Baby Cammy

Oh, and overall, great answers! Thanks a bunch.

I would venture to say most men seeking advice concerning this topic have said some of the same things I have said, "I'm ok with whatever outcome". I would also venture that most if not all of those men, to some degree, really are not ok with whatever outcome. I can understand and appreciate everyone's willingness to help me see the light, as it were. I feel I must stress again. Diapers and this fetish are not a priority for me. My initial purpose for posting this was to gain advice from, say, a woman's perspective. I agree with Sarah in that people grow and who knows what the future holds. Is that to say the possibility of her willingness is going to consume my thoughts? Not at all. As far as I'm concerned business as usual.

First, thank you for all the replies. I, unlike most males involved or connected to this fetish, know what priority a fetish has within a marriage (or life for that matter). I have chosen to place this pretty far back, rightly so. I would again like to make it clear I am in no hurry and am not expecting anything. I'm ok with whatever outcome. As far as discussing fetishes prior to marriage, we did. And still do. It's important not to confuse fantasy with reality. I fear this community has a big problem with this. To each his own.

Thanks! I'm not sure what "role" she or I would take on. I guess I haven't thought that far. For her, as I assume it is with most women, she wants to feel sexy and attractive. Telling her, yes you're sexy and attractive but here try this on, doesn't do much to convince her of such. Hence my decision not to bring it up for a while. She needs to KNOW she alone turns me on. That's my predicament. If she does not share my excitement for diapers, will she ever feel sexy in one as she does in lingerie? Probably not. And I do not want to be selfish.

I'm 24, newly married, and diapers turn me on. I haven't been the one to go out and buy diapers, but rather I've just fantasized. My wife has been aware of my "thing", as we call it, since day 1 and she has made clear she would not want to put me in diapers or treat me like a baby. I have been completely fine with that and will continue to be fine with it, but I would like some advice. We have not yet discussed the possibility of me diapering her. Now I don't think it's a good idea to bring it up any time soon as I want to give time for our marriage to grow a good foundation. But there may be a chance although she doesn't like the idea of me in diapers, she wouldn't mind herself in diapers. It's a small chance but it's all I got as far as diapers and this fetish go. If not it's no big deal, I've been without diapers this long. So do you all think there's a possibility? If so, how and when do you think I should bring it up? I realize you may need more info before answering but just let me know.

From a Christian perspective, all the things she has said is true of what most christians believe on this "sort" of thing. Pornography for example is usually more easily overcome when accountability is in place. You have to tell someone BEFORE they can help keep you accountable, thus the need for telling. There is safety in a multitude of council. She brings up very good points. They certainly are not to be just excused away. A lot of [christian] people who indulge in this sort of thing know one thing. They like it. They don't know why. But they do. Sure infantilism isn't directly addressed in the bible. Sure people can say they are in God's will even though they have this whole secret life that they keep hidden (for good reason). But when you get down to it, take a step back and look at how much trouble and confusion and heart break and lies are involved. Is that God's best? Seriously. I doubt it. Stop lying to yourself and more importantly stop being selfish. You have a wife that loves you and she wants the best. Don't discount her arguments simply because you think she just has no clue, and she doesn't know what it's like, and no one understands, blah blah blah. Think how much strain and stress could be lifted if this was not something you dealt with. A lot probably. She is not the problem. You are. I suggest you seek council from someone you trust. Love covers, it doesn't expose. Somebody had to say it...

What do you mean?

Couple things. 1. Thanks everyone for the advice about baby powder vs. sex. 2. To those who oppose my belief system: I appreciate your input, now that nothing was accomplished, back to the topic. I respect that you choose to live and believe the way you do, please give the same courtesy.

Just goes to show how much I know about it all. Nothing! Those condoms look very interesting. Definitely will have to check them out! And thank you ultrapampers!

I've heard that condoms take away from the whole experience.

Hey well that sucks. Maybe I'll just be VERY careful. And use baby wipes should we do anything during baby time

How I say this as innocent as possible, I'm afraid of getting powder "in" her during sex. My brain doesn't make anything good out of that.

My fiance and I will be getting married soon (in August) and, being a firm believer in abstinence before marriage, we are both very new to entire sex thing In older posts I have mentioned that we have both discovered we have a VERY big thing in common. We are ABs. To the max. At this point in time though we have decided to hold back any and all desires for such things, that is, until marriage of course. It would only make a mess of things. Well, in light of August growing nearer and nearer, I can't help but question whether or not, when we indulge in baby play, a simple thing like baby powder will affect us sexually. Is it safe? Should we take precaution? Thoughts anyone? Also as a side note, what are some things we should try first when the time comes (concerning baby play and just play in general)? -Of course diapers What else?

Where are you gathering your information from?

I would just like to add, and I can't believe no one has mentioned him yet (and if you have forgive me), a man named Josephus. Josephus was a first-century Jewish historian who documented the life, miracles, and resurrection of Jesus.