Adisc Now 18+ Only

[Snugglebear_69]

Teens and adults should NOT be interacting when it comes to sexual desires. Promoting that kind of interaction is very concerning.

[Snugglebear_69]

Personally I wouldn't touch it with a ten foot pole. I wouldn't want to be on any site, sectioned or not that has a sexual component that allows teenagers. It just attracts the wrong kind of people and wrong attention. I'm sure there are people that would be ok with it but personally when it comes to sexual desires I'm not going anywhere that allows teens and ABSOLUTELY not one that would allow children. MASSIVE hard pass.

[Snugglebear_69]

If the sections were to be completely separate with no interaction then just have completely separate websites. There is no good reason to combine adults, teens and children when it comes to sexual desires.

As for it ending stigma around diapers how would it do that exactly? How does having separate sections do anything to address stigma that having completely separate websites couldn't achieve in the same way?

I'm sorry but as someone who's been around this community for over 25 years I've heard all the "reasons" for putting adults, teens and children on the same website and none of them hold water. 

In this area adults should not be mixing with teens or kids. Justifications to the contrary just add risk that isn't needed. And segmented websites just lead teens and kids to pretending to be older to get access to the adult content. Keep it separate and keep everyone safe.

[barnburner]

2 hours ago, Oscar Stern said:

What if they had a Teenager section for ADISC called TDISC (TBDL)? So that way the Teens would be separated from Adults, & for kids it would be KDISC (KBDL)

I cant see that working out well, for one, bad things can still happen among teens and parents finding out are lawsuit-happy these days and the owner would be liable. A good example of this is a minor sharing intimate photos of themselves to another minor, even if a minor is doing it to another minor, thats still some kind of distribution of underage pornographic material and the minor sending them would be in legal trouble as well as the owner of the site, even in the privacy of direct/private messages.

 

Another thing, how would you be able to verify that the person signing up is a teen? It might not be legal for a site to ask a minor for identifying information and as such an adult creeper is the one actually signing up for it saying they are a kid and if parental approval is required he would do that as well.

 

Last thing I can think of, international laws, laws from countries regarding allowing minors to use sites like that

[Snugglebear_69]

There are many other ways to end stigma for people who wear incontinence products, it's called education. That is already being done by medical professionals, product manufacturers and other reputable approaches. You will notice, that doesn't require putting adults, teens and kids together on a website that deals with fetishist and non-fetishistic wearing or use of diapers.

Once again, what you are suggesting can be accomplished in other, more effective ways, without allowing minors onto sites that have a kink element.

As to your last point, people 13 and under are definitely still minors and if you know anyone here that is thst age you need to report them to admins immediately as they shouldn't be here.

[rusty pins]

Just a bad idea to allow anyone under legal age on an AB/DL site.  As mentioned, an under 18 teen diaper site is also not a good idea from many standpoints.  First, there are already adult websites where underage teens go to.  There was a show a while back where police posed on such websites as underage girls to trap the adults who interacted and tried to meet up in person with them.  Same would happen with a teen diaper site.  There are already people who have phony ID's to commit fraud and how is any site going to verify 100% for sure if the person is really not an adult?  That's right, they can't or won't, therefore adults and underage teens will be mixing and possibly even meeting in person.  Nope, not a good idea at all and I'd not go near such a site with a 39-1/2 foot pole!

[MegaChar]

My stance on this is that abdl happens before adulthood(example: me). This is one of those areas thats a grey area I try not to trend to much as others will get the wrong idea. I was originally against adisc going 18+ as abdlism happens before adulthood but my stance has changed from me growing up and seeing why it isnt a good idea.

Should there be a support channel for underage abdls? Yes.

Should they be interacting with adult abdls? NOO!!

[Mars.inDiapers]

19 hours ago, MegaChar said:

Should there be a support channel for underage abdls? Yes.

Many of us here grew up without any kind of support channel that would help us understand our ABDL tendency or kink. Yet here we are. You know what, I think young ABDLs will be okay even without a dedicated support online platform for them. They have possibilities that so many of us have not even dreamed of. Some of us were growing up way before computers were commonplace, let alone the internet. Teens today probably know how to use modern conveniences better than they know how to breathe, so I wouldn't worry about them being left in the dark about their unusual inclinations, should they have any. At the very least, they are sure to easily find out they don't need to feel lke we used to (that we were all alone in the world with this weird interest). Realistically, they'll find out so much more; a simple google search will yield so much content at their disposal, they are sure to find out what they need to know, even if they have to do so passively because sites like this wont let them join before they become of age. Of course, unless you resort to age verification with some official ID, you can't stop them coming under false pretense of adulthood, but it's not something that should be accepted or even encouraged. That's just asking for trouble.

So yeah, if they keep it honest and don't lie about their age to create accounts on sites like this one, it means they'll have harder time asking direct questions specific to their case, and it means they'll have to sift through a lot of rubbish along the way.

Especially if their search leads them to Quora (jesus christ the answers there are so bad, and the questions somehow even worse). But that's life. Nobody is guaranteed to have someone else pave their way for them. And in this case, we can't do it, even if we wanted to.

The moment such a support channel is created, pervy adults will flock there and exploit the underage members. With or without their knowledge. It's inevitable.

We can't stop this exploitating completely, but the last thing anyone should do is to directly facilitate that.

[spark]

3 hours ago, Mars.inDiapers said:

Many of us here grew up without any kind of support channel that would help us understand our ABDL tendency or kink. Yet here we are. You know what, I think young ABDLs will be okay even without a dedicated support online platform for them.

I grew up thinking I was the only kid my age who wanted to wear diapers, and there is definitely enough content to support younger people who are diaper currious.

[Nat]

I used to go on that Bravenet story forum as a minor and I visited DPF when I was in junior high and also discovered that site when I was 15. I went to lot of ABDL places as an underaged teen and I just read stories. This is the only kind of support they can get without interacting with us adults. 

Minors are going to lurk on ABDL sites anyway, we can't stop them. I even saw thus place as a teen but never went here because I wanted stories.