AugustRaineDL

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Lesbian “little” checking in. Always open to new friends.

I’m a lesbian “little” or sometimes “middle” and I have a lesbian CG/MD.

Hershey’s with almonds is my fav. I like Skor Bar, Almond Joy, Mounds, Butterfinger and Airheads too. There was some candy I liked years ago that I am always trying to remember what it was. I don’t remember the packaging or ingredients. I only remember the taste. It was like chocolate but also like a richer, darker taste to it. I am not sure what it was. It was chewy but not caramel, which I find too sweet. This was like a richer taste, less sweet but very good but very chewy (not crunchy). Maybe you guys can help me remember.

The general advice is to date exclusively in kink friendly circles/communities from the outset. But, just because you are dating a fellow kinkster, they might not be into this specific kink (although they are likely to be more understanding than a vanilla partner because they understand that it is a harmless sexual interest). Next advice is going to be to bring it up early but not too early. Think about 6-8 weeks in or before making any promises/exclusivity agreements. You might want to gauge how important diapers are on your sexual mental map but if you are on this site, it probably is somewhat important or very important. Personally for me, this fetish goes very far back like to my childhood so I get it if it’s like imprinted on you. If you are already dating someone seriously, try to talk to your partner generally about fetishism. He/she/they should understand that fetishes generally are harmless. You are going to have to just tell them outright though that you like to wear diapers. It may be a bit of a rip the bandAid off kind of situation. I mean this is not a run-of-the mill foot fetish so it is really unknown how our partner is going to feel about it. Sometimes people have an aversive reaction because they may fear that there is more to it (like a scat fetish) or they may just have a strong association of diapers with non-sexual things like performing chores they hate doing. If that is the case and if they are absolutely opposed to it, it is better to find out sooner rather than later, no? But as far as incorporating dips into your sex life, I promise it is only weird the first time!

Thanks for the quick responses friends (and I welcome more to respond of course). But thank you because I feel like some of the things I desire can be a bit difficult to communicate to my partner (and shame definitely plays a role in my communication difficulties.) I don’t feel I was forced to grow up fast so that is not the issue but rather that I was verbally abused and emotionally neglected. I definitely have “mommy issues”. I guess this is on my mind because (and here we get to the crux of my dilemma) I always desire more humiliation stuff and for many years it has never felt like “enough” but then when I communicate this to my MD, it becomes too extreme (she always stops immediately so no issues there). I still don’t know the exact right amount or style of dominance that is going to satisfy me and hit that exact psychological need.

Hey all- I have been really depressed recently and have felt very demotivated. So all I felt like doing was reading on my phone. While I was doing that, I came across an article that said that those who are verbally abused (which I was, on a regular basis) in childhood are prone to depression and anxiety in adulthood and also we tend to form unhealthy co-dependent relationships with our partners. Well it got me thinking.. were you neglected or abused in childhood? Is this why we want to regress to that earlier life stage- because we are trying to heal some sort of childhood trauma? I ask because in addition to the regular AB/DL stuff I like to be humiliated sexually - laughed at, spanked, spoken down to by my CG/MD, given wedgies and kind of bullied by her. It is extremely erotic to me so I encourage her to do it even though it doesn't come naturally to her (she is very good at soft-domming but the rougher stuff she struggles with). Anyway, does anyone else believe their AB/DL or kinky proclivities have to do with being previously abused (verbally or emotionally) in childhood? Do you enjoy sexual humiliation today?

i am a vocalist. i like to sing folk, showtunes, pop, R&B, soft rock, and jazz. i play the keyboard also but i'm more of a vocalist.

i think this happened to me before too which really caught me offguard! i think i also searched mommy domme little girl and the keyword "little girl" set something off. i got a subscription for amazon kindle and now i read the erotica there. it's so hard to find decent porn or erotica especially in regards to these more niche kinks but there is decent stuff out there if you are willing to wade through the shit or if you are less picky about genders. i prefer lesbian characters so it's just that much harder for me..

Erotic humiliation in general. Having someone urinate on me or in my mouth, wedgies, spanking, impact play in general, anal sex - in the submissive role of course.

I am vegan. I became interested in veganism in my late teens. It was such a far cry from the way my family ate at the time (meat and potatoes diet basically). I stopped eating red meat for the most part at that time, and began cutting out dairy as well. It took me close to a decade of reducing meat but eventually I went pescatarian in my early 30s, then vegetarian. Finally I am vegan today. It was a long-time goal of mine to go vegan. I thought it was healthier. Living it everyday, I am not sure if it is healthier. Even though I take vitamins and eat fortified foods, I am now anemic. However, I do not want to eat animal products again. I believe animal products are addictive. If they weren't, it would not have been so difficult for me to stop eating them. I was absolutely hooked on meat and dairy!

Hello Little Sherri, Thank you for the warm greeting. I definitely understand what you mean about establishing trust. I only discuss it with my wife as well but I don’t really hide my gear (I’m a little disorganized atm) so if someone comes over unexpectedly they might get an eyeful but so far no one has directly questioned me about it. (But I don’t have kids or roommates so that is not the concern and no one under 18 ever comes in my house so that is not a concern either.) I would like to establish trust with friends and be able to meet up IRL. I don’t do FetLife as I don’t like all the porn on that site so I don’t have that option. I do like Reddit where I can blur out any porn images and have met some ABDL friends there.

Thanks for the warm greeting AbabeBill. You’re not far off as I tend to get myself stuck in all kinds of sticky situations in life. It feels good to be back! I got myself two new onesies this week off of Amazon so I am in little heaven- just in time for Halloween! Are all of you planning your tricks or on your best behavior in hopes of treats this weekend? A little of both if we’re all lucky. Happy Halloween!

Hi all, I am August Raine and I am back after a bit of a break. I am ABDL and also a middle (my regression age varies). I have been ABDL a long time and have had the pleasure of making some online ABDL friends but never any IRL. I was hoping to change that by attending TeddyCon 2021 but alas the event has been called off. If anyone would like to be friends, message me please! I like music, watching YouTube videos (while padded of course), and hiking. It's great to be back on Daily Diapers!

I'm not telling anyone what to do or what not to do. I'm just making suggestions.

Dear Minesmith67, The way I'm wired I have no need or desire for my partner to wear diapers. I just want to wear them and be "babied" for a bit. For me it is a once-in-a-while thing not an everyday kind of a thing so with these factors combined it is easier for my partner to indulge me. I had my partner read a few books on BDSM and power exchange in general, and a chapter here and there on ageplay since I figured the experts could explain it better than I could (and getting her to read them was like pulling teeth, but she did eventually). One book that was particularly useful was Enough to Make you Blush: Exploring Erotic Humiliation by Princess Kali. I, just by myself, read a great book called The Adult Baby Guidebook: The Life Struggles of the Perpetually Diapered which I thought was a very thorough, relatable and well-written book about one young man's experiences with AB/DL. I have a few other guidebooks as well for the CG/little power exchange relationship. (All these books were purchased on Amazon by the way.) For me the MD/lg power exchange dynamic is the main attraction so that's where I need help with communicating with my partner and I have sought resources to address that as communication is not my strong suit. I knew I'd just muck it up trying to explain it myself especially since there seem to be different facets to it. I am both AB and DL, and a little and a middle and an age regressor in general and some components are sexual and some are non-sexual so to try to explain all that would be too confusing and she honestly doesn't need to understand it. We are still trying to find our groove with how AB/DL is going to fit into our lives but these resources have helped open the lines of communication. I hope you find these resources helpful.

Hi Firefly 35. I am considering attending TeddyCon in Nov 2021. I've only just learned about it so I would also love to hear others' experiences.

Hello DiaperSD, Sorry to hear about your difficult time with your ex. This can be a difficult thing for others to understand. My wife is very understanding and i told her only after we married so i got lucky. Previously I thought it was a passing phase and that I’d grow out of it but no- this appears to be a deep-seated desire for me. So I had to tell and even with her being understanding, it is still hard for me to talk about with her, and that is where forums like this come in. I just asked my wife if i could wear a nappy around her at home and she is fine with that and i think that is a good place to start. I have no interest in seeing her wear- i just want her to be a caregiver- so that is not an issue for me (she is happy to play the CG role). I just like to wear myself and it is like a form of self-expression. I only wear at home but I’d like to wear maybe for a car ride one day. I’d also like to wear if out in the boonies someplace where it was just me and her. so just ask your gf if she is okay with you wearing around her. Def ask before wetting. Make sure she knows you’re considering her comfort level. If you’re both comfortable with that, you can ask to go down on her or pleasure her while you wear so she knows it’s not all about your pleasure. Then maybe ask if she would be okay doing a nappy change or a breastfeeding session while you wear. Maybe do a dry run for the nappy change at first so you can both get comfortable with it. I think it will be less awkward if you take “adult baby” steps. I feel you as it is still kinda awkward over here but as I said it is such a harmless fetish honestly! I see it as an extension of the caring and loving roles a girlfriend or wife would want to play anyway. Good luck!

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