KittyMerriweather

Your right women do get treated differently Im not sure I fully understand except it’s society in general.

We are all part of the human race and equality should be for all ?

regardless of what happens, always always taught to treat everyone with respect. The only time that changes is if somebody disrespects me, and acts like a total fool, and you have to end up getting very pointed and direct to somebody who does not understand they are acting like fools, or they are the fool.

I am a gentleman: my parents taught me that I need to treat Everyone with respect including them. especially important was the fact that you treat young ladies with respect, even if you do not agree with them. women deserve the same respect in the in the community as A man does, and in some cases I believe I believe I believe women deserve more respect, because they sometimes sometimes they're treated in awful ways, which don't really need to happen in 2022! we should be in a situation where everyone is treated equally as equal rights and equal pay for equal work period women work as hard as men do in some jobs, and I dare say that I've seen some women that could possibly do things that incredible, meaning that they can do it even though it might be a job that a man would normally have taken in past years.

My parents taught me to treat ladies with respect. that means you call them miss or misses or miss or whatever they tell you, you treat them with respect, and the only time that changes is if somebody decides to act like a total fool to you,! how you respond is in direct Relation to how you were responded to. I have actually had to take a few of these ladies down a few points, when they think that because they can yell louder than I can or they think they're scarier than me, because they can threaten me, that they can get away with it. i've also had ladies that say because they're pretty or because they're smart or whatever, they can get away with this or that. I call FOUL on that: if someone is acting a baby or acting a fool, then Sometimes you have to change your tactics and tell them that they're acting like that, or see if they like being treated that way. I don't like to do that, but sometimes you have to, because especially if a lady is acting like a jerk excuse me! when that happens you have to use pieces of personal to be able to teach them that their attitude stinks.

My parents taught me to respect ladies: That means you open doors for them, You use either miss miz or misses. you open doors for a lady, you pull the chairs out for ladies, you push their chairs in, and you do other types of things being a gentleman. far too often, the ways of the past are what we have been taught as guys goes by the wayside, because of the Times were in now. I would rather teach family members to treat ladies with respect, rather than to have a kid grow up thinking that they can be mean to the ladies and use bad language and be disrespectful. respect is the hallmark Everything. once you have it, you have to make sure you don't lose it, and if you lose it, it is hard to get back. i've always been of the mindset that as long as you respect the ladies the ladies should respect you, and even if they don't agree with you, you always show them respect.

Heck: I'll even tip my hat to the ladies if I see them! that is the way we were taught! your manners are like Are like your moral system. if you have them, you should use them, if you don't know how to properly do things like that, you should ask someone to teach you. manners Are things that were taught so we don't act like fools or we don't look like we don't care period it shows that we are responsible responsible or that we are good people, with good moral fiber, even if times change and things get worse. i'll always remember that I should always treat ladies with respect. i've even yelled at some guys before when I thought they were being disrespectful to ladies, and I don't like to do that, but I tell guys that I speak to that you better be respectful the ladies otherwise they wind up thinking of you as a total idiot, and I ask them if they want to be an idiot - And they usually respond hell no!

I would like to think that I am a guy I am a guy that would respect ladies and is respected because I don't think of women as sexual objects Or slaves. a woman is like a partner, in a law firm: you need two people to make it work the best: and you need to be able to respect each other. Respect will get you far, lack of respect will end up putting you in a position where you're wondering why people don't wanna deal with you. i'm glad my parents taught me respect honor integrity and all that, because it makes me feel like I am a real man. you can't be a real man if you are trying to manhandle the ladies or you put your hands on the woman. that makes you that makes you something else, an abuser exclamation!

Brian

I have no explanation for this kind of behavior , there are cultures out there that do think it is ok.  

Your welcome, always nice to have a good conversation.

Good observation!

Well, at least now you know what to get him for his Birthday and Christmas!!

How did they know / figure it out ? Did they invade your privacy deliberately, or were you "doxxed" by someone ? I'd be concerned about that exact aspect of all this.  ?? 

No @spoonchicken nothing bad. He knows me so well, he just connected the dots between my posts, and the words I use & took a stab in the dark. 

I really like seeing your posts. You are a very special person on this site.

Oh wow @fillemup  that is such an amazing compliment.

I too agree with @fillemup  I always enjoy your company, your insight, your posts, and you are an amazing lady. Never forget that you have friends here so we are not going anywhere!

Dear Kitty, there are men out here that are kind and treat women with respect. Sometimes that needle in a haystack is just a really big haystack. Just keep looking and keep your eye on the prize. 

I'm not a woman, but I had absolutely horrid luck when I was in the dating scene, only after I took a friends advice and "stopped looking" did I manage to come across my now wife of 3 years. You'll find someone, I know you will, don't give up and keep trying. I send you good vibes.

@MrValens  being a old-fashion soul, in a quick hook-up world is hell

mines diaper royalty!

@square_duck   and that is why people point & laugh ?

Yup, I never had much white in my wardrobe to begin with, but it's long been banished. I found out with hospital gowns in light colours (white and light blue) that a white diaper can sort of "fluoresce" under bright light or sunlight under certain conditions. 

Well, it's nice to know that I can be entertaining, and brighten someones day with laughter!! ?

Hope everything is ok kitty! Hang in there, it will work out like it's supposed to.

Hopefully no problem with weirdos!! ?

Happy Birthday!! 

HBD Kitty!!! ?

Happy Birthday Kitty!!!!! ?

Lmao!!

Tena should really make thongs. Although I can see some engineering difficulties with that... jokes aside, I never had much luck with Tena. What model do you prefer? In terms of plain, "medical-grade" diapers, the best ones I have found are Prevail 360 Breezers - I wore them to the gym, back when one could go to the gym (allegedly we might be able to do that again by the end of July). But I prefer plastic diapers like Rearz Lil' Monsters or Northshore Megamax's. 

I liked the absorbency of the Prevail 360 Breezers. I hated the tabs. One diaper completely broke open at the side. I woke up to a diaper almost off.  

Someday, I might try megamax, but right now, I like just dashing into Walmart & grabbing some supplies.

I know exactly what you're talking about - I had that issue, with the size large Breezers specifically. I exist in a netherworld between medium and large for most diaper brands - I can "kind of" squeeze into a medium, but large is usually better, albeit sometimes quite big on me, which can be a problem, from a discretion perspective. Anyway, I bought Breezers in medium and large, unsure which would be better. I found the larges to be quite big, but, strangely, the sides were prone to tearing off where they met the body of the diaper, whereas the mediums, although stretched out a lot more, don't seem to do that. I wore them primarily to the gym, and they held up well through running and martial arts training.