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I never thought about it too much, though I knew I was not on the large side, until I somehow heard about SPH and was immediately turned on by the idea. It fits right in with my other humiliation fantasies. Having girls make fun of my "widdle baby pee-pee" and diapers and saying that it's exactly right for a man with such a little dick to dress like a little boy is always my go-to dream.

Probably about the same hetero-bi-homosexual distribution here as in the general population, I would guess. Many, though not all, apparently, perhaps a bit more open-minded.

Thank you for the advice, I will give it some thought and expect people will let me know their likes as the items are posted.

This may be stretching the forum rules a bit, and if so, I apologize, as it is not a specifically post about available items, yet, but it should lead to such a post. I got a bit carried away during the pandemic buying cute outfits, some of which I never wear and have only worn once or a few times, which I would like to give away to anyone who would enjoy them. My question is, what's the best way to select who gets what? Do people posting available items just go, "first come, first served," or what? I think I'd rather post all of them in a single listing, rather than posting them separately. Thanks in advance for any advice!

I am blessed with both conditions, the first due to Type 2 Diabetes (not total,) and the second due to genetics, I guess (about 1-1/2" flaccid, not much more than 3" fully erect.) I like to fantasize about girls making fun of my diapers and "widdle baby pee-pee!"

That feeling of having a thick soft mass between your legs is one of the most powerfully pleasant sensations I have when when I'm wearing diapers. I've been wondering about how much of this pleasure I feel may be due to perineal stimulation, in addition to the "waddle" factor that changes your gait and reminds you that you're just a diapered baby, and the other psychological benefits. I like to squeeze my thighs together and enjoy the pressure there. The perineum is the area between your poophole and the labia, in women, or the nutsack, in men. It's quite sensitive; apparently, some men are able to come to orgasm by stimulating the prostate, rubbing or pressing on this spot. Does anyone else sometimes focus on this kind of excitement? Are there ways to increase it? I'm thinking a maxi-pad added the the diaper, or a rolled up diaper liner might increase the pressure there. Please enjoy, and be delighted in your diapers!

I was in a restaurant last summer and there was an attractive 20- or 30-something couple at the table next to ours. My eyes must have bugged out and my jaw dropped when I checked out what the young lady was wearing -- she had on the cutest white sweater and shorts set and the bottoms were made of the same fuzzy knit material as the top! I do not follow fashion and I had no idea that such things existed! Of course, the first thought in my mind was, "Diaper cover!" They're very similar in cut and style to the stretchy knitted diaper covers that babies and toddlers wear. I found a few cute pairs at J. Crew and Forever 21 and Shein, I think, searching on "sweater shorts," that were relatively inexpensive and fit over my diapers in a charming way. I don't think I could pull off wearing these in public, but they seem to be intended for both lounging and for street wear. Maybe something that some of the other babies and littles out there might like to add to their summer wardrobes...

This is a great topic. I wonder about this a lot. Diapers under normal adult clothes, as people have said here, invariably go without notice. Even if a close observer might be able to see you're wearing diapers, I've never had anyone stare, or even glance, at my bulgy crotch or rear end. But I like to wear more juvenile or androgynous or feminine style clothing outside sometimes as well. If I'm wearing a sailor shirt and my stretchy jersey shorts with regular socks and sneakers, I would think, at the most, if anyone noticed, they might think, "sporty," or "sailor wannabe." Again, an observer might be able to detect the diapers if they really scrutinized, but nothing overt. If I wore Mary Janes and frilly socks with the same outfit, I guess it might attract attention and be considered by this community to be somewhat over the line. Knee socks and Crocs might fall somewhere in between, looking like you might be on your way to a soccer game, or, you might be a little. I guess the point of this is, the variations are small, yet the impact on perceptions can be very different.

Baby-pants.com has training pants in lots of different colors and patterns and two thicknesses, "My First Training Pants," and "Almost a Big Kid." I think they are my favorites for the look (like the ones I had when I was a kid) and fit. I don't usually wet or poop my diapers or trainers, I just like them for the comfort and feeling. The training pants are more comfortable when I'm going to be more active or I'm wearing pants like jeans that aren't cut to fit over thick diapers. Also, the first time I can remember getting back into diapers, when I was 3 or 4, I found some training pants and plastic pants in a box in a closet and asked my mother if i could put them on. So they will always be meaningful to me and close to my heart!

I like to wear tights during the cooler times of year, they are so warm and cozy and give me a nice snug feeling over my diapers, so I'm welcoming the fall for that reason. This morning I went to put on a black cable knit pair, and I wasn't paying much attention. When I got the feet on and started to pull them up, I had to keep twisting them around and by the time I got the waistband up to my waist, I realized I had them on backwards! I remember my mother told me, when I was seven or eight and she gave me a new pair of pants to wear, "The label goes in the back," and I huffed, "I knew that since I was four!" Guess I'm still learning how to dress myself!

Ditto on BigTot, they have lots of fun prints and colors and are perfect for little boys and girls who llike to parade around the house in their underpants!

This seems to be something a lot of us share, just look at many of the stories posted on this site that are basically frames for the protagonist being made to wear "embarrassing" diapers and dresses, being changed in public, etc. I'm perfectly happy wearing a cozy diaper to bed, where no one is going to see me, but being "caught" has always really set my heart pumping. When I was 4 or 5, and I saw them in a box in a closet and asked my mother if I could put them on, I was able to get back into multiple layers of training pants with plastic pants over them for fun, which I'd been wearing maybe a year or a little more before for real. At that time I didn't feel any embarrassment at all. But the older I got, as I had opportunities to "diaper" with a towel and pins or other makeshift padding, I became more and more sensitive to the fact that if my family or friends found out, I would feel humiliated. Since I was invariably sneaking around, that always really got the adrenaline flowing, which is part of the reason I loved to do it. Now that my living situation is more private and AB stuff is readily available, I can wear diapers without really feeling like there's any risk involved, but I do still have fantasies about somehow being exposed and laughed at. As others have said, I don't think there's anything "bad" about this, as long as you don't let it cause problems by having it spill into your professional life or damage your relationships.

You sure know how to spoil a guy's fun! ?

By this logic, then, I suppose if it turned somebody on to wear blue jeans in public, it would be immoral for them to do so.

While I appreciate the idea that one should not impose their kinks on others without their permission, I wonder about how negative or intense the responses provoked by Little or ABDL wardrobe choices really are. I suppose that if we all dressed more on the vanilla side it could be considered more courteous, but doesn't everybody choose their clothing to express their identity at least somewhat? "Don't scare the horses," yes, I get it, but do shortalls and a onesie cross that line?

Maybe not "showing," but "visible" would be a place to start? It took me a long time, but I eventually learned that I can go out in public wearing diapers and plastic pants and "little" clothing, and pretty much not even get a second glance. I wish I'd had the nerve when I was a handsome young lad, instead of now, as a pudgy older gent that no one would really give the once-over anyway. Anyway these stretchy jersey cheerleader shorts (link below, or just search "Soffe Cheer Practice Shorts,") make good bottoms if you want to your diaper bulge to show. They come in lots of colors and sizes and are not expensive, the only problem with them is they have no pockets. I have some snap shoulder tee shirts, onesies, and other little boy style shirts I'll wear over them, and with knee socks and Crocs, it's a fun outfit and I never had a problem with unwelcome attention. Good luck and don't be shy! https://www.dickssportinggoods.com/p/soffe-juniors-cheer-shorts-16sofwsffchrshrtxapb/16sofwsffchrshrtxapb?sku=11346158&camp=CSE:DSG_92700048881921454_lia_pla-827358559585&segment=&gclid=CjwKCAjwxOCRBhA8EiwA0X8hi5vQcHUcud5fBapN2QRR8bEnMOen2w66I5y4trL1zw-z3eMKkn4bzBoCwvgQAvD_BwE&gclsrc=aw.ds

When I was a younger man, I used to live in apartments with no washers or dryers and I took all my clothes to the laundromat for washing. And you're right, my diapers, plastic pants, and sleepers, etc. pretty much fit in with all my other stuff, except that maybe some of the materials, colors and patterns would have been unusual for a young man's apparel. But maybe I was washing my kids' stuff, and who pays close attention to other peoples' dirty laundry at the laundromat, anyway? There was one time, though, when I left my baby stuff in a dryer while I went to buy some smokes or something, and when I came back, someone had stolen them! Man, was I pissed! I've always wondered, though, whether it was just random, or whether someone had seen that it was adult baby stuff and wanted it for themselves so much that they were willing to risk getting caught stealing.

I guess I was thinking more about "little" style clothing, not so much exposed diapers, when I was talking about gender and age. A young woman can get away with, and even be admired in, juvenile clothing, while an older guy might be scorned. I guess I see this as more of a continuum, between too obvious and invisible, and I wonder if there is a gray area somewhere in the middle, where this community, and the wider community, might be able to accept babyish public attire as being "different," but not offensive. A big bulky diaper can be pretty obvious, even if it's covered, even if it's not peeking out anywhere, unless by "keep it covered" you mean covered by long shirt tails or loose fitting sweatpants, etc.

I've only ever posted one photo of myself in diapers online. I posted in a forum topic here at DailyDiapers because I thinks it's a pretty safe place, in more ways than one. I'm one of those people who like to wear diapers in public. The first few times, I was terrified, but after a while I got used to it and started to be a little more daring. I still wouldn't go out in public wearing nothing over my diapers unless I was sure no one would see me, but a visible bulge and a hint of plastic pants peeking out is just the right amount of excitement for me. I've never gotten any visible reactions, but then I am careful about when and where I go out so I'm not going to run into a lot of people at close quarters. I like to take photos of myself to see what I look like, and I posted here because I was curious to see what others think. Apparently a lot of people here frown on really obvious, relatively extreme public exposure, because they think it reflects badly on the community and because it's not right to force your lifestyle choices on others (especially kids.) I don't know exactly what I think, and I wonder what others think, about where the line between okay and offensive lies on the continuum from invisible to obvious. It's clearly gender- and age-dependent, which makes it even more complicated.

Gender also enters into the question. A young woman can wear a cute juvenile outfit and may be met with admiration or indifference, while an older guy like me might get scornful or even hostile reactions in the same clothing. Cultural norms, you say, but they vary and can change, can't they? Fifty years ago, men wearing dresses was known, but taboo. Now, a transgender woman wearing girls' clothes is considered okay by many, but if she dresses like a toddler in petticoats and Mary Janes, has she gone too far? Maybe, if we're comfortable doing it, we could considerately and tastefully try to stretch the envelope a bit, and shift the definition of what's acceptable. It's a fact, too, that bizarre or extreme behavior makes more subtle deviations from what's considered normal seem relatively inoffensive.

I like a little thrill but I don’t really want to be arrested. I’m really intrigued about where the line is and why it is, where it is. I can wear a loose t-shirt and shorts over my diapers and no one’s the wiser. But if it’s my stretchy jersey cheerleader shorts and a onesie or a short snap shoulder top, is that over the line?

Apparently so! ? Thanks!

Thanks to all for the input and context information -- it's been some busy times here at Casa 60's and I haven't had a chance to jump back on the boards here... I can write more later about questions of integration of ABDL things into regular life. I've read many things about how "you can't force other people to participate in your fetish," and even some remarks from incontinent people who are offended by the desire some might have to wear diapers in public. Curious about all these things. Context obviously plays a role. Anyone could wear almost anything during Mardi Gras in New Orleans or at a Gay Pride march on Castro Street, and I have seen plenty of trans-gender or ambiguous clothing worn in other urban areas, but I think the same behavior might cause trouble at a shopping mall in small town middle America. However, there are lots of fleece sleepers for grownups now, advertised all over the internet, and the DD/lg community seems to be gaining more notice rapidly, so maybe mainstream awareness isn't as unlikely as it seems.

Hi gang, just a little note by way of introduction, I've been searching and looking at ABDL sites and references online a long time, now I'm curious to try out a bit of interaction, and quite nervous about doing so. I'm particularly interested in how people do, or don't, integrate their ABDL activities with the rest of their lives, and about normalizing and mainstreaming things and whether or not that's a good idea, or even possible. I've gotten used to and more comfortable with many things over time, maybe I can do the same with a bit of back and forth and sharing. Best wishes and a happy life to all...