Flaresnare

I never really sucked my thumb,, but I think both sucking a thumb or pacifier can be very babyish, however Pacifiers certainly look and feel more babyish to me. They are generally made for Babies after all.

Hmm, well, I love Retro aspects of ABDL ! I'd be willing to try both but, I'd guess for this case, I'd have to say Double Pampers from the 80s and 90s mainly sense I heard positive things about diapers and pampers from those eras ( and I was a baby in the 90s XD ) Would you rather. Spend a couple hours In a Adult sized Baby bouncer ( While padded ) or spend a few hours in a adult sized playpen with only baby toys ? ( again while padded )

I was at school , I don't recall much mentions of it during school,, I was only 6 years old at the time. but I remember mostly hearing about it from my parents when I got home and seeing the aftermath on the news that day. it still saddens me to this day, to think of all the innocent lives lost. so many people never made it home to their loved ones that day. and the towers themselves completely gone, wish they were still standing proudly in the new York skyline.

I didn't try My first Adult Diapers until just a couple years ago eh heh, but I can remember it still well ! XD the brand was littleforBig,( got them off amazon lol ) Size Large Disposables, I admit they were a little bit big on me, but still fit fine, and after years of makeshift diapers from towels and plastic garbage bags, the feeling was amazing when I slid one on for first time, ? After that I had tried my first ABDL Cloth diapers ( from two other brands, Rearz and Babykins ) which were great as well,though one does fit a bit tight on me, but still nice, now I am hoping to try out more Adult Disposables brands soon !

Ah Neat ! yeah, disposables for me has always been the Idea diaper type I wanted to wear, like many I think it's that I grew up with them and what I tend to think of when I think " diaper " and yes they are certainly comfy from what I recall, I only tried a couple brands, but enjoyed them., like it's the crinkle and even smells they have that you don't seem to get with cloth types, however, I do still enjoy cloth, and I kinda like how it does give me a vibe of a more " Old school or Retro diapering " ? eh ?, which I don't know why, I find it quite fascinating really ( though never did try one with Safety pins yet but want to ) . I also do like how in some sense, it's a bit more connivant for me to wear one, sense I'll have it for a much longer duration then disposables. however I think it all just comes down to what mood I am in for what I want to wear ? ( and no probs about the commenting ! )

so far, I prefer laying down, I feel I can get a tighter pull on the tabs that way, but when I stand up I make any final adjustments if needed. ( like if needing to pull it up closer to waist )

I'm still getting used to wearing different diaper types. but so far from the ones I worn, I found them to be all comfy for the most part. where it varies mostly comes from my cloth ones. most times they are very snug, soft and fluffily, but at times, the Velcro tabs can scratch my skin at times. lol ( right now it's been a while sense I worn disposables, but I remember finding them to feel quite comfy )

Indeed, it really all narrows down to just what sort of blackmail is being done. which can be more complicated or serious then the simple " I have pictures of you in diapers, now you must be my baby or else your secrets out " sort of thing, but really, I must admit, for as over the top or even convoluted blackmail scenarios can get. I'm willing to accept almost any if the story isn't one that takes itself too seriously, a bit ironic sense blackmail is a serious issue, but I find the more silly or over the top a story is, the more I'm willing to suspend disbelief ( goes for a lot of scenarios really )

For me at times, I certainly feel it's not the most realistic ways of how to get person to wear diapers. like I'm not saying I hate it, but, it really all narrows down to, just how believable the situation is or how it's handled or just what sort of tone or style the story is going for, so in some sense, it can work or at least make a little sense for me, but let me explain my thoughts on the most basic version I see, which would be, Person A blackmails person B with some evidence of them that could humiliate them ( like embarrassing pictures or content.) which to me is the weakest form. . like I agree very much with what you say about the person deciding some public humiliation is better then being pushed around by the blackmailer.( I'd not give them the satisfaction of tormenting me if I was in the place ) plus, blackmail is illegal and something that can get on in serious trouble, if one doesn't want to be forced to do things ( in this case wear diapers ) the said person could report them for the blackmail, if they try to use the evidence they have on you. they could land in some serious hot water themselves which they then would have to argue would it be worth it? In a sense, one could use the blackmail evidence as blackmail itself to keep them from exposing you with the threat of them getting into some serious legal trouble. either way, if they release the evidence, they'll suffer some serious legal issues that would most likely land them in jail. Also another big thing I never got about some blackmail scenarios, is when the tormentor makes the Victim do publicly embarrassing things, like taking them into public wearing diapers and dressed like a baby, showing them off to everyone who knows them, yet, after that. they still continue to listen to what they blackmailer says ? but like why ? if you now have been publicly embarrassed, why does it matter your tormentor threatens to show off pictures of you ? Either way, when blackmail is used like that I think it's a major issue, but really, I think it does go about how one handles it, like blackmail can also come in all different forms then just the way I mentioned it. ( but even , I still tend to think there are other ways one can avoid or get themselves out of the situations,) but, really, I suppose it all goes down to just how it's handled and how much you are willing to accept ?

Heh heh, Yeah, I'd probably say that is when it's most funny with that way of when it it gets pronounced at times, something about how one may draw out the pronunciation of the syllables a bit comes off as very amusing. Or when one might uses an over the top babyish voice when saying it as well, " do you need your" Dy-i-p-a, " changed ? "

I mean, when you think about it, it just sounds a tiny, little bit funny no ? " Diaper ">DYEPUR " he he he, makes me chuckle a bit. heh heh, * ahem * but seriously Though, It was just one of those moments to me where you think of word until it sounds sillier and sillier ?

Yeah, one thing I admit, is the site did have a rather well made layout, and I myself remember being drawn to the fact that * ahem * most of the content was easier to relate to, ( though now I do see how creepy it was being handled ) and I do owe a little for the site getting me into the whole ABDL scene, I am just glad there are other better sites ( such as this one ) where we can all come together. But yes, the biggest problem of " That " site was it trying to get details on kids IRL wearing diapers, and making it seem like young boys should only be in diapers and never potty trained ( and girls only being the ones to diaper and change them ) it was beyond unsettling, it's stories also do cross the line at times of what I think should and shouldn't be taken into concern, sense most of them seem to reflect a cruel and sexually abusive themes toward children, I mean if it's used strictly for a story telling reason it can work at times,( though I prefer not reading such things either way ) but the way it was handled on the site, it was clearly reflecting a more disturbing desire among most of those who posted them in my book which certainly puts the ABDL community in a bad light .

I was about 12 or 13 when I came across the site for the first time, shortly after I discovered my interests in Diapers, so, I admit it was the First ABDL related place I ever came across and at the time, became sucked in to it finding it fascinating that there was a place that focused on things that catered to my newfound interest, even then though, I did feel there was always something a bit " wrong " with the place, and as I got older I began to see more and more clearly as to why that was. Not just from the amount of disturbing stories that could deal with some serious underaged sexual content. but just how much " the Owner " did want to force his own Biases as you say, of Girls controlling boys in diapers to anyone who visited, the theme on there just got out of hand , I mean if one likes the Idea of something like Femdom, where a grown women dominates a grown Man, be it through BDSM or Diapers, that's perfectly fine, I enjoy some dominate themes like that myself at times,, but when it solely involves underaged children Like that site mostly did and you treat it like it should be an actual only lifestyle, then there's clearly a problem. Not to mention, things like the whole " Real life " sightings page to describe every little detail of boys being seen in diapers, to me just says enough about the place and how off it was. But, with how the site apparently hasn't been updated sense 2010, a decade ago, I don't think where going to have to worry about it ever being revived or anything like that. like you say, I believe it will just remain as a archive in the ( dark) History of ABDL websites. something we all should move on and away from.

Yeah there are no doubt some much worst places out there, but still doesn't mean it's any less disturbing , as I know some stories on there go beyond just being creepy * shudder *, having it taken down would be really great , but yeah , also keeping as much attention away from it is another good course of action and I'm hoping that the place isn't as easy to find as it once was,