badaddy4u

Hi Angela A baby girl I've been babysitting on a regular basis for the past several years has had an occasional bedwetting problem all her life. She's often thought about how nice it would be to be a nightly bedwetter thus making diapers manditory and would certainly make her feel like a baby again. She's never aggressively attempted to make that a reality because she doesn't wear diapers every night nor did she think it would be possible plus the problem of disposables leaking when she did wear them at night. About a year ago after reading your excellent comments and recommendations of guaze diapers, I ordered some prefold gauze diapers, plastic baby pants and baby diaper pins to put her in while she stayed with me for a week since she had never worn cloth but was very curious about them. She loved them and wore them nightly from the first night I put her to bed in them. Although she said the sensation was very different from disposables and enjoyed the fact that her bed was almost always dry in the morning. But what surprised us both was how much more often she was wetting at night and even occasionally during naps which never happened when wearing disposables that began almost immediately. She's now consistantly wetting 4 nights or more a week and is certain she's wetting more than once in her sleep. But here's the real kicker. When I ask her what is making her wet her cloth diapers so much more then when she wore disposables, her theory is always the same. It's her belief that just knowing she is getting put into the very same gauze prefold diapers, with the very same baby diaper pins and covered with the very same plastic baby pants that real baby's wear for the very same reason has convinsed her subconsious that she's still a baby. She thinks the bulk of the diapers and the way they spread her legs plus the pressure on the diapers you talk about from the onezies all make her consiously think as she goes to sleep that she really has become a baby again and will naturally wet. Mind over matter?

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I have a baby girl close friend who will be spending most of the Xmas holidays with me. I've known her for several years and my friends and family adore her as I do. She has been a chronic sleepwetter since she was a child and was very abused by her step-father for years for it. What she most wants is for me to punish and humiliate her for her bedwetting as her step-father did. What I sometimes am concerned with is my punishing her for it even though I know she can't help it and must be in diapers when she goes to sleep. I spank her for it, I punisher her by making her wear diapers during the day for it, and have been open about her wetting and my having to put diapers on her to make sure her bed stays dry with family and friends as she experienced as a child. Is it common in adult bedwetters to want to be humiliated like a child for something they can't help and if so how do other couples handle this when it's obvious that they seem to need this so much? Your Thoughts Badaddy4u@yahoo.com

Earlier this year, while "babysitting" a baby girl who was staying with me for five days, I was reminded again how potent enforced baby naps can be to some adult baby girls. Barbie's first vist was two months earlier for four days and was noticably more comfortable this trip with the nursery and having to be put to bed at night in a crib as a baby. However naps were a different matter. Late afternon of day two, I ask her to put away her coloring book and toys because it was time to get her diapers on and after I finished warming her bottle, she was getting put down for her nap. And that's when the sassy mouth, stubborn infantile four year old behavior began that I had never experienced with her. I put up with this for about 5 minutes, then pulled her thick training pants down and gave her not the first spanking she'd gotten from me but for sure the most painful. I then picked her up, took her into the nursery, put her in her crib and as I was diapering her, reminded her that little girl naps are mandatory in this house and to further remind her of that, she just earned the rest of her visit in diapers. I should add that her nap time is the only opportunity that I have to do a 1 1/2 hour workout in the workout area of my home because I don't want to leave her alone while she's visiting. She was still crying when I gave her her bottle and reminded her that she was to stay in her crib after her nap until I came to get her up; the same rule I enforce in the morning. I made the nursery as dark as I could and took one of the portable baby monitors and decended two floors below to begin my workout. She finally stopped crying and took her bottle and I didn't hear anything until about mid way through my workout. Then I began to hear what sounded like very soft sobbing and went to the nursery to confirm this. I saw from the nursery doorway that she had finished most of her bottle, was holding her teddy bear very tightly and was in fact softly sobbing. As I stood next to the crib, I ask her gently why was Daddy's baby crying. During the next 10 minutes through the sobbing, she explained to me that she had just experienced an epiphany that would change her life. For the first time since she was first aware that she was still a baby and needed to live part of her life as one, was she finally able to totally surrender to it. She said she woke up feeling her little bum still stinging and wetting her diapers but didn't know where she was until she opened her eyes and looked through the bars of the crib. The tears were really of joy and she could now enjoy just being the baby she is. It wasn't the spanking, or the diapering, or even the crib and bottle that "sent her to the mountain". But rather, still having to take a nap as a baby that she's convinced made it possible to finally accept her "special needs" and know that it really is OK! Every baby girl that I've spent time with have said baby naps are wonderful. Plase share your thoughts. badaddy4u@yahoo.com

WOW. I'm floored, not only by the sophistication and intellectual level of all of the responses, but the now sense of information over-load I'm feeling regarding how complex her need to be seen as a liitle girl seems to be. DD has certainly attracted a thought provoking and illuminating forum and thank you all for that. In response, I first need to add some clarity to my first posting. Though she's 24/7 when visiting, she frequently goes to great lengths to insure no possible awareness by others that she's in diapers. This is out of repect for me and my friends as well as certain public venues such as dinner at a very nice restaurant, etc. Additionally, there are many public outings that I'm certain her diapers are never seen although some Daddy/Little Girl innuendo can be observed. I do agree with the suggestion that the "fear of detection" is always at work with her and an important need component. What I'm really struggling with is your reponses that this is clearly sexually based and it's a sexual rush she's after. She assures me it isn't and will say that it is "so much more than that". What adds to her credibility are a few of the sexual fantisies she has shared with me that seem to be totally unrelated. Yet diapers are a very necessary element for arousal. The point made of humiliation I'm sure is related because of her reaction when I verbally reprimand her as a child in public. Is it possible for public humiliation but only in the context of what we all hearfrom a frustrated parent to a misbehaving small child be non-sexual as she claims? I put the exhibitonist factor on par with public humiliation. The occasions when I'm carrying a baby's fully packed diaper bag such as beach or picnic/concert outings. Again, can a baby girl have these needs that are not sexually arousing as she claims? One final thought that I'm dealing with in another baby girl as well who I spend time with. Because of our age differense, I'm old enough to legitimately be their biological father and with both baby girls this seems to be paramount in wanting strangers to precieve. You see where I'm going with this..a little girl who still needs to be taken care of as a small child by her parent. I guess my comfort with her being seen in diapers is how I react when I see an older child or handicapped person clearly in diapers and that is it's obviously necessary. I see her need to be kept in diapers as a two year old as just as necessary as someone who is incontinent. And truely believe that a very big part of her is still very much a child if this makes any sense. The need to been see as still a child when with Daddy is the underlying desire with both baby girls and at this point, that's all I'm sure of. You all have given me a headache for having to think this deeply. Is this calculus class? Again thanks Badaddy4u

Three years ago, I met an AB/LG girl in her mid thirties on line and after a month of telephone calls, invited her to my home for a long weekend. We had a wonderful time together and continued to spend 4 to 5 day trips either to my place or hers dispite living 900 miles away from each other four times a year. As we became closer friends with each visit, she started to become very comfortable with sharing some of the dynamics of her AB preferences and near the top of her list was this intense need to be seen as a little girl and specifically for strangers to notice her diapers. But not in the context of obviously flashing her diapers, quite the opposite. She's a shy, very classy little girl who would never intentionally make anyone uncomfortable with the sight of her diapers. It must always be in the upmost of good taste; the accidental sight of the top of her diapers when she bent over or the slight outline of her thick cloth diapers and nursery print baby pants when wearing a pastel colored dress. As the visits continued, she would arrive at the airport in diapers and would leave in diapers, wearing 24/7 her last three visits for the purpose of creating even more opportunities for me to openly treat her as my little girl still in diapers. One of her most enjoyable experiences is to have me take her shopping in night diapers and plastic baby pants to affect the way she walked until she first wet them and pick out clothes I wanted her to try on. There have been numerous almost total exposure while in the women's changing areas but the most revealing instances have been while sales people slipped new shoes on her to try. She has great difficulty explaining why this is but describes the activity as totally overwhelming to her and beyond any sexual experiense when she's aware that someone has just seen her in baby diapers. I care very much for her and have tried to make her as comfortable with this as I can despite my not having a clue what all of this represents to her nor why she needs this so much. I come to the gentle readers of this enlightened forum-thank you DD, for two requests. One to offer plausable explainations for her needs if this is also shared by you. And to solicit if I may, your suggestions of creative ways to expose her diapers publicly but under the strict protacol she requires for her to enjoy this the way she needs so much. Your thoughts are most appreciated. Badaddy4u@yahoo.com

Hi Baby Girl A very warm welcome. We have lots of other baby girls for you to meet as well as some very nice Daddies. Hope you enjoy your new playpen. Badaddy4u

HI Jake Congrats for creating a fun and seemingly enjoyable sexual relationship for you both. The solution to your wife accepting being put in diapers may simply be in the presentation. It appears that she associates diapers to a small child/baby which is understandable. How about introducing the diapers as part of the corner time, spanking etc. In other words don't present them as a way of treating her as a baby but rather as a form of punishment to that teenager you mentioned or prehaps somewhat younger. She may then see the diapers as a mild form of humiliation or punishment for an older child who doesn't want to take responsibilty for those things she is expected to take care of. I have a friend who vists me from time to time who needs spankings, diapers and infantile treatment presented clearly to a submissive young adult woman for the feeling of humiliation and punishment that must always be present for her to reach sexual gratification. This is totally different from what another baby girl friend of mine needs from me and that is total Daddy/18 month old baby care to be sexually fulfilled. We simply must be respectfull to the way are mates are"wired" sexually and the "age" they need to be defined as. And remember how fortunate we are to be with women who enjoy the exploration as much as we do. Good luck.

Wishing everyone a Happy New Year. Best wishes to the DD crew for a spectacular site and continued success. I was introduced to the diaper scene many years ago by a young submissive AB/LG bedwetter and became very comfortable taking care of her as a baby/little girl never having a child of my own. Since then I have had the good fortune of meeting and babysitting a number of adorable adult little girls and have become hopelessly committed to the Daddy/LG life style and relationship form. It has not only allowed me to experience many of the joys parents with small children take for granted, but to me is the ultimate Dom/sub expression. To all the AB/LGs out there, we Daddys love you just the way you are. Stay happy and wet.