Mommaz Posted March 22, 2015 Share Posted March 22, 2015 my husband and I have been talking about having kids of our own but I would love to have his keep his Abdl side. How is it possible for use to manage having a baby and still maintaining an Abdl life for my husband. Link to comment
Daddy R Posted March 22, 2015 Share Posted March 22, 2015 Like any sex life after kiddos, Keep it hidden & in the bedroom. 2 Link to comment
Mommaz Posted March 22, 2015 Author Share Posted March 22, 2015 Well meaning that my husband and I are wanting kids but he wants to stay an adult baby too. How do you maintain being little but is not sure if he should stop when the child is older so they don't think there dad is dumb while acting like a child and or seeing mommy having to change little man instead of having daddy use the toliet. Link to comment
warpiper Posted March 22, 2015 Share Posted March 22, 2015 Your kids shouldn't be seeing you change "little man." No matter how much we want to pretend, this is still a sexual lifestyle, and children should not be exposed to it because they would not understand properly. 1 Link to comment
sbbaby Posted March 23, 2015 Share Posted March 23, 2015 I agree with what everyone else is saying that you should keep it in the bedroom/private. Link to comment
Too Shy Posted March 23, 2015 Share Posted March 23, 2015 I have 2 kids and am still an ab. 1 Link to comment
diaperwearntigger Posted March 23, 2015 Share Posted March 23, 2015 I honestly don't know why some people have a hard time understanding the need to separate your "bedroom" play from your kids. 1 Link to comment
Glennie Posted March 23, 2015 Share Posted March 23, 2015 one word covers it all.. BALANCE. 1 Link to comment
Lee B Posted March 23, 2015 Share Posted March 23, 2015 From what I gather, your husband desires to be an adult baby 24/7. Link to comment
Baby Brian Posted March 23, 2015 Share Posted March 23, 2015 I believe the reason some here don't understand this, is because being an AB or little is NOT a kink nor is it sexual in nature. This is not a bedroom only activity. However, is seems a lot of people here only include being an AB during their sexual activities and therefor associate it as a kink. For these people then yes, it should be kept in your bedroom and away from your kids. For those who are more naturalized AB's or Littles, then the question still remains. Should you still try to hide this part of who you are from your kids. Mind everyone here I'm not talking about just being in a diaper, it's more acting little your self. 1 1 Link to comment
Nat Posted March 23, 2015 Share Posted March 23, 2015 Well meaning that my husband and I are wanting kids but he wants to stay an adult baby too. How do you maintain being little but is not sure if he should stop when the child is older so they don't think there dad is dumb while acting like a child and or seeing mommy having to change little man instead of having daddy use the toliet. Link to comment
Fulldiaper Posted March 25, 2015 Share Posted March 25, 2015 Unless he has a medical condition that he's willing to live the life of an incontinent or partially incontinent person, you should NEVER and I repeat NEVER expose any ADULT activities to children. It's against the law and it's morally wrong. That being said, many posters previously gave sound advice. Keep it private and personal...in the bedroom or locked up away from home on vacations or weekend get away trips. Let someone baby sit and you bABy sit your husband. Link to comment
Baby Brian Posted March 25, 2015 Share Posted March 25, 2015 Unless he has a medical condition that he's willing to live the life of an incontinent or partially incontinent person, you should NEVER and I repeat NEVER expose any ADULT activities to children. It's against the law and it's morally wrong. That being said, many posters previously gave sound advice. Keep it private and personal...in the bedroom or locked up away from home on vacations or weekend get away trips. Let someone baby sit and you bABy sit your husband. Exposing this type of Fetish to a minor can land you in hot water and maybe branded for life as a sexual predator (Pedophile) I'm pretty sure most everyone here would agree that wearing a diaper does not make you a pedophile. Sorry but I do believe what you are saying is a bit of an extreme. Nobody is going to lock up up a guy for acting like a woman (transgender), and nobody is going to get locked up for public displays of affection (being gay). So then why would an adult get arrested for acting as a little or as a baby? I do believe this is exactly as I posted above, and you might be confusing being an AB in front of a kid with having sex in from of them. There is a huge difference there you know, and one is illegal while the other is not. 1 Link to comment
Jilly Poo Posted March 25, 2015 Share Posted March 25, 2015 Having your own baby might help give you an excuse for why there is a playpen set up in your living room and why you have a diaper delivery service showing up at your house weekly when the relatives or the neighbors start to question. 1 Link to comment
lilstevie Posted March 27, 2015 Share Posted March 27, 2015 This is where we have to balance being a responsible adult and little. For me it was easy (I`m a empty nester now,,, wahooo) ,,I`d get on the floor and play , watch movies ,, etc etc ,, but in the back of your mind you have to always realize you are a parent , The older Link to comment
ohiodiapermommy Posted July 22, 2015 Share Posted July 22, 2015 I am a mommy to a diaper boy and have a 4 year old. Link to comment
Baby Brian Posted July 22, 2015 Share Posted July 22, 2015 I am a mommy to a diaper boy and have a 4 year old. Link to comment
babywolf55 Posted August 17, 2015 Share Posted August 17, 2015 I understand keeping things private very well. Link to comment
noahVmiller Posted August 18, 2015 Share Posted August 18, 2015 I know personally for me unless it was a dealbreaker for the girl I would have no interest in kids. Hell, I wouldn't know where to start. I grew up with absent parents myself, completely unacceapting Link to comment
Baby Brian Posted August 18, 2015 Share Posted August 18, 2015 I understand keeping things private very well. Link to comment
kevindhca Posted August 19, 2015 Share Posted August 19, 2015 Easy question. Parent of three children, now adults. Link to comment
Baby Brian Posted August 19, 2015 Share Posted August 19, 2015 I was thinking the same thing earlier, but didn't Link to comment
Baby Brian Posted August 19, 2015 Share Posted August 19, 2015 Brian, If an adult is sexual in any way around a minor the laws are grey enough in most States to allow the District Attorney's office to be PEDOPHILE or SEXUAL PREDATOR charges against the adult offenders. This IS a brand for life as you end up on the sexual register and will be for the rest of you life, or until some laws are changed. Wearing diapers in and of it self is not against the law, but anything that sexually arouses an adult when involving a minor is and 1 Link to comment
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