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Call me whatever name pleases you, doo-doo-head! You absolutely can turn down a gift card. I've turned down free stuff, plenty of times, especially at restaurants. I was just offered the other day a free drink for my wife and I as we sat and waited for over 45min past our reservation time. I politely said no as I'm not the type to stick it to them because some table decided to stay for 3 hours. I've not taken free gifts I've been offered before over having to send food back, or being spilled on by a waiter unless it truly was a big, big deal but it's usually just an accident. Unless it actually is going to "cost" me, I may take the offer of money to make me whole. I have and you should just take it in stride, it's not a big deal, sh!t happens, move on and don't cry over spilled milk. I've had poor customer service and been rudely talked to. To me, if that's the case, like you said, don't support them. There are a number of places I've called in anonymously and voiced a complaint and for me, when they offer me something I tell them something along the lines, "no, that won't do anything, just fix the problem, that's what I want you to do." I may give them another shot, if it's not fixed, I'm done. I actually had a diaper company recently promise their deliveries were discrete and wound up with two cases of diapers clearly stating what they were on my front step. I called them, notified them and they offered me $10 off my next order. I told them it's not the point and you can't unring a bell and you're not going to buy me off because there's no money that they're going to offer me that's going to change what happened. Yeah, I saw the overreacting would be suing but you essentially got bought off instead. Depends on how you want to look at it, that may be just like suing without the court and it basically is "settling out of court". I don't know, maybe it's me but paying me for something isn't always the solution. I suppose it could be if it actually cost me but how can you put a price on feelings. Apparently most people can. Many people have hurt my feeling and said nasty rude things to me throughout my life. If they did it and gave me money would I feel better? Probably not. Some people may though. Call the store, like you did, express your concerns and let them handle it. To me though, you can't always let one egg spoil the bunch. Sure, this guy's representing CVS but come on, really, this guy is just an employee working to make a few bucks and doesn't "REALLY" represent the whole big huge company. Some people make mistakes, in poor humor, and it may hurt but it's just one guy and I'm sure it would have been handled on the store level. I've worked in retail for many, many years and being a manager for years, saw many complaints over that time. Some were legit, some where a stretch and some where just a load of crap. I could definatly tell a person’s personality though when they'd bring up an issue. Some were like me who say, "hey buddy, just FYI, this cashier made a rude comment to me I didn't appreciate" and we have a 30 second chit-chat and they were calm and on their way not expecting anything. I'd take the necessary actions with the employee and that was that. Other people always seemed like they wanted a HUGE reaction immediately like I was supposed to fire the employee on the spot in front of them and hand the customer the keys to the store in compensation. No matter what, you just can't make some people happy and they want something for nothing. Never once, did I offer somebody money for "feelings". Like you said, they may quite shopping there but eventually, most come back after they realize, you know, it wasn't that big of a deal and it was just one employee who did wrong. Lastly, I feel as if this were some small town pharmacy, you may have gone about it differently too. Sure, big companies want to make you happy because they don't want some guy putting them on the front page of the news, which the news would give a crap about if it's a small town company. The second reason is because they have deeper pockets which means more to give. I honestly think just notifying the store was enough. My opinion I guess though, everybody has one and they're probably all different too.

So Yesterday I had my first bad experience with a cashier while buying diapers. I went to the local cvs pharmacy to pick up some depends maximum protection because I had just run out of bambinos and wanted something to use until I would be getting more. I have done this a million times, you just walk up to the register, buy it and walk out with your diapers. It's not rocket science, no one ever truly says or does anything, right? That's what I thought too, until yesterday. I walked up to the register and set the depends on the counter. The cashier flipped it over to scan it and asked, "oh you haven't grown out of it yet?" I was confused at first. Immediately I assumed the sizing of the diaper but that made no sense so I asked, "excuse me?" he then proceeded to ask again, with a grin and condescending tone, "you haven't grown out of peeing the bed yet?" At this point everything clicked and s#@! just hit def-con 5. I was outraged and demanded to see his manager immediately. I kept my composure but was obviously upset and offended. He did so immediately and started squirming in his shoes. He knew he just did something real stupid. While ringing me up he tried an attempt at a feeble empty apology but I interjected, telling him that I truly did not want to hear it and just wanted to speak to the manager. The manager arrived only moments afterwords and I explained to him what had happened. I went on to explain that incontinence is a serious issue that anyone, even a young man like myself, can deal with. I explained that I was just embarrassed, belittled and offended by his out of line employee and that I am truly very hurt. Whatever product I buy is my own business and I should not have to feel embarrassed by absolutely anything that I buy in this pharmacy. The manager was very understanding and said that he would have a serious talk with the employee. even though I wasn't truly satisfied with this I just wanted to get out at that point so I left. But that's not the end of it. I called the corporate headquarters this morning and explained the entire situation in great excruciating detail. The woman who spoke with me seemed truly hurt anyone would do that to someone for any reason and was more than eager to rectify this. She sent a report directly to the regional manager's blackberry and within the hour I had a call from the head store manager. She was beyond apologetic and offered to give me a $50 gift card to cvs (more diapers does help with the way I feel about this, lol). I accepted the apologies and while I was on the way over to the pharmacy to pick up the gift card, the regional and district managers called me to personaly apologize and to truly touch base with me. Overall, I'm very satisfied with the situation. they had a fast and immediate response. The store manager told me that she gave the employee who did it a written report that will give him only one chance to keep his job. The employee who made the comments had offered to call me and talk to me directly but I declined so he left me a message that he was truly sorry and honestly never meant to hurt me. It was just a stupid attempt to make a joke and he didn't realize the true implications of his words. I'm still upset at him and first impressions are hard to change but I do forgive him for what he said. I don't want him to get fired but I am glad that everything happened the way it did. I did feel bad about alluding to the fact that I was incontinent but I needed to get the point across and I felt that was the best angle to take. I never did lie but I did make it seem as if I was incontinent and being discreet about it. I was as respectable as anyone could be in that situation. I hope I represented diaper wearers well. I kept on thinking what I would have done if that was the first time I was buying diapers. I think it would have caused me serious anxiety problems. I stood up for all diaper wearers alike.

I disagree. When you go to a store, you should be treated with nothing but respect. If I get bad service, I always ask for a manager.

If you're interested in BDSM play, visit a dungeon, ask at the front desk about the rules and safety protocols, examine the dungeon yourself before anyone is playing determine for yourself if it's safe, otherwise don't visit one and don't worry about it. Every dungeon I've been involved in/played in/visited has had acceptable safety protocols to me so I'm comfortable using the facilities. If you're not, don't go I helped to run a local monthly dungeon party for over 2 years and have a bit of experience in the matter. *hugs* Michelle

im so sick fly leaf

Every single person here did stupid shit when they were young. What someone does when they are 10 gets erased when they turn 18. We live and learn we grow from our youthful indiscretions. It would be unacceptable behavior for an adult to do that. I personally don't judge people based on what they did when they were ten.

How I would have handled it: Clerk: "You still pee the bed huh?" Me: "Oh, these, these are for YOUR MOM, that bitch still owes me a new mattress, but it's all good." Clerk: "uuuuhhhhhhh" Me: Yeah, I thought so, next time, mind your own damn business and ring up my purchase. Make a stupid comment, get a stupid comment.

oh my god i saw that at toys r us last night!!! daddy wouldn't let me get it even though its a tri - SARAH - tops!

^I think I've been affected for about a year now. O.O -Sophie

I find it odd that some one who can in a very coherent and educated manner express what they feel about your actions gets called a Troll by you. That's all I've really got to say about this other than: Btw, if it was really about principle, and watching out for the other guy, you would have declined the gift card.

Then I shall call you troll only because I have your blessing. Again, If I am offered something I do not turn it down. Also, I didn't say I can't turn it down I said I won't turn it down. Those subtle differences in context can completely change the meaning of sentences and ideas so let's get that straight. I was not seeking compensation or putting a price on anything intrinsic or intangible like my feelings. I just wanted this to not happen again to anyone else. That's it, nothing else. No pot of gold at the end of the rainbow or some magical reward. All I wanted was to know that this would never be repeated. That is more than reasonable to do. The fact that they offered me something is their own choice and business. I wasn't asking for it but I'm sure as hell not going to say no.

The Teddy tapes have been resolved, accoridng to experience and from what I have seen and read. When the Teddys first came out, the tapes were horrible. On multiple occasions I had the tapes snap after a heavy filling and the contents would spill onto my floor resulting in messy and time consuming cleanup. I was afraid to fill up a teddy, let alone wear one. That was the first line. The newest lineup's tapes are muchbetter and hold up even the heaviest diaper. I don't know what all the fuss is now, since the tapes are good again. At least for me.

Chapter 2 Alicia smoothed her miniskirt down over her hips, smiling down at herself as she tugged her shirt slightly downward, showing just a hint of her bra before storming out of the copy room. "Who is in charge of that stupid copier?!" she demanded, putting her hands on her hips. She watched as a young man, Frank, a year or two older than her, a bit nerdy looking in his glasses, but still cute, started to answer, only to be silenced by the woman - Diane - standing beside his desk, chatting with him. She was around the same age, tall - taller than Alexia, who wasn't exactly short herself - beautiful. She was always dressed very business-like, hair up in a bun, clothes elegant but, in Alicia's opinion, boring, but Alicia could tell that she would be a knock-out if she'd just loosen up a bit. That was, in fact, one of the reasons she was glad her boss was a woman. Alicia knew Diane had hated her from the moment she'd come in the door and taken the job as Dr. Jadin's secretary. Had Dr. Jadin been a man, Diane may have been able to convince him to let her switch jobs with Alicia, using the feminine wiles she surely had. She was the one other woman in the office that, in Alicia's opinion, was anywhere near as good looking as herself, and she knew that certain people would even prefer her. It almost made Alicia upset that, once she got Dr. Jadin to recommend her for a promotion, Diane would likely get what she wanted, too, but sometimes you just have to make sacrifices. "He's on his lunch break," Diane told Alicia, staring down at her condescendingly. "He'll fix it when he gets back." Alicia crossed her arms under her breasts, subtly pushing them up, letting them press up tighter against the neckline of her shirt, practically threatening to pop out at any minute. "Well, I'd like to go on my lunch break, too," she pouted, "but Dr. Jadin won't let me until I get these stupid copies made!" She could tell Diane had no sympathy for her, and she hadn't expected any, but the man stood up, patting Diane's arm. "I'm sure it will only take a second," he told her. "You don't have to do this," Diane told him, glaring over at Alicia. "I know," he said, "but it wouldn't be very nice of me to just leave her stranded here. I'm sure she's hungry, aren't you?" "I could use a little something," she shrugged. "Now, are you coming, or not?" Diane sighed. "Fine, go," she rolled her eyes. Alicia flounced back into the copy room, smiling as she heard the door close behind her. "Now?" he asked. "What?" She turned around, slipping out of her shirt. "Are you complaining?" "She's right outside," he reminded her, eyes darting back towards the door. Alicia grinned at him, sliding her thong down and off her legs. "I can be quiet," she said, dropping them to the floor. His nervous look evaporated as he reached back, clicking the lock on the door, then grabbed her, lifting her up and onto the copy machine as he fumbled with his belt. ---------------------- When she got back to her desk, there was a large box waiting for her. At first, she assumed it was for Dr. Jadin, but as she looked at the label, she saw it was addressed to her. Curiously, she got out her letter opener, slicing open the tape holding the plain brown cardboard closed. Inside sat several rows of what seemed to be regular, plastic water bottles. She picked one up, surprised to see the liquid inside had a bright blue tint to it. She picked up another, this one nearly glowing yellow, and a third was green. None of them had any sort of label, and for a moment, she was confused, until she recalled the new job she signed up for that morning. As she stared down at the bottles, she couldn't help but regret it, a little afraid that some of them might be radioactive, as brightly as they were colored. "Oh, you got them!" Dr. Jadin chirped as she walked by the desk, carrying a pair of shopping bags. "Yeah, I did," Alicia nodded uncertainly. "Are they... umm... safe?" Dr. Jadin stopped in the doorway of her office, setting the bags down just inside. "What? Of course they are! You don't think I'd let you try something dangerous, do you?" "Well, no," Alicia answered quickly, holding up the green bottle. "They're just a little... unsettling..." "Are they? I'll make sure to tell them that. Our researchers thought that it would appeal to children that way, but I thought maybe they'd gone too far... Not that I'm saying you're a child, dear, but you're much closer than anyone else on the development team." "I guess a kid might like it..." Alicia stared at the liquid. "Maybe I'll get used to it..." "That's the spirit!" Dr. Jadin exclaimed. "Have you tried it yet?" Alicia shook her head. "I just got them a minute ago." Gamely, she unscrewed the top. She sniffed at it, but there was no odor, then, reminding herself she was doing this for Dr. Jadin's sake, took a sip. It was rather sweet, and tasted almost like apple juice. And it was, she had to admit, really quite good. "Wow," she nodded. "Not bad." Dr. Jadin smiled. "They'll be glad to hear it. Now, come on into my office. I have a surprise for you." "Yes, ma'am." Alicia got to her feet, following her boss into her office, closing the door behind her. She had to admit, she was a little nervous - she had no idea what kind of clothes Dr. Jadin would have picked out for her. It had been a while since she'd had anybody shopping for an outfit for her, and much longer since anyone had shopped for her underwear. "Oh, it was so much fun picking out clothes for you," Dr. Jadin gushed, reaching into the bag. "It was hard, too, to settle on just one thing. There are so many cute outfits for people your age! But I think this is just darling, don't you?" Alicia stared at the thing Dr. Jadin had pulled out, forcing enthusiasm. "Yeah, it's great..." It wasn't terrible, exactly - it was a bright yellow sundress, held up with spaghetti straps, the neckline only a bit higher than that of her shirt, the skirt not quite long, coming to just above her knees, but longer than she normally wore skirts unless it was cold out. It really wouldn't have been that bad, if it wasn't for the huge bow, right in the middle of the chest, that only served to make the whole thing look, at least to Alicia, like something a pre-teen might wear to a school dance. Still, she supposed it wasn't as bad as it could have been, so she smiled as she took it and said, "Thank you." "Oh, no need to thank me, dear," Dr. Jadin said. "Oh, and this goes over that," she handed Alicia a light, blue jacket, "and these go under it." She grinned as she took out a package of panties. "Aren't they adorable? I just couldn't resist!" "So cute," she answered automatically as she took them, though as soon as she actually looked at them, she saw that those words didn't even cover it. They were some cute little lacy numbers, or even something nice and plain. She expected some rather boring panties, certainly more substantial than her thong. What she got was something that looked like it belonged on a little girl. Each pair was a different color, a slight hint of lace at the top and leg holes. Each had little hearts polka-dotting their surface. Each had a picture of a different thing decorating the front. And each one had a day of the week embroidered over top of that picture. "I knew you'd like them!" Dr. Jadin grinned. "We're on the same wavelength, aren't we? Well, how about I slip out for a minute, and I let you get changed?" "That would be... great..." Alicia smiled weakly. Dr. Jadin left, closing the door behind her, and Alicia stared down at her new outfit with a groan. What had she agreed to? She had to do it now - Dr. Jadin had already bought them, and she didn't think their relationship was strong enough yet to just refuse a gift like this. Sighing, she stripped out of her clothes, putting them into the empty shopping bag. She knew it should feel odd to be naked in her boss's office, but, to be honest, it wasn't the first time. Dr. Jadin rarely left early, but she'd been sick one day, and she and Frank had snuck in and done some rather naughty things. This time, however, she felt just the opposite. She sighed as she pulled open the package of panties, sorting through them to find the one for Monday, deciding she might as well do it right if she was going to do it. It was light blue, decorated with a smiling butterfly. They were cotton, and somewhat thick, and most definitely not sexy feeling. The rest of the outfit went on quickly, and before she knew it, she was standing in front of a gushing Dr. Jadin. "Oh, that's just wonderful on you!" she declared. "See, this is more like what a nice young lady like you should wear, don't you agree?" Alicia nodded stiffly. "Yeah. You know what would be fun? How about I go shopping with you next time? I mean, we don't have to do it while we're at work, we could do it after, but..." "That would be great," Dr. Jadin smiled. "Now... Let's see them." "Let's see... What?" Alicia's eyebrows raised uncertainly. She followed Dr. Jadin's gaze downward, then blushed. "R-Really?" "I want to make sure they fit all right." "They do," Alicia assured her. "I promise." "It's nice of you to say so," Dr. Jadin said, "but you're a sweet girl, and I think you'd tell me that even if they didn't, just to make me happy. And I want to make sure you're really comfortable." "I am! I'd tell you if I wasn't, I..." "Alicia!" Alicia looked up sharply at the tone - stern, matronly, and running out of patience. It was the first time she'd truly seen the woman as the mother figure she was pretending she was, and it was a tiny bit frightening, if just from the shock of it. "Yes, ma'am," she replied weakly, lifting up the skirt of her dress, letting Dr. Jadin coo over how precious the panties looked on her, running her fingers around the leg holes to make sure they weren't too tight. After a minute, she seemed satisfied, and sent her back out of the office with a handful of papers that needed copied. Alicia hurried to the copy room, praying Frank and Diane had taken a long lunch, that they weren't back yet. Frank didn't seem to be at his desk, so she thought she might be lucky, but a few moments after she slipped into the room, she heard someone coming in after her. "Back for more already?" he asked, bending over her and whispering in her ear. "I'm just making copies this time," she told him. "I'm working." "Oh, don't be like that," he said, turning her around and kissing her. "Copies can take an awful long time to make... You know that." "Frank, stop it." She pulled away from him, saw him looking down at her, eyebrows raising. "What are you...?" "Don't ask," she sighed. "Just... Please, let me just do this..." "Okay," he said gamely. "You just keep working..." She felt his hand moving down her leg, and then back up, under her skirt. "Stop!" she demanded, stepping away, not wanting him to so much as feel the silly underthings she had on now. She almost felt as if their very presence was sapping her maturity, her sensuality. Frank looked hurt for a moment, then snapped, "Fine," and left. She couldn't even look at him when she left the room, keeping her face down, cheeks burning red as she hurried back to her desk and sat down. She took a drink from the bottle nervously, only to find that it made her feel a bit calmer. She took another drink as she logged back onto her computer and began to work, feeling better with each sip. It couldn't make her forget that she was dressed like some over-developed twelve year old, but she couldn't deny that it did help, just a little.

From what I've heard on OTHER FORUMS Bambino solved the Teddy tapes issue a long time ago. It was only the 1st batch with the "stretchy tapes" that had the problem.

Hope the OP feels great about himself now too. Apparently $50 can buy you off enough to be happy. I think your decision to do something was okay if you were truly offended but the way you went about it, I don't agree with. If you're SOOOO embarrassed about what this guy said and obviously, it was probably more of a joke than anything but then why did you draw even more attention to yourself? Must not have been that embarrassed. If it were me and I was upset, I would have bailed and called the store afterwards. Accepting money from CVS is stupid as well. Why don't you just be like half of america and sue them now too and make a million bucks. If you really wanted to prove a point, you wouldn't accept the gift card. I also agree if this were a hot female cashier, you would have creamed in your pants and tried getting her number and there would have been a whole different post here by you. Sorry, but I think you took it wrong, went about it wrong and a stupid comment made to be funny, although in bad humor, probably cost this kid a whole lot more than you and for what? Why don't you go steal from a kid now and punch an elderly person to make yourself feel better next time they insult you too or are you only going to go after people and companies with the deep pockets. Pathetic.

i have a movement disorder once when buying a hammer and nails a clerks said to me "geeshcareful u dont nail a finger to the house" ive had clerks tell me i need to leave the store if i am going to keep making noises once i was buying monistat , cranberry. juice, maxxi pads for my uti and condoms and lube for a friend who asked me to pick it up since i was at the store ... clerk says to me"he is a brave man" as a former cashier we were encouraged to chat with the customers because we are the LAST employee they interact with but as i said you got fifty bucks and a kid trying to make a joke fired so all in all a good day

This. Even if for no other reason than to make sure the employee doesn't do that again to somebody else. As much as the customer has every right to be treated respectfully, the store can't deal with bad customer service if they don't know where the problem lies. In retail you have to either respect the customer (and learn from the bollocking you get the first time you embarrass one) or you have to find another job, simple as. That's even more the case when the customer is buying something that most would consider embarrassing. Even if the OP wasn't embarrassed at all, it was still important to ensure the employee realised that what they said wasn't appropriate.

I also agree when you go into a store you should be treated with respect no matter what you buy be it diapers or make up. your dollers spent there help keep the store operating and pay salaries of the employees. Whether it was said in jest or not it should not have been said.

Very good job! That's all I can say. You handled it perfectly, and exactly how I would if embarrassed by that. I've had teen cashiers giggle under their breath - and I can both understand and ignore that - but to actually say something and treat you that way - THAT had to be handled on the spot and with the higher-ups. CVS and Walgreens have killed local, attentive pharmacies and home medical stores, so they now have to live up to the responsibility they wanted to care for the health needs of the public.

Sexual predators are not able to actually be rehabilitated... The more mentally stable ones can manage to suppress their desires, but they still have them... As such, the only way to truly stop them is to kill them. As unpleasant as that may be to some folk, it's a fact. Turn a sexual predator loose and they WILL reoffend. And they'll be more careful not to get caught the next time...

I'll try- how's this: (JK) Sighing- Sadly there will always be idiots in the world, and there should be more appropriate punishment for pedophiles beginning with surgical removal of their reproductive glands, organs, and genitalia. After that a proper jail sentence might actually accomplish some good! Bettypooh

Let's all get worked up into a self-righteous frenzy now, that's always a barrel of fun.

I'm no nutritionist, but I do have one good way to lose weight fast. Take everything you drink that isn't water and stop drinking it. Soda especially. Cuts loads of empty calories without even trying.

During the summer of 1977, a couple of weeks after I turned 13, our family car was hit by a drunk driver while we were on vacation. My Mom, younger brother, my three sisters and me were all diapered. Only my father and older brother were wearing conventional undies. Of course the ambulance crews saw our diapers. Mom was unconscious. My father explained that incontinence was a family problem. Probably it was my then 18 year-old sister Penny who was the most embarrassed. Many years later, in 1988, a few weeks before I graduated from law school, I was riding in a Boston taxi. There was a multi-vehicle accident. Both my driver and I needed to be extracted from the taxi. By then I needed diapers 24/7. At the emergency room my Attends were discovered. The only good news was that after I woke up in a hospital bed following surgery, I had been re-diapered in an Attends and not a cheaper generic.

We just dragged this thread out of a pointless argument. Let's do our best not to drag it back into one, pretty please

Can we please stop neg repping each other and pos repping our own posts to boost our appearances? I know that's what's happening here, to neg the opposition and pos your own post. God, I hate this reputation system. Anyway, to the 'troll" user above, you have turned down a mighty lot of free stuff over the years. Indulge yourself, brother, and take some freebies once in a while! Secondly, to orange clock, I don't think this kind of thing would happen to anyone else because not many people would be so offended. By acting super-offended, you actually put yourself in the spotlight. Most incontinent people would not bring so much attention to their own problem for a passive comment as was here. Most people would brush it off, and go about their day. For some reason you were super offended and actully brought attention to yourself. By creating a scene you are giving off the impression the ABDL community is super uptight and needs to chillax a bit. People aren't out to get you! If I reacted like this everytime someone said sometihng to me or even around me in public, most of my day would be spent calling customer services representatives. Sometimes we must relax and let things go. Don't let the cashier at CVS piss you off so much. That's silly!!

I think it's an overreaction to some kid who said something stupid without thinking about it. Don't get your diapers in a bunch, calm down and chill.

I worked retail for many years. The cashier WAS innapropriate. We are talking about a CVS, not a walmart or ace hardware. People go to drugstores to make personal purchases and expect privacy and respect. If the "kid" wants to joke around I'm sure the GameStop is hiring. The cashier is welcome to go home and joke with his buddies about the young guy buying adult diapers. But when he has the red vest and name tag on he has a job to do and rules to follow. Could the OP have laughed it off and go on with his day? Yep... if he found it funny. He didn't, and that's why you don't make such comments in a pharmacy. We weren't there, only the OP knows the tone and context of what was said, so I trust his feelings. Its easy to call it an over-reaction from the saftey of our keyboards. But would you really be ok with it if some mocked your health-care purchases? And what if it was your kid buying needed GoodNites, or your mother buying Poise pads? Would you want them to be treated with respect, or expect them to suck it up and take it? Stop trying to make the OP feel bad about being mocked and disrespected.

You took that way too seriously. It's better to just play it cool and laugh or shrug it off than to cause a scene in the middle of a store. The cashier was probably only messing with you anyways. I don't buy diapers in retail stores very often, but there have been a few occurrences where either the cashier has implied that they might be for my own personal use. I don't let it frazzle me and take everything in stride. One of the most memorable ones, I was in a local Walgreens picking up a pack of their store brand diapers, which are actually quite nice for daytime use, I got the huge mega pack and the cashier was having trouble finding a bag of the appropriate size. She asked if I really wanted a bag to cover them up with and I responded no, it was really OK, everybody already knew that I wore diapers anyways. She was blushing more than I was at that point. I finished paying and left. There is absolutely no need to get all riled up over an off-hand comment or (possibly) inappropriate remark from some stranger. They don't know you more than the man in the moon, and does it really matter what they think? If they want to razz me I'll play along. Better to have fun with it than to get pissed off.

I purchased a product from Jumpin Jammerz, total value $69.98 including all sales taxes etc, with the shipping charge of $15 per item, The total cost including delivery was $104.98. Jumpin Jammerz chose to use FedEx to post the items. This took 9 working days to get to me, which for international post is slow. I have ordered other items from USA and only have a lead time of 5 working days. FedEx was the handler, and could only deliver to my home between 9am and 10am, and if I couldn't be there to accept delivery on the two days they offered, I could collect it from their distribution station in Galway (200+ miles away from my home) between the hours of 9am and 5pm on the next day. Otherwise, they were going to return it. I took the morning off work, and the FedEx package got delivered at 11am. I found that the sizes were incorrect, so I contacted Jumpin Jammerz, who asked me to return the products, and they will replace with a larger size, but to include $30 for postage. I did same, packed up the items, and went to my local FedEx to return the items. FedEx stated that the return cost to me would be €144 ( $176.00 ), and it would take 10 days to get to its destination. I went to the local post office, paid €16 ( $19.61) and posted it. It will arrive within 5 working days. I thought that I had heard the last from FedEx, until I received an invoice in the mail - VAT 21% on 104.98 = 22.05 Admin Fee....................10.00 STTL..............................32.05 VAT 21% on 32.05.........6.73 TOTAL DUE.................€38.78 for our American cousins, that is $47.53 1- I have already paid VAT to Jumpin Jammerz on purchase. 2- The products have been returned. 3- FedEx should not act on behalf of any government to collect VAT, and should not charge for doing so. I have purchased goods from countries worldwide, and always pay taxes at source. FedEx, by charging at destination, is breaking international agreements regarding taxes. Also, since they chose to try and charge $176 for shipping outbound, yet $30 for shipping inbound, their actions is elimination any export or import business Ireland has. Take my advice, DO NOT USE FEDEX for anything.

When you get questions like this you should just answer yes. This is a fantasy and that is what he wants to hear. In reality what happens in prison or asylums is what you want to have happen there. One of my fantasy's is to be held in a asylum and put into diapers. And made to go around with the diaper in full view. So that is what happens in places like that. What good is a fantasy if you let facts get in the way? That is why the better writers can get us to read to the end some of the most dumbest of stories. They let us forget reality.

Sarah_ab, sorry to here they didn't fit but they do tell you right as you order what size they fit. They say for large 36" - 52" waist. Yes, many larges go up to a size 56" but they tell you how big "their" large will fit. I've seen many companies larges fit different sizes. Kind of like shirts, a Large can be a hundred different sizes depending on the mfg. The attends and Abena all on ABU are right around the 58-59" waist but the wellness brief says 46" for large! I understand your frusteration as to the fact the Large may not run with many other companies idea of what Large is but it is a grey area and to be fair to ABU, they do tell you the sizing. I've been dabbling in plastic pants now too and that's a whole other world when it comes to sizing. You really have to go to everyones sizing charts before you order. Just the nature of the beast I guess. Hopefully they'll have the XL's out soon so they'll fit you better.

Sounds to me like he was just kidding around because he assumed they weren't for you. Eh. I think you overreacted.

wow over reaction much? guy probably thought you were buying for someone else as for unprofessional hes a cashier its not like hes a personal shopper at saks fifth ave seriously ive had way worse comments ... keep taking things that seriously and you are due for an early heart attack i mean educating people who make rude comments is good and you did that by speaking with the offender right away but wow for such a small innocent comment you took it waaayyy far but whatever you get $50 free merchandise out of it and most likely got some kid fired all in all a productive day

I think it's an overreaction to some kid who said something stupid without thinking about it. Don't get your diapers in a bunch, calm down and chill. Even so, you aren't incontinent so you can't use that argument. You somply wear diapers for fun, there is no medical need.

This is how it goes. Hey guys, had a couple tapes pop off my bambinos the other day (neg feedback) I haven't (pos feedback) Huh, wierd, mine did, don't know what's wrong (neg feedback) Call bambino (pos feedback) I did, they said they'll look into it (pos feedback) PS. They looked into it, not much done yet. (neg feedback) Just joined, bambino's are great (pos feedback) Worn for years, welcome, bambinos are great (pos feedback) Just joined, my don't care for bambinos. would rather have Abena (neg feedback) AND SO ON!!!!! You know Leilin, as long as I've seen you on this board, you take EVERY quote and make it out to be an ALWAYS type statement just as you did. "Can't somebody just post about a Bambino issue without getting hung out to dry here? Geeeez!!!!'" You reply back with..Uhhh, oh gee, hey, I've done it before, uh huck. It's just a statement idiot. IT DOESN'T NECESSARILY MEAN ALWAYS, EVERYTIME, WITHOUT EXCEPTION!!!! Why do you take everything so literally? Adrian, you all welcome negative comments but then give negative feedback. NICE GUYS, REAL NICE!

I love it when people like to argue something for which they have no clue. If you don't have actual knowledge about something keep your opinions to yourself.

Now I think some folks have read this and decided to try a social experiment on this forum but anyway: HOW TO TICK PEOPLE OFF 1. Leave the copy machine set to reduce 200%, extra dark, 17 inch paper, 99 copies. 2. In the memo field of all your checks, write "for sexual favors." 3. Specify that your drive-through order is "TO-GO." 4. If you have a glass eye, tap on it occasionally with your pen while talking to others. 5. Stomp on little plastic ketchup packets. 6. Insist on keeping your car windshield wipers running in all weather conditions "to keep them tuned up." 7. Reply to everything someone says with "that's what you think." 8. Practice making fax and modem noises. 9. Highlight irrelevant information in scientific papers and "cc" them to your boss. 10. Make beeping noises when a large person backs up. 11. Finish all your sentences with the words "in accordance with prophesy." 12. Signal that a conversation is over by clamping your hands over your ears and grimacing. 13. Disassemble your pen and "accidentally" flip the ink cartridge across the room. 14. Holler random numbers while someone is counting. 15. Adjust the tint on your TV so that all the people are green, and insist to others that you "like it that way." 16. Staple pages in the middle of the page. 17. Publicly investigate just how slowly you can make a croaking noise. 18. Honk and wave to strangers. 19. Decline to be seated at a restaurant, and simply eat their complimentary mints at the cash register. 20. TYPE IN UPPERCASE. 21. type only in lowercase. 22. dont use any punctuation either 23. Buy a large quantity of orange traffic cones and reroute whole streets. 24. Repeat the following conversation a dozen times. "DO YOU HEAR THAT?" "What?" "Never mind, it's gone now." 25. As much as possible, skip rather than walk. 26. Try playing the William Tell Overture by tapping on the bottom of your chin. When nearly done, announce "No, wait, I messed it up," and repeat. 27. Ask people what gender they are. 28. While making presentations, occasionally bob your head like a parakeet. 29. Sit in your front yard pointing a hair dryer at passing cars to see if they slow down. 30. Sing along at the opera. 31. Go to a poetry recital and ask why each poem doesn't rhyme. 32. Ask your co-workers mysterious questions and then scribble their answers in a notebook. Mutter something about "psychological profiles."

I can't recall how often a woman’s eyes has melted my soul. Even if she had no idea nor tried to, her gaze in my direction takes control of everything I will ever be. I like to think that I shared a moment with a pair of "Mommy Eyes", belonging to a woman who knew what she wanted out of life and out of love. When a Mommy chats with you, she is taking notes on your personality and when she meets you face to face she compares those notes with how you present yourself in real life. It is perhaps one of the most intense first impressions you will ever be held to. She makes her decision about you within minutes of having met you and if you passed her test, you are in for a lifetime of dreams coming true. And all you have to do to keep up with her on the path she will lead you down is to look into her eyes, read the thoughts she allows you to and listen to the non-verbal messages she sends. Her eyes will speak volumes about Love, about the pleasure of Nurturing you, about the Passion that wells up inside her, about the Tenderness she possesses and about the warmth within her soul. She seeks a companion in life who will read her eyes and heed the signals she sends. The Baby who takes the time to “listen

Are you serious? If it was a girl cashier you'd gone home and beat off. Did you tell them that you were going to post all this on a diaper fetish website? You know, just to give them an idea of how hurt you were?

I bet your parents absolutely hated you doing that. Kind of unfair to your parents, intentionally messing your pants and then stealing neighbor's underwear. Wtf is wrong with you stealing people's clothes?