littleJaina

We are here in San Antonio

Talk to your gyno about this. It's relatively normal, but if it's becoming burdensome, there are treatment options. I just use muscle training and awareness, but depending on how bad it is they may want to do surgery. I haven't heard good things about it though, so I'd never do that. Try a poise pad if you think you need more protection. Regular maxis aren't made for holding urine, but if you don't need the full absorbancy of a pull-up, they are awfully hot in the summer.

Did anyone notice, or were you just unconfortable?

I don't see them as chastised as much as just not considered incontinent in the same way. Asking someone without legs to actively support someone sense chopping then off is asking too much. No one is telling them they can't do it their just refusing to help. There's a difference.

I think your confusion lies in your definition of "community". People who are incontinent aren't a community they don't have a group identity or culture. It is not the same as something like being deaf. So there is not exactly a cohesive nature to it. People with incontinence experience a lack of control, against their will. The very act of attempting it makes you different. Even if you manage to achieve genuine loss of control, it was still your decision and completely different than the experience of someone who has no choice. Can you imagine what someone who is paraplegic would think of another person cut their legs off on purpose? Do you really think they would feel that person was in the same boat as themselves? Cutting your legs off is different than just rolling around in a wheel chair because it's fun. The AB/DL community is different. People can choose to belong or not. (This isn't the same as saying you get to choose the urges your body has, but you choose whether or not to join to community.). An incontinent person choosing to join is just doing the exact same thing as anyone else chooses to join the community. They don't have to come. Plenty of incontinent people don't. But some do choose to embrace it because they see it as a way of taking back some control over a situation they did not choose, by enjoying it.

If you are incontinent, how were you going to work before?

Lexapro is an antidepressant Abilify is a mood stabalizers, and can have all kinds of crazy side effects. I haven't heard of incontinence being one of them, but it's still relatively new and so unique to each person that, if the neurology was already prone to lack of control, its easy to believe it could act up again. Guanfacine is another kind of ADHD medication that is a non-stimulant and can help augment other ADHD meds. However, it's also a blood pressure medication, which means it can impact the fluid levels in your body.

When did you stop?

Have you ever been annoyed that they decided this without your input?

I can understand. I had to pee the other day, then the doctor told me they needed a urine sample and even though I had to go, it took over an hour because I couldn't pee in that little cup.

That sounds like it could be a prostate issue. If it happens again,definitely see a doctor right away¡

What kind of major fights?

Brian, let us assume the person is NOT doing this as a fettish, but in a desire to be an infant.

Why are you trying to regress?

Oh, there are plenty of complicating factors. Aren't there always? Lol. But no spouses, and nothing that will keep us apart!