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    • Unfortunately, what ever it was is now following them. Their new .org domain has gone dark as well. 
    • Still making no move towards the couch, i gripped the side of the wall. Far too distressed to argue with her self given title of 'momy' and trying to thinking clearly as I raised my voice, "S-something you gave me... upset my stomach a-and I have to... go to the bathroom! OKay! P-please I-" I paused, feeling had only seconds, "I gotta go!" I turned away and waddled as fast as I could down the hall, looking for any sign of a bathroom!
    • Other people ( @Reddy, @Hannah YMS, @keyman419, @oznl, @superabsorbantpolymer, @BrownBobby) have been too kind to you, and given you way too much benefit of the doubt. You are at best a disgruntled person who had fantasies vs needs and had no idea which was which because you jumped in on a whim and now projecting your self loathing on others. At worst you are a troll naysayer and/or preacher type who is looking for some credibility by saying that you have taken the most extreme steps towards incontinence.  You got "the" surgery in Mexico? What was the procedure? Did you go to the same Dr. as everyone else? How long ago was the surgery? @Reddy I hope I am not giving up the goat here as it were, but, when did that Dr. move on? You have "been" to India "seeking the incontinence surgery". Which surgery were you looking for in india that you didn't get in Mexico? Why didn't you make phone calls or emails? I don't need personal details but if we are going to have a legitimate conversation we, as in the community, are going to need information and context. So here is my statement and caveat for you: IF and a giant IF you actually did this and regret it. I am sorry that you do. Hopefully you were seeing a good mental healthcare professional before undergoing surgery and will continue to see them now that you are having regrets. Statistically about 1% of people who transition (granted genders and not ability) regret it and wish to de transition. If you are part of that 1%, you pulled the short straw and I am sorry that it happened to you. It is also worth mentioning that virtually everyone who has documented their journey and actually achieves incontinence regrets it at some point for a time. I think it is the cognitive dissonance and self image re orienting and then the stages of grief for whomever one could be and then the final acceptance.  That is the extent of nice DAQ. Stop here if you @Jacobs have had a good day. Otherwise I am going to drop some truth bombs on you. Step 1. Pull your head out of your own diapered (allegedly) ass. Step 2. Get out of here and take your sanctimonious crap with you. Your post is not a cautionary tail. It is the ramblings of a madman with an "THE END IS NEAR" sign.  Step 3. Take better trolling lessons. As I said before, others may have given you the benefit of the doubt, but your phraseology to me strongly suggests that you are not part of this community. When it comes to incontinence, it is not a fetish, it is not a "desire", it is a deeply held belief. It is an identity.  Step 4. Consider the opposite of your judgemental BS bolded statement. "I think this post should include ways to address the disastrous mental health consequences associated with seeking surgical outcomes". I think that this post should include ways to address the disastrous mental health consequences of an inability to achieve incontinence. Or perhaps meditate on the negative health consequences of not being able to discuss openly one's desires and needs. Or perhaps consider not being allowed to discuss this sort of thing. The worst thing that anyone ever can do is self censor..... unless they are a total asshole. On the other hand, you might consider self censoring.  Frankly, I don't care if you were truthful or not, sincere or not, or if your post was in good faith. It is garbage. Absolute garbage that has no place here. Delete it and try again. Do not pass go. Do not collect $200. If you want to spread your gospel of caution and introspection before taking permanent steps, that is an admirable sentiment and applaud it. You did not do that. You preached nothing but antipathy and judgement. I have judged you and found you wanting. You have made me a hypocrite and I hate it.  For everyone else. I apologize for this post. I hope I have not put words in people's mouths. But until this forum has a legitimate and active moderator, I think it is up to the community to aggressively self moderate posts that are antithetical to the purpose of this forum. I am tired of people like this one this particular subforum. Frankly, the whole subforum should be pulled out of the incontinence umbrella. It invites way too many people that are struggling with their disability to poopoo all over people who NEED said disability to (ironically) feel whole Sincerely DAQ's last post because I am sure I am about to get banned for telling an obvious troll to piss right off, pun intended. 
    • "Ah ah ah, baby girl, you don't need to go anywhere! You get back up on the couch and sit down, or else I might have to pick you up and put you back down! Tell mommy why you've gotten up? What's SO important that you have to disobey me AGAIN, huh?" She asked with a twinge of anger. It was hard to balance her feelings of maternal care with her feelings of repulsion towards this man who had hurt her god daughter. She just knew that she would feel much better once he let go and showed her how big of a baby he really was. 
    • I paused at the stern voice behind me, shifting anxiously as I turn back, "I uh... I just don't feel... so good." The pain in my stomach suddenly getting worse as I wince, the pressure and impending... release feeling almost unbearable.  "I just... really need to.. to go!" I spoke loudly, sweat beading down my forehead now
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