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US Littles just happened a couple weeks ago. If you haven't already, I would join the Denver ABDL Fetlife groups. That's really the best place for finding get-togethers.

The US Littles convention will be in Denver this year. Hope to see some other Denver Metro ABDLs there.

I don't know the whole story but I do remember seeing that she did a humanitarian trip to a 3rd world country (can't remember which one). It looks like - based on her Fetlife account - that she just got back.

A program in Argentina just did a segment on ABDL that I figure some of you may be interested in checking out. Here is a link:

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I am a highly educated professional who has told many people about my interests over the course of my life and have had many positive reactions. This is not to say that I recommend telling people - I believe the decision to tell is 100% dependent on the individual circumstances at hand. How open minded is the individual? How close are you with the individual? What do you stand to gain? What could you lose?

I am very asexual and very into masturbation. It is definitely a misnomer to think the two have to be separate.

Moved to Denver last month.

Yep, super creepy. Which is too bad because it would be my preference of sites if it wasn't for that.

Just curious. How did that happen?

I was in a fairly similar situation (23 year old, asexual male who wants to have a family in the future). I was always afraid of entering relationships feeling like I would get rejected if opened up completely. I met my wive a couple of years ago. I she seemed open minded (she is a therapist so she hears a lot of stuff). The fetish and asexuality was hard for her to begin with but she felt like I was worth it. We are still going strong and she often participates in ABDL stuff. Don't give up hope, there is definitely someone out there for your although it may take time.

I'm at UVA right now.

me too

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This has been happening to me and my wife; we just had a discussion about it last night. In my case, I think it has to do with the fact that I am more turned on with by the humiliation aspect of diapers and so now that I have been changed/seen by my wife many times it is no longer the embarrassing experience it used to be. I doubt this is the same for your husband, but it is one more theory to add to the list.

Actually I just looked at the alexithymia quiz and I scored a 116, so I guess I could say I have that as well.

I generally just lurk on this site, but the questions seemed too specific to me to not answer. So here it goes: 1. Definitely not 2. Absolutely. Despite having many friends I rarely allow people to get truly close to me. It takes a lot of work on their part to get to my core. 3. Yes. I wouldn't allow anybody to hug me from as early as I can remember till my late teens. 4. I have been masturbating since as long as I can remember (earliest proven memory was 4 when my grandma caught me lying prostrate in her coat closet moving my hips side to side. She caught me twice. My parents have also told me I was a strange baby/toddler because I always wanted to be lying on my stomach alone). I masturbated an average of two times a day for my entire life (4-23). 5. I am asexual. I am recently married and thought I would be able to have sex when the time was right, but found out on my wedding night that I was completely terrified of the idea. I started hyperventilating and getting sick just thinking about it. Still haven't gotten past that. 6. Yes. I do what my wife and I call, shutting down. When things turn to stressful I mentally check out. Obviously, there are many different ways and reasons that people become AB/DL. However, given my particular circumstances I have always wondered if I had experienced a repressed CSA. I'll probably never know for sure, but the OPs story definitely struck a chord with me.