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I find women in diapers hot,but I'm not sure how many women find men in diapers hot or cute?

No one will bash you. You sound pretty much in the same place as I am. Like you want a switch so you could turn yourself female or male whenever you wanted? I also feel like I have a prominent female side that is nonetheless overpowered by my male side. I've only just started exploring this myself, but there are many others who feel in some way confused about their gender. You could well be "Gender Fluid" which means that sometimes you feel very male and other times you feel very female, rather than just being at one end of the spectrum. There are many others out there that feel similarly so don't feel like you are the only one! In regards to your girlfriend, the earlier in the relationship you can tell her your "secrets" the better the chance of a positive reaction. If you feel like you can and that she would be OK with it, I would suggest letting her know how you feel. If not then you will have to decide if you can keep this stuff hidden from her throughout your potential relationship.

Well, if it hurts: see a doc... honestly it shouldn't hurt (peeing). It can be a sign of many things and I won't try - and neither do I recommend - diagnosing over the internet.

Yes it happens to me even though I am urge incontinent

How do you define RP in chat? Are you referring to people who come in asking to PM RP with people, or are you talking about littles taking over chat with things like "nakie night" and lots of "/me insert little activity here" and playing off each other in the main chat? If it's the former, a new chat room is going to do bupkus. Most PM RPers are HNGs (most) so pushing them all into one room is going to be a lot like that Simpsons gag where a bunch of lonely guys call a "party line" to talk with single girls but it's nothing but guys. They will inevitably migrate back to main chat to find what they weren't getting in the RP chat and nothing will be solved. If it's the latter, yes I do think that is a good idea. Kind of like one chat is for actual chatting and the other is a romper room of littles drawing on the walls and having tea parties and the like. That kind of stuff does tend to overtake chat and makes it so new people coming in have no idea what is going on and often leave shortly after as they realize there is little to no "in" unless they are already pretty well-established in chat.

So you all probably recognise me as "Elfking". I changed my name here because I wanted to use that username on another website that I don't want to be recognised from here on. Quite unexpectedly this name change as brought out a lot of feelings and I am not sure what to do or where to go with them. I have always had a feminine side, for as long as I can remember I have never been the most masculine guy in the world. That isn't to say I acted particularly "girly" growing up, in fact I played football, went paint balling and all my friends were guys. Being anything other than a guy was something that never crossed my mind. However, I did always know that I probably wasn't straight. As puberty happened I realised that I was fantasising about guys as much as girls... It wasn't something that worried me too much growing up, if I was gay then I was gay... But one thing that did happen, and still does happen (and this might be tmi, just a warning) is that when I am having sexual fantasies... Sometimes the fantasies involve me as the female side of things. So... Fast forward and I meet Alice. At the time we were both male and on pretty much the night we first met we somehow ended up both admitting that neither of us were sure about ourselves gender wise. Fast forward a couple of years and for my fiance this becomes a much more serious issue and she starts the process of transitioning (just recently celebrated a year on HRT and is on the waiting list for surgery). For me... My feminine side kind of disappeared. When me and Alice first met we both did the sissy thing and after a while I decided it wasn't for me. As Alice decided she wanted to change, I decided I didn't. So we stayed like that for a few years until just this past week. I don't know whether I just hid it from myself or whether it went away and came back or what but a lot of my old confused feelings are back. For whatever reason in the last week I have been feeling really... Confused. I honestly am struggling to put into words how I feel... I like being a guy, I don't think I'm transgender (though I'm not sure) but I have these feelings that I don't know how to explain. A yearning inside me for something and I'm not sure what. Which takes me back to the start... I had to change my name, and really I had a whole bunch of things to choose from and for some reason I decided I wanted a gender neutral, maybe even feminine, name such as the one I chose (It is a wrestling term but also resembles a feminine name). I'm really not sure where to go or what to do with all this. I'm not even sure what I am asking in this thread but I feel like something is happening and I am confused as to what it is. For some reason, even just typing this made me feel emotional. I guess I'm just looking for some advice.

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If you can gather the rear wings that far around the front, it is too big. You may want to try the small.

I can understand but not empathize with the voyeurism involved for people enjoying talk shows of that kind. but for what its worth, what I simply fail to understand is how & why anyone would choose freely to be part of such a show... to be put on display for what mostly is ridicule... Why would anyone willingly oust themselves like this? I don't mind if someone's open about their kinks... me and the wife are very kinky and some of our BEST FRIENDS know.... but that's the extend of it. I simply can not see the desire to get with something personal and private such as a fetish on TV.

Rockies Fan In Diapers, imitation is the sincerest form of flattery. Hugs, Freta

Is it racist?

Would love it if you could get the Rearz Inspire+ Amazing diapers but shipping makes it not affordable for regular buys

Are fear and stress wetting the same thing? I think both can cause wetting but I'm not sure they have the same triggers. To me, fear wetting is related to a specific incident in which one experiences intense fear, like when being robbed, assaulted or arrested for instance, which leads to temporary loss of bladder control. Stress wetting caused by anxiety is likely to lead to a more unpredictable and generalized wetting problem. I remember that when I was younger and was under a lot of stress due to a difficult family situation I started wetting the bed in my sleep much more frequently. This is probably more typical of stress wetting. Any thoughts on this?

Sounds like you're living in a wonderful setting. Having a mommy and sisters would be great. Super happy for you.

From my experience I have little to no warning before needing to pee at times. Which has lead me to wear diapers. For the most part I get the urge of needing to go but usually have around a minute to 2 minutes to find a restroom at times. I can try to hold it, but im usually unsuccessful in holding back my urine at times, while all I feel is my self peeing uncontrollably. -Thanks iCrinkle2

What a strange statement to make by a self-proclaimed Diaper Lover in the Incontinence forum! Is this opinion based on any personal experience with the incontinence community anywhere? Is this post saying that all of us who have freely shared our years of experience with actual urinary disease have been writing fantasy? Does this poster have the only knowledge of the various treatment and management options for incontinence? Has this poster read any of the milestone books about the treatment of incontinence, especially Cheryle Gartley's "Managing Incontinence"? If the poster has such a firmly fixed disbelief in the experience of such a large proportion of fellow DD members, why did he join and then stick around for 3 years?

The sensations vary from person to person, also from hour to hour. For me there was a decline in sensation from 1976 until late 1991. Although I had worn just-in-case diapers as needed growing up, I never wet them for no reason or without knowing. My bladder was over-active and small, so if I felt I had to go while on a trip and could not hold out until the next scheduled stop, I just wet my diaper. Sometimes I was diapered in a motel bed and I never wet any of those diapers. If I had to use a toilet in the night, I would get up, unpin one side of my diaper, use the toilet and then ask Mom or my older sister to re-pin my diaper. If it was close to dawn I would just stay up with half my diaper un-pinned inside my vinyl panties. Then a few weeks past puberty while in my own bed in a temporary home, I wet the bed while sleeping without knowing. Only when I woke up did I feel the wetness on my sheet. Mom had kept waterproof sheets on all our mattresses, even on my oldest sister Penny who was 17 then. So my wetting caused no damage. I stripped my bed as quietly as possible, showered and put on dry panties. Then I waited until Mom was awake to tell her about my wetting. By the way, it was hardly a flood, just enough I could notice and not enough to wake me after I had wet. From age 12 to 21 that was how it went with my bedwetting. I would be dry when I went to sleep. When I woke up the next morning my diaper would be somewhere between just slightly damp to wet. There never was any pattern. It did not seem to matter what I drank or ate the day before. At age 20 I could tell my bladder capacity when awake was getting smaller. When sitting in a lecture hall it was all I could do to hold it until the end of an hour class. If I had either a longer class, or two classes far apart so using a ladies room between was not practical, I would wear an Attends under my skirt. At least I always knew when I was wetting. By age 21 during the day I no longer could tell when I needed to pee, or hold it. Think of it as my sphincter opening on its own. Since then (1985) I have not had any control. It is like my urinary sphincter is stuck in the open position. As urine is formed and goes to my bladder, it immediately dribbles out. I never feel the dribbling, but sometimes can feel my diaper swelling. This is why I try to stick to a schedule, changing while my disposable still has capacity. Over all these years of being incontinent I have made in-person friendships with a lot of folks who wet. There are people no larger than me who wet even more.