So a Friend Asked Me.....

[WakkoWannaBe]

If I was asexual. Just straight up, "hey I've always wondered: are you asexual?"

[Bettypooh]

Same as with gender, there's a whole range of sexuality and none of it is entirely wrong I am sexually attracted to girls (and the rare guy), but compared to most that's about 1% of the usual. I'd like to have sex occasionally for it is a wonderful experience. It's just that I don't want to be expected to do it and I don't want to be seen as that being a major component in life. So basically I'm asexual and if I were in a relationship which was totally that way I could still be very happy.

[2sail2]

When I do it with

[WakkoWannaBe]

Well, for pat: diapers are both sexual and sensual for me. Consequently, my desire to wear diapers is very low and a true and deep desire to wear has come to me only once. thus I've only bought a package of diapers a few times. But even those times it was the sensual or simple curiosity, not the sexual, that drove that desire.

Also I didn't realize that there is an asexuality spectrum, but after reading all that I think I'm going with plain asexual for the moment.

[Dubious]

Masturbating is to much work for so little reward

Not sure what I am, but I'll define myself as experimental

[BigC300]

Masturbating is to much work for so little reward

Not sure what I am, but I'll define myself as experimental

"Z", maybe you've been doing it wrong. I got started perfecting my masturbatory technique at the age of four and by the time I was fourteen I was a professional masturbator with diapers playing a starring role!

[Dill_Pickle]

Zpeed,

[Dubious]

I got what they called retarded ejaculation, which means it can take me anything from 30 min to an hour to climax

[dl_ashlee]

Ya lots of those mental health drugs seem to have a sexual side effect, such as I was put on effexor, but it was not the right drug for me (the sexual effect wasn't why I switched drugs though).

[DailyDi]

Asexual here as well (Wakko knows, repeating for others in topic) and VERY few people understand it. Your friend must have researched it. Good for him if he did.

[ListeningToTunes]

I define as asexual, which to me just meas that it hasn't occurred to me that I should want to rub my naughty parts with somebody else's. To me, gender is largely irrelevant as well (physically male, and perfectly OK with it), and I don't see the point in letting having a certain kind of body keep me from things I like.

[Dubious]

If there were a fast way to be a girl, I'd take it in a heartbeat

The only good use for a penis is that you can stand peeing..

ALL other times the balls and shaft is in the way and does nothing

I'd love to wear skirts and dresses....

[Bettypooh]

I've always felt the same way. It's there, I don't mind it so much but if there were just a small hole for the urethra to empty I'd be fine. If I had a vagina I might feel differently on the matter but then again who knows? I kept up with an acquantince who had an orchiectomy. They described the experience as being a lot like menopause for about 6 months when it started to taper off. Other than losing their physical stamina the only lasting effect to them was knowing their problem was gone.

[Dubious]

Naked girls are boring

I like up skirt pictures

[widdlemikey]

As I've gotten older, just raw sex has lost a lot of appeal.

[WakkoWannaBe]

Woah! I kinda forgot about this thread for a while. Which is actually terrible!

[maly]

I suppose i am asexual just had'nt given it that much thought. I have if questioned just said that i am celibate but it is more than just choosing to not have sex, there is simply just no desire for sex. I can appreciate beauty just dont crave it and it does not do anything for me 'down there' any more. I feel incredibly contented with the way things are now, and just want more and more of less and less.

Maly.

[lil_angel]

hmmmmm....what's the exact opposite of asexual?

[Bettypooh]

[WakkoWannaBe]

hmmmmm....what's the exact opposite of asexual?

[DonsbabyKS]

I am very sexual and should not be; I am past menopause, and on anti-depressant and other libido suppressant medications.

[dl-kc]

I am very asexual and very into masturbation. It is definitely a misnomer to think the two have to be separate.

[Denube]

I am very asexual and very into masturbation. It is definitely a misnomer to think the two have to be separate.

[Bettypooh]

I've always wondered how Porcupines approach sex It's obvious that they do it but it must be a very tricky situation and one I wouldn't want to have to deal with

[Denube]

My guess is it must be summed up with two words: