Flaresnare

I never really sucked my thumb,, but I think both sucking a thumb or pacifier can be very babyish, however Pacifiers certainly look and feel more babyish to me. They are generally made for Babies after all.

Hmm, well, I love Retro aspects of ABDL ! I'd be willing to try both but, I'd guess for this case, I'd have to say Double Pampers from the 80s and 90s mainly sense I heard positive things about diapers and pampers from those eras ( and I was a baby in the 90s XD ) Would you rather. Spend a couple hours In a Adult sized Baby bouncer ( While padded ) or spend a few hours in a adult sized playpen with only baby toys ? ( again while padded )

I was at school , I don't recall much mentions of it during school,, I was only 6 years old at the time. but I remember mostly hearing about it from my parents when I got home and seeing the aftermath on the news that day. it still saddens me to this day, to think of all the innocent lives lost. so many people never made it home to their loved ones that day. and the towers themselves completely gone, wish they were still standing proudly in the new York skyline.

I didn't try My first Adult Diapers until just a couple years ago eh heh, but I can remember it still well ! XD the brand was littleforBig,( got them off amazon lol ) Size Large Disposables, I admit they were a little bit big on me, but still fit fine, and after years of makeshift diapers from towels and plastic garbage bags, the feeling was amazing when I slid one on for first time, ? After that I had tried my first ABDL Cloth diapers ( from two other brands, Rearz and Babykins ) which were great as well,though one does fit a bit tight on me, but still nice, now I am hoping to try out more Adult Disposables brands soon !

Ah Neat ! yeah, disposables for me has always been the Idea diaper type I wanted to wear, like many I think it's that I grew up with them and what I tend to think of when I think " diaper " and yes they are certainly comfy from what I recall, I only tried a couple brands, but enjoyed them., like it's the crinkle and even smells they have that you don't seem to get with cloth types, however, I do still enjoy cloth, and I kinda like how it does give me a vibe of a more " Old school or Retro diapering " ? eh ?, which I don't know why, I find it quite fascinating really ( though never did try one with Safety pins yet but want to ) . I also do like how in some sense, it's a bit more connivant for me to wear one, sense I'll have it for a much longer duration then disposables. however I think it all just comes down to what mood I am in for what I want to wear ? ( and no probs about the commenting ! )

I'm still getting used to wearing different diaper types. but so far from the ones I worn, I found them to be all comfy for the most part. where it varies mostly comes from my cloth ones. most times they are very snug, soft and fluffily, but at times, the Velcro tabs can scratch my skin at times. lol ( right now it's been a while sense I worn disposables, but I remember finding them to feel quite comfy )

Indeed, it really all narrows down to just what sort of blackmail is being done. which can be more complicated or serious then the simple " I have pictures of you in diapers, now you must be my baby or else your secrets out " sort of thing, but really, I must admit, for as over the top or even convoluted blackmail scenarios can get. I'm willing to accept almost any if the story isn't one that takes itself too seriously, a bit ironic sense blackmail is a serious issue, but I find the more silly or over the top a story is, the more I'm willing to suspend disbelief ( goes for a lot of scenarios really )

For me at times, I certainly feel it's not the most realistic ways of how to get person to wear diapers. like I'm not saying I hate it, but, it really all narrows down to, just how believable the situation is or how it's handled or just what sort of tone or style the story is going for, so in some sense, it can work or at least make a little sense for me, but let me explain my thoughts on the most basic version I see, which would be, Person A blackmails person B with some evidence of them that could humiliate them ( like embarrassing pictures or content.) which to me is the weakest form. . like I agree very much with what you say about the person deciding some public humiliation is better then being pushed around by the blackmailer.( I'd not give them the satisfaction of tormenting me if I was in the place ) plus, blackmail is illegal and something that can get on in serious trouble, if one doesn't want to be forced to do things ( in this case wear diapers ) the said person could report them for the blackmail, if they try to use the evidence they have on you. they could land in some serious hot water themselves which they then would have to argue would it be worth it? In a sense, one could use the blackmail evidence as blackmail itself to keep them from exposing you with the threat of them getting into some serious legal trouble. either way, if they release the evidence, they'll suffer some serious legal issues that would most likely land them in jail. Also another big thing I never got about some blackmail scenarios, is when the tormentor makes the Victim do publicly embarrassing things, like taking them into public wearing diapers and dressed like a baby, showing them off to everyone who knows them, yet, after that. they still continue to listen to what they blackmailer says ? but like why ? if you now have been publicly embarrassed, why does it matter your tormentor threatens to show off pictures of you ? Either way, when blackmail is used like that I think it's a major issue, but really, I think it does go about how one handles it, like blackmail can also come in all different forms then just the way I mentioned it. ( but even , I still tend to think there are other ways one can avoid or get themselves out of the situations,) but, really, I suppose it all goes down to just how it's handled and how much you are willing to accept ?

Heh heh, Yeah, I'd probably say that is when it's most funny with that way of when it it gets pronounced at times, something about how one may draw out the pronunciation of the syllables a bit comes off as very amusing. Or when one might uses an over the top babyish voice when saying it as well, " do you need your" Dy-i-p-a, " changed ? "

I mean, when you think about it, it just sounds a tiny, little bit funny no ? " Diaper ">DYEPUR " he he he, makes me chuckle a bit. heh heh, * ahem * but seriously Though, It was just one of those moments to me where you think of word until it sounds sillier and sillier ?

Yeah, one thing I admit, is the site did have a rather well made layout, and I myself remember being drawn to the fact that * ahem * most of the content was easier to relate to, ( though now I do see how creepy it was being handled ) and I do owe a little for the site getting me into the whole ABDL scene, I am just glad there are other better sites ( such as this one ) where we can all come together. But yes, the biggest problem of " That " site was it trying to get details on kids IRL wearing diapers, and making it seem like young boys should only be in diapers and never potty trained ( and girls only being the ones to diaper and change them ) it was beyond unsettling, it's stories also do cross the line at times of what I think should and shouldn't be taken into concern, sense most of them seem to reflect a cruel and sexually abusive themes toward children, I mean if it's used strictly for a story telling reason it can work at times,( though I prefer not reading such things either way ) but the way it was handled on the site, it was clearly reflecting a more disturbing desire among most of those who posted them in my book which certainly puts the ABDL community in a bad light .

I was about 12 or 13 when I came across the site for the first time, shortly after I discovered my interests in Diapers, so, I admit it was the First ABDL related place I ever came across and at the time, became sucked in to it finding it fascinating that there was a place that focused on things that catered to my newfound interest, even then though, I did feel there was always something a bit " wrong " with the place, and as I got older I began to see more and more clearly as to why that was. Not just from the amount of disturbing stories that could deal with some serious underaged sexual content. but just how much " the Owner " did want to force his own Biases as you say, of Girls controlling boys in diapers to anyone who visited, the theme on there just got out of hand , I mean if one likes the Idea of something like Femdom, where a grown women dominates a grown Man, be it through BDSM or Diapers, that's perfectly fine, I enjoy some dominate themes like that myself at times,, but when it solely involves underaged children Like that site mostly did and you treat it like it should be an actual only lifestyle, then there's clearly a problem. Not to mention, things like the whole " Real life " sightings page to describe every little detail of boys being seen in diapers, to me just says enough about the place and how off it was. But, with how the site apparently hasn't been updated sense 2010, a decade ago, I don't think where going to have to worry about it ever being revived or anything like that. like you say, I believe it will just remain as a archive in the ( dark) History of ABDL websites. something we all should move on and away from.

Yeah there are no doubt some much worst places out there, but still doesn't mean it's any less disturbing , as I know some stories on there go beyond just being creepy * shudder *, having it taken down would be really great , but yeah , also keeping as much attention away from it is another good course of action and I'm hoping that the place isn't as easy to find as it once was,

Oh, yeah I had come across that before ( when I decided to look up what ever happened to the place ), and from what I can see, it's just an archived version of the site, so, it at least means no new content can be added to it, however still not a good thing that it still exists in some way and it certainly needs to be taken down fast.

Wishing you and everyone A Merry and safe Christmas !

A very Merry Christmas too you and everyone !

eh heh, yeah, I guess the way I worded that made it sound like that ? didn't really mean for that, it's more so that I just have a bit of a carious Interest with the internet during a time before I started really using it, so of course including ABDL things too ?

I heard a lot about DPF but never got a chance to see it myself, even though I think it'd still be around by the time I was browsing the web for such sites. it was apparently one of the oldest if not oldest ABDL site around at the time that I can gather. As for ******'s diaper site, I'm not proud to admit, but it was one of the first ABDL sites I can ever recall stumbling across when I first started looking. despite that, I am certainly glad it's shut down now based on what was on there. Bettys now, Yeah, I actually do visit there occasionally when I'm in the mood for certain stories , though, I do sort of get uncomfortable with some of the content they apparently allow there at times ( though it's not nearly as bad as Voldemort's site ) also I only say it may be not the original site, sense there is mentions on it about older versions of the place that shut down or something along those lines. Another older site I can think of that actually has recently shut down was adultbaby.co.uk, ( or Baby Brrr's ) which i'm not to sure was a homepage, but pretty sure it was mostly run by one person, and I do recall it archived a lot of stories on there for a while. Sissy Becky. was another popular site I hear of, though never been to myself but have scene some of it via Archive.org. but as for actual personal homepages I'm looking into. I had come across a couple more recently. i forget one's name but one I know one was called Babymatt's Diaper page. that still is up and has a few things still on it to view, ( like stories, info and old comments ), but very much abandoned as it was last updated all the way back in 2001 even making mentions of a certain Tragic event that happened that year. but still thought it was interesting to see such sites that had remained around that long.

Oh yeah, I believe I have seen that title floating around before when browsing for stories, have never read it for myself but have heard of it. though I certainly have not seen the site it originated from , but sounds like it fits the description from looking into it, those three other mentioned sites. I know those certainly had been around for quite a while to fit the time frame of things, but don't think they were quite " Homepages " in the same sense in terms of what I'm thinking of,. also I'm pretty sure Betty's is the only one that still is around ( at least another version of it )

Just something I been a little carious about regarding Personal Homepages you used to see the on internet that from what I can gather where big during the late 90s and early 2000s, and they basically allowed you to create the page however you like based on what ever you liked ( fandoms, movies, hobbies ect ) and if you see them today, you can tell just from how it is designed they are rather dated based on the old-school text and backgrounds used ? , however when things like social media and other bigger websites became a thing they began to fade out, I was carious if anyone may recall any ABDL based ones when they were still common or even may have owned one of their own at the time, as I remember just when I first started browsing the internet for ABDL sites in the late 2000s, there were still a few ABDL homepages I could find online, ( though don't recall the names ) though most were pretty much abandoned. I have however come across some via Archive.Org, more recently but never really looked to deep into them, hence I been a bit more carious to hear what others may recall of them.

Oh yeah one of the reasons I did want to try them is I hear they could be thicker and so so far they have felt more fluffy and thick compared to the disposable brand I used I certainly want to try adding some doublers/liners to them to really see what I can get as a result sometime ? , but I understand, washing them certainly is the biggest issue they present for me, but I still like the idea of always sort of owning a diaper for a while which makes that worth it a bit for me. but yeah disposables can certainly be more connivant in ways, and defiantly what I still aim to obtain when I can as well.

I was ( and still am ) quite bummed out about this when I first heard it, i mean I can understand the concern to remove it from shelves, but what mainly bugs me is I didn't hear about it until much after that was announced. had I known a bit sooner I would have stalked up on the brand, ( I only have two bottles of the original stuff stored away and am sort of debating if I should just keep them as a sort of keepsake lol ) cause one thing I loved about their original brand was no doubt the scent, it always put me in such a " Little/ABDL mood when ever I smell it, sure other powders still have that sorta scent to them and even the cornstarch type I don't find that bad honestly, so I am still content with using other powder brands and such, but nothing quite matches up to the original J&J Baby powder formula, though I had heard that even that had changed over time, but still a shame to see it go.

I just started trying out cloth recently, ( maybe for just a little over month now ? ) when I had been trying only disposables for about a year. mainly because I was very carious and had been on my to do list for a while, now finally got my chance, as right now I have two that are with Velcro hooks , also with a single pair of plastic pants, and I must say I was quite pleased by how nice they felt, very comfy, as in I really like the soft fabric feel of them, though do miss the crinkle sound you'd get from disposables ( though the plastic pants to sort of make up for it a little ) Sure, having to wash them after " usage " could start to be a bit of a hassle, ( I only tried them for going number one ) but the fact It can be a little less expensive then always buying disposables makes it pretty good still, ( still I love both types )they are defiantly however more what I'd wear if I am just going to to lounge around house and such and not bother to actually do my business in them. now I certainly would love to get a chance to try the kind that require safety pins of sorts just because ?

I have a beard that doesn't grow long very fast but does grow a lot into a stubble look all over, which when shaved O do think sorta makes me look a bit younger lol ( I have a bit a of a baby face thing going on ) and I suppose it can help a little when I want to get into my ABDL mood. but truthfully I don't think it really matters much, however the main reason I shave my beard is just because I do not like the feel of it at all.

Edit- I have re-edited this post to better reflect my thoughts When it comes to stories, it all narrows down to what mood i'm in, I read all sorts of different types of stories ,some of my favorite being Humiliation stories, but also really love More Wholesome stories as well like characters who come to discover their love for diapers,. but either way, there is always something that can " kill " a story for me regardless of what type it is,. which would be the fallowing. Mental regression - ( especially if forced or permanent) : even though I know it is a rather popular theme in a lot of stories. to have someone revert to a mental infantile state acting like a baby, it's something I just don't really find myself liking so much, mainly two reasons, and that being, One, it sorta takes away how I can identify or understand what the characters going through, if the main character is acting like a baby because of some, use of hypnosis, brainwashing or some Magical reason, I feel it's not the same character were supposed to be learning and fallowing along in the journey with. one of my favorite things to do when reading a story is sorta imagine myself in the characters role or try to feel or understand what they are going through, and in ABDL Literature. I love to hear how a character reacts or feels naturally to things like wearing diapers or how they feel being dressed like a baby, hearing their emotions being described and own personals thoughts is one of the most important things to me. and if they are reverted to acting like a baby who has no thoughts other then just crawling around or sucking their thumb, doesn't really feel like a character to me., however, it's a something I can tolerate if it isn't the theme that takes up most of the story's plot. However, the other reason it can be a put off for me is, when it becomes a permanent outcome for the character. especially if it's how a story is supposed to end. as to me, it sorta comes of as Killing the character in a Mental way as appose to physically, as yes they are still alive and breathing but it's not the true characters mind, their memories and personality is all gone, all that's left is a big body acting like a big baby. and it can kind of come off as a bit dark in that aspect when you look into it. again especially if the effects are forced onto the character or are meant to be permanent. None consistent themes - basically, when a story tends to have an unrealistic premise that tries to make work in our real world logic, which just tends to put me off. I don't mind if a story is silly, over the top or even unrealistic as long as the story makes it easy for that to to see happening in that world. ( basically any story that is making suspension of disbelief work for itself ) so I'd rather read a realistic story that tries to stick to being realistic all the way through, and read a more unrealistic story that tries to stick to being a bit more farfetched most of it's way through then trying to make sense of it's unrealism. Main character deciding they like diapers and being babied suddenly out of nowhere : now this needs some explaining from me, as the thing is, I actually like stories that deal with a character having to wear diapers usually against their wishes,( could be for a Varity of reasons ) but overtime they find themselves starting to like or enjoy the feelings of being diapered and being babied, however when I read a story like this I really like that sort of discovery to be built up upon and not just happen the moment they slip the garment on, like they could maybe find it different from how they felt it would but not understand the feeling instantly, and as the story progresses they start to learn that they are enjoying the sensation of a diaper between their legs and the treatment of being babied. Overly sexual themes- Now I'm not against a story that has sexual element in it, but when whole story is basically just diaper sex, I'm going to pretty much loose interest. Physical abuse or changes - now as said above, I do enjoy a humiliation or forced regression story, however with that said, I personally prefer it be a story where character finds the thought of wearing diapers and be dressed as a baby humiliating enough to them, ( but also great if made to act and do babyish things to go along ) but what I don't enjoy is when the themes go full on abuse in a physical nature. like being whipped, shocked or physical changes ( I can tolerate some spanking ) such a surgery done to alter a persons body. ( like teeth removing, messing with nerves and muscles to make them weaker or become incontinence ) it just kills the story when that type of damage is done to a person. the only time I can, tolerate it is, if it's done through a magical nature, so there being a possibly way to refers any effects. Sexual content involving Underaged characters. so still on the topic on sexual themes, this is a pretty big one for me and really can break a story, like but let me say first, I don't mind if underaged characters are in a story, it's only when the story focus on or features sexual scenes regarding them it becomes a big problem,, it especially starts apply if the content is meant to be abusive in nature or be written solely as as some ones fantasy ,( like if the story in question is written by some over the age of 18, ) , Like I can at times understand if the story is written by someone who themselves is under 18, but regardless it's something I'm not comfortable with and one of the major things I'm glad this site takes into account about not letting be tolerated here.