you don't want sneaking out. Not to mention the relationship might be going along nicely, why risk something that's pretty good? Personally I think it's worth the risk but I understand the logic. What works depends far too much on the dynamics of a relationship, how long it's been established, how much you can really trust the person. With us we joked around about it for about a year. Once we figured it out, we laughed about how many signs there were we never dared to ask the other about. What blew it up and into the open was me having a dream about powdering his butt. I laughed and told him about it, it turned him on and I noticed. I bought some baby powder to see his reaction, he told me about his diaper lovin self and 2 days later we were lounging in diapers with paci's together and I was happily cleaning his messy butt. So we stumbled into it but there was alot of joking and feeling around about it before, and he had a pretty good idea that I'd be ok with it even if he wasn't sure I'd participate. Not sure either of us expected to jump right into poo cleaning so fast, but once it was on the table, we were off and running and it opened alot of new doors for us to explore. I don't think it coulda happened in a better way for us. But that's us.

We're going to do this tonight. Are the bananas pretty easy to put in? I'll be putting them in for him but it just seems like it could be tricky. Does it matter if you use a suppoistory? We're going to do a suppository first, then go grocery shopping and see if he makes it home hehe. Later, we'll do the bananas. I'll have sex on a messy diaper (i love it) but as the intent for the night involves oral sex I don't really want my head in a messy diaper for 20 minutes. Thus the bananas If it takes too long for the bananas we can always do a normal enema I guess. Hee! Very excited for an evening of butt fun at my boy's expense! Tho he'll be the first to admit he loves it too.

I was always an AB but never much got into diapers, just a few occassions, I was too chicken. My bf was always DL, some sidesteps into the ab part of things. Neither of us knew about the others ab/dl sides until we'd been dating for 18 months. When we first talked, he told me about his dl side first. Said he was never really into the ab stuff, had gotten a paci on occassion but tossed it. I was the opposite, didn't do diapers, wasn't sure if I was going to try it or not. He came with me bottle shopping, got his own stuff. So now he's definitely ab just heavier on dl than me. And I'm definitely dl just heavier on the ab side. Got an adorable picture of him the other morning with his glow worm and his firefly paci. Priceless! But it sorta happened to both of us. I think because like someone else said it was probably always there but once you have someone you trust that you can talk about that stuff with, why not go for anything you wanted to try? It's less weird when you have a partner, you don't have to worry about what they think and it's easier to accept your self too. You don't go thru the "WTF am I doing" stages of throwing everything out and crawling back to it. It's always there, and life is always warm and happy!!

it's all about comfort for me. I've always had an oral fixation, I'm a nail biter, a paci sucker, a bottle user. If I could get away with having my bottle at work, I would. Every day. The paci helps me concentrate when I play games or do puzzles, it helps me relax and feel happy when I have a crappy day, it helps me fall asleep at night, even if I'm drooling all over myself. Though I will say, having one that fits you is much, much, better than getting an infant one at the store. I have a couple of those and sometimes they serve a purpose, mostly if I'll be playing a game and might have need to talk to my boyfriend with the paci in my mouth. But the Nuk 5 is by far the best, in my opinion. $30 very well spent, but I'm quite attached to my paci. I love the thing. My boyfriend has one that fits him to a T. It's adorable He doesn't use is as much as he should though *points*

Yeah I wouldn't jump into buying bibs and pacis until you know whether he's into that aspect of it or not. Some people are, many of them are only into the diaper aspect. Only way to find out what he wants, is to ask. He might be shy sharing with you, but he's probably thought alot about it, you just have to convince him it's ok and safe to tell you. Then you have to decide what, if anything, you don't want to participate in, and go from there. It's a little bit strange the first time you lay with a bottle in front of someone, but you adjust quickly. Hehe

You do realize what pull-ups purpose is, right? That they are for toilet training little kids, thus they are made only to hold smallish kid sized accidents? They aren't even made to handle full-blown kid pee/poop much less an adults. I know they are cute and all but I guess I just don't understand the purpose of wearing them for how little you can actually use them, considering the cost. Why not just get something that handles the job?

Me: I have a kitty named Kylie who lives with my mom still, as my son is allergic to her And we have a bearded dragon named Carson. My boyfriend: A kitty named Tiger that lives with his parents cuz he can't have kitties:( A Russian tortoise named Rasputin (Sputs for short) A beardie named Bowser A leopard gecko named Donut A Golden Agama named Luigi (Weeger for short) A ball python named Monty and 2 rats named Gizmo and Onyx his apartment is kind of a zoo It's fantastic! In the next month I shall be getting a ferret or 2 as well. Yay fuzzies!!

I do over the phone tech support for America's brightest McJob holders! Me in North Dakota: "On the top there is a reset button. You will need a paperclip to put in the small hole in order to press the button" Caller in California: "Small coke? Our small coke is fine....did you want one???" If it weren't for the fact I love the people I work with, I would have lost my mind by now

A car seat and/or booster seat would be great! Also freely available sheets in queen size bed sizes, like Transformers etc. I know you can have them made, but I don't wanna spend that much and wanna just go to walmart and get them like all the other sheets. An exersaucer. A sit n spin. I'm more of a toddler than a baby, but I want adult size fun toys! Big wheels. And I had this little playskool sit n skoot thing as a toddler, I want one of those too.

I just wanted to reply to Tris's earlier post about a woman with real kids. i have "real kids" as in, they are my biological children, and they are still children (ie they still live with me full time, they aren't out of my house or anything) Even if I didn't happen to participate in the same fetish as my boyfriend, I wouldn't feel any differently about it because I have "real kids" I would still have been as accepting, and still found it interesting and fun. Having kids makes the challenges more interesting, but most of that was about me and dealing with wanting to act like a baby while I am raising kids. That doesn't mean I'm going to be openly walking around in a diaper and baby clothes with a pacifier in front of them, no reason to do so. if they happened to find out, we would deal with it and it would be fine. So don't go around saying that a woman with kids is going to be less accepting about this fetish, or any other one. If anything, it might help, as being a guy coming into a relationship with a woman who already has kids that don't belong to you, takes a good deal of acceptance on his part as well. (did that even make sense?) My point is, if a man is willing to be accepting of a woman's kids, she's going to be more interested in investing in him and accepting his quirks as well. (not that having kids isa quirk, but it's a hell of alot more challenging than the "normal" person's relationships)

My favorite is to wear overalls, it just fits the theme so well But also I have no problems wearing even bambinos under my jeans. My boyfriend wears his under his jeans as well. The noise factor, myself I just don't care if anyone notices, it's not like their first thought it going to be "wow what was that, was she wearing a diaper!?" I don't even wear baggy clothes, just average, and they work just fine. I am curious to see how this goes in the summer as I think it'll be more noticeable with shorts on, not to mention the heat!

Both, might as well get my money's worth out of the bambinos, and, well that's what diapers are for! Not in my normal undies tho, ew. I share laundry with other people in my building, I don't really wanna be washing poopie undies in there. Hehe. I'll pee anywhere, I keep the pooing at home, then if I wanna sit and bounce around in my messy pants, I can. That's half the fun anyhow! Just messing a diaper is nothing for clean up compared to having sex on top of a messy diaper. And personally my boyfriend is nice enough to let me to enemas on him, cuz I like cleaning him up. And, well enema messy pants are pretty easy to clean, might be alot in the diaper, but clean up is actually easier because it's not as sticky

warming it up will help the cramping. It should be around 100-103ish, well at least that seems to be the temp that works best. Personally I would invest $5 and get one of the bag kits from Walmart. Saves you money in the long run, and you can adjust the flow, and the amount, and add things to it, such as mineral oil or lemon juice (which is what we normally use). Keeping it in won't hurt you, the more water you put in, the more watery it is when it comes out, but it prolly cleans you out better as well. Try laying down and let it get into your system farther. You'd be amazed how much liquid you can put in there

I'm a toddler, not a baby thankyouverymuch! But I'm also a mommy to a crazy psycho toddler. I do wear and use my lovely Bambino crinkley diapers as well. And I like a good spanking now and then, and sexually curious, always.