Well, I as many other abdl guys would like to find a female who also enjoys diapers and abdl. I suppose you can always try meeting a vanilla girl and introduce her to it, but then you have the possible rejection of "your crazy, you like to wear diapers????". Thats why many of us come online to find girls who are already into the abdl thing. I just wish there were more of them. I honestly think there are many many more and that they just don't post online/go on the internet yet.