Nat

There was no agenda and you're acting like I attacked you when I didn't. I only quoted the part I was responding too and you took it personal like I was out yo get you. People here can see your entire post to see what you written so there wouldn't be a point to pretend you didn't write anything else. People here have eyes and they can see all the posts in this thread. There was no point to repeating yourself. Go ahead and block me. I don't like interacting with people anyway who think everything is an attack and someone having an agenda against them when all they were doing is making a comment. Bye.

People that need to wear diapers may become one because it helps them cope with it. My friend is also ABDL. His disability makes him feel like a baby. But he doesn't like needing to wear them because of costs and he becomes housebound when he has a bladder day. He doesn't want to risk leaks or having to change in public. I honestly think if he quit drinking beer and pop, he wouldn't have bladder days. It would reduce it a lot. I like to drink energy drinks and flood my diapers having a bladder day. But I avoid every drinks when I'm gone all day to avoid any messy accidents or a bladder day. Water doesn't affect my bladder much. My dad is diabetic so he uses the bathroom a lot. His body just makes more urine than an average person. My son has SPD so he might be sensitive to his bladder so he uses the toilet more. He doesn't wear diapers and it's not something I would encourage him to do. I have even pulled over on the side of the road to let him go. Back in high school I was peeing up to 8 times a day because teachers limited passes for each student per quarter. We only had 3 passes so I would pee between each class and during lunch and when I would first get to school to avoid feeling any urge to go because it's distracting to feel the urge to go. I think this is what fucked my bladder up making it more sensitive and I cut back on fluids in the day time too so I was always dehydrated and always constipated and I thought this was all normal. I started to use having to pee a lot as an excuse to put a diaper on when I drank too much water because I worked out. Lot of people have a hard time wearing them due to the stigma but they may seek out ABDL to help them wear them and learn to like it. That is why it seems like half of ABDLs are incontinent. But most IC people are not into ABDL. I do admit I like diapers so I wear them. But I am not into it the way diaper fetishists are. For me it's more of a lifestyle and convenience and comfort. There seems to be a stigma about liking diapers so they come here even if they have a medical issue. I mean they do the work to keep you dry so why wouldn't you like them? It's like me saying I don't like pads or tampons but wear them anyway when in fact I don't like having my period. Imagine if someone said they didn't like underwear but wore them anyway. This is what I think about diapers. People with medical issues are too afraid to say they like them so they seek out ABDL communities instead because it's more accepted here. And I don't think it's uncommon for IC people to post in ABDL communities for this reason. I still think some of them have a hard time saying they like them because if they didn't like it, they would be living on toilet schedules or limiting fluids and what they drink. It's okay to like diapers. It's okay to wear them out of convince and enjoy it. But this stigma is still there so they won't admit to it.

You obviously didn't understand, i said I think people with autism or other mental issues are more likely to become ABDL. Lot of people misunderstand what "more likely" means. It does not mean you will become one. Also my son will go to the bathroom a lot if he has had anything to drink and he has been out of diapers for 9 years. He once went twice while we were at a mall and we weren't there long. I also have a friend who has an abnormal large bladder but he is still IC due to ceberal palsy. That means when his bladder empties, he will flood his diaper and needs heavy duty ones that will hold 30-40 second pees.

Sounds like you do need diapers and your partner doesn't understand you don't need to be IC to wear them. I also can't go all day without using the toilet and it amazes me to see my daughter do it and my mom. Some people just have small bladders so they go more often. I think more people on the spectrum and those with mental issues are more likely to be ABDL. That is why the number of them are so high in the community.

I have two of my own and dont regret it. My oldest is already starting junior high next week. I never bothered taking my kids to the hair cutting place to get mine cut till they were old enough to behave and wait. I can understand how moms can be late with toddlers because they're unpredictable and don't understand time and they're not puppets so shit happens. I once left a $10 tip when my youngest was 4 because the lady working there had to practically baby sit while I got my hair cut because her being left with books and coloring wasn't enough so she wandered around. Luckily they were not busy so I was thr only customer there but lesson learned.

ABDL is classified as a kink and fetish so therefore it will be seen as a sex shop. If it's a medical shop, then they would have to allow in all ages or else it's an adult shop.

What part of Montana are you from? My family has a house on Flathead Lake they go to in the summer and my parents also have a house in a town nearby for their getaway and my brother lives nearby there and I have a cousin that just moved there too and my brother lives in Helena.

We don't amputate people when they have BDD and we don't make someone blind or deaf for their desire so I voted no for this since I think making yourself IC also falls under this.

I just got on this website and the pop up occurred saying my PC is locked due to suspicious activity, it wouldn't let me out so I had to turn it off and back on to get rid of it.

She did an update and this wasn't a real scam, this just was a man who can't run a business and is totally bad with finances so he backs out of deals and he couldn't handle any criticism so he ghosted. But he came back all because of her video and he is going to be finishing up work he promised but is not taking any new orders. This doesn't excuse what he did, I don't think he should be running a business. As a business owner, you will get criticism and hate and you deal with it by ignoring it or asking them what would they like that would make them happy and you will be dealing with the ones who will be trying to scam you. If you can't handle all that, maybe don't run a business.

I have done lot of reading on pedophilia and it helps me understand where the pedo accusations come from. I always thought it was obsurd to say anyone is a pedo for liking childish stuff and being childlike. Now I know many of them seem to have these characteristics. That isn't to say all child like people are pedophiles or that if you had a kid's room as an adult, you are a pedo. I also think pedophilia is a trauma based condition because it seems like some of them are created from sexual abuse and it stunts their sexuality so it stays in that age range. But sadly many people seem to think this is just a justification or an excuse but I guess no one is interested in what causes pedophilia, can it be prevented, why are some people pedophiles. I am also curious why do some end up being one while other CSA survivors end up with CPTSD or end up with asexuality or something. It's like how not all child abuse survivors grow up to have a cluster B disorder.

I think that site is mixed with Trump lovers and anti Trumpers. The moment I came out as anti Trump and came out as being very critical of the right, this one particular person stopped liking my posts but I assume she is a Trump lover and right wing. She did come out as a Trump Supporter as well so I am not surprised.

I used to frequent that site when I was 15 and at the time the user of the site was only 30 and I would read his fictional stories and read stories submitted by others. I didn't realize how creepy they were until I was an adult. I picked up on the pattern and started to suspect he was a pedophile and he wrote fiction as his outlet. I wonder how many of us frequent his page being very naïve because of our young age? I realize now he is into humiliation, going pantless, wearing very thick diapers, being exposed to others, having his diapers pinned to his shirt. This explains his stories as well and one of them I read. I also think he may have been gay because that would explain why he only preferred boys in diapers and the fact they were all under 13 is what made me realize he was a pedophile. I also think he may have been into incest as well because lot of his stories had sisters diapering their brothers so the parents wouldn't have to deal with diapers. The fact all his characters ranged from 8-13 years of age would make me think that was his sexual range.

Why is post merging a issue?

All I say is if not being able to expose your diapers causes you distress and if having to go to work dressed up as an adult causes you distress, get help. This becomes a problem. That means your fetish has taken over. This can apply to anything. If it causes you distress that you can't play video games when you have to sleep or work or do other daily life, you have a problem. People will use "age dysphoria" to justify than admit they have a problem. If adulting caused you so much distress, I think there is a underlining factor like autism or depression, other neurological impairment or intellectual impairment. We just have less stamina than an average person.

I started wearing them again when I was 17.

I like it tight but not too tight or else it's uncomfortable and it will leak if it's too loose.

One thing that will turn me away from a story is if it's a diaper dimension story. Lack of quotation marks and paragraphs.

I'm willing to open my mind to "age dysphroia" when doctors start to say it exists and when I start to see actual articles about it than seeing no results popping up. BTW I notice anyone who claims this disease are pedophiles so they can excuse their behavior when they saxually abused a child and those who want to have an excuse to expose their ABDLism in public and expose their diapers openly and compare it to LGBT which is why it became a bannable offense in some ABDL fetlife groups. Which is why I feel very negative about the term and decided I will just not let them in my ABDL space then since they identify as a minor.

Understandable, the computer it just dumb lol. It should have said "D*kr" or something.

I didnt say any site was started in the 70s, it was the dang word filter thing that did my post. We are talking about you know who. Fucking word filter. We are talking about a human here of his website.

I love how he got the blame of him exposing his diaper to little boys in Utah but that was another guy and [That site] gets the credit for it. Even the ED page says that about him but I know that was not him. [That site] lived in Boise, Idaho. I bet all his stories took place there. I know one of them did. Also [That site] was born in 1970 and the man the story who exposed his diaper was a 31 year old man and the article is from 2009 so no way that is [That site]. How can people get this confused is beyond me. I guess people don't pay attention to detail.

Wait, did that man commit suicide or what?

That site hasn't been updated in ages so it's an archive site. I wonder where the site owner is now.

If it's not a kink, then why do we make this be 18 plus? Mind as well let minors in because this isn't a kink after all.