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More exceptance from wife now

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Lately my wife has been more excepting, its hard to put my fingers on it but, not rolling her eyes as much, tone of voice talking about diapers, ect. I am wearing a little more and feel more comfortable wearing around her. I realize a couple of years and some recognized stresses lately contribute, however a biggy was I got her Tattoo gift certificates for Valentines. Now I dont really care for Tattoos, but she wants a few small ones, and already got one. I dont understand tattoos, and she knows that. But by allowing her to, and supporting her in her "fetish" or bodily interest I believe that made her more excepting of my diaper/ LG fetish. Not only do I feel more comfortable but I have a feeling I might be able to do more soon, such as wear in front of her or before sex even. This might be a model for others.

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acceptance bro not exceptance but thats good that she is more understanding

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Communication is extremely important my wife is going through some of those same emotions but lately she has even cooed at me and tickles me more and helped me pick out an over sized stuffie.

Last June we almost divorced because of my secret life. She knew of it but I have kept it a secret because she hated it. Last June she blew up via text message and I really thought she was gonna leave me but she arrange for the kids to be watched back home and she drove down to wear I am staying for work. We talked and cried and talked some more. We started with setting some boundaries  for me and giving me some waddle room. We also made a vow to be more considerate and communicating. Then we went and saw beauty and the beast where I snuggled up to her the whole movie. The next couple of weeks were still hard but we also asked some friends to help and explained the situation. They are mutual friends and understanding. This gives her a support system when she scared to come to me first.

Since then she has made great advances in her abilities at supporting me as you can tell from my initial paragraph. She still does not do diaper changes or really want to see them. Also pacis are in the dark only and after we done talking for the night but I will take it. Soblike I said communication is key.

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 A significant other's emotions concerning their partner wearing diapers generally is always evolving.  Sometimes this is a good thing and other times not so good. 

The most important thing is that your partner accepts that you wear diapers and loves you unconditionally.  It is unrealistic to EXPECT a partner to participate diapering you particularly if it is something they do not desire.  Remember, most of us need to be in our diapers at some point and that need is frequently not understood by partners because they do not share the same feelings.  It is also very common for your partner to love you but not your diapers.  They accept you wearing them because they love you.  Asking them to participate is just a reminder of what they may not like but do accept. 

My wife and I have been through the ups and downs of me wearing diapers.  Her feelings and participation varies and is influenced by many factors.  Even her menstrual cycle seems to impact how much she participates being my Mommy.  Do I wish she would change my diaper everytime and perform diaper checks all day long....of course.  I also know this will never happen.  Although I do feel saddened by her lack of participation at times I do understand just as she understands that I need to wear diapers.

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To follow up on MarkSmith's comments. My wife and I had some little time for the first time last weekend. Shebstill does not like the diaper part but as long as she does not have to deal with them she lets that go. She did finally let me use the paci in front of her both while she was watching a movie with laying on her chest and again Sat morning while I played with some toys she bought me and I also colored her a picture. After she made me us breakfast and cut everything up for me, she picked me an outfit. Then we went shopping. I was still diapered and the outfit was one of my childish but still passable outfits. She had control of my wallet and held my hand everywhere we went except when I sat outside the changing room. An absolutely wonderful experience for me. 

A huge change from a year ago when she almost left me over finding a diaper I accidently forgot to throw away. Open communication is the key to growth.

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When I started having accidents my wife and I   had a frank talk and she did not want to always wash sheets.The outcome was me back in diapers.The reason was me being a diabetic she is a good supporter never says any thing bad as my male ego is almost not there.

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I sometimes takes a while for a partner to assist but after a while the partner will come around/

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