Painted Cow

A slightly different approach is to take a condom, unroll it slightly (half an inch is more than enough), put 10-15 drops of intercourse grade water or silicon based lubricant into the reservoir tip and roll the condom all the way down over your penis as usual. Then put on a diaper and have fun humping or stroking Putting lubricant inside of the condom increases sensation and stimulation. This works for regular intercourse too as it makes condom use very pleasurable. In that case make sure to only put 2 or 3 drops in, just enough to lubricate the tip of your penis, as more will risk the condom to slide off inside your partner. Otherwise you will be needing extra diapers in 9 months time and I guess nobody wants that

Take a good 16.9 or 40 oz. of neutral water based lubricant approved for intercourse, pour it down your diaper and have fun humping or stroking This stuff is generally very cheap (look for unbranded types) so have lots of fun with lots of it. When it starts to get a little dry while having fun, just add some water and you're good to go again. It cleans up easy when you're done. Hop in the shower and the water washes everything away instantly. Intercourse grade silicon based lubricant works a treat as well. It feels a little different (more slippery) but is more expensive and not very easy to clean up afterwards. I would definitely not recommend doing the same thing with anything soap related like shampoo etc.. It tends to wreak havoc on the skin by excessively degreasing it when used as a "lubricant" during any sliding motion; especially when pressure is applied like when humping your diaper..

Sure! Sometimes it happens and when it does it's a wonderful feeling. I hope it never stops. I like an orgasmic easter egg from time to time

Great to hear you had such a nice experience! Giving head while changing your male partner (or receiving head while being changed yourself) is one of the most intimate and pleasurable things to do I think. I don't like anal at all, but mouth jobs any which way are just heavenly? And if you spill some you don't have to worry about cleaning up?

The absolute no.1 to minimize leaks is having your penis pointing downwards in the diaper. This way you have the most padding available for absorption. That will fill up the diaper more from between your legs rather than filling the front first and running out of absorption (= leaking) quicker. For some men this is not comfortable due to the normal involuntary night time erections, which may not be able to reach full stiffness, causing pain. In that case I would recommend giving cloth diapers a try. Make sure you try one with a high waist line so that even with penis pointing upwards you still have plenty material to take care of you during the night. By the way, if you wet while laying on your side every diaper will struggle with that. It's the most difficult position for a diaper to keep you dry. You mention you wet after you wake up. That usually means your bladder is quite full, so that stresses the diaper even more. And finally: a mattress protector is your best friend! I always have a thin one from the disposable absorbing type on my bed to make sure leaks don't turn into a disaster. I like that better than plastic pants since they tend to get hot and sweaty real quick.

If diapers have a sexual connotation for you I'm not surprised that women only when diapered turn you on; taking into account that you already prefer guys over women. So on a woman the diaper compensates your otherwise reduced interest. I'm bisexual, like both men and women, even more when they are thickly padded, but a diaper to me is only a nice extra on a person. But yeah I think you can have a great time mixing a diaper in with all of the too hot to handle fun??

A very interesting read indeed. From the first few minutes of life a baby is put in a diaper and for a number of years thereafter by an adult. [..] But, again I must stress to parents who do have children who are true DL/TBs through no fault of their own. They did not pick this fate nor did anyone else for them. It is simply something that happened. They are still just as normal as any other child. They just have a secret and this secret can hurt them very badly if not handled in a caring and loving manor. [..] This is an obsession that the child has no control over. It is embedded into their mind so deeply it cannot be changed. [..] The important thing here is that the parent needs to make sure that the child understands there is nothing wrong with them and the parent needs to understand that too. A diaper is harmless to anyone. I think those a wise words. Diapers are present from the first minute on in ones live and play a role later on when the transition to toilet is made. It's very understandable some become emotionally attached to them permanently. For sure if the process of achieving not needing to wear a diaper anymore was a strong emotional, abusive or even traumatic experience. I'd say if your kid comes out to you about their diaper desire that is a sign of massive trust and should be treated with loving care. I would still try to work out with him or her a bit about the background of their desire (as life without a diaper desire is, when push comes to shove, easier) as I think that's the role of a responsible parent too. Not to deny the child their feelings or anything, but just to keep in touch with how the desire develops over time from that moment on.

I only have 1 and yes it's diapered? Stuffy has nothing to do with diapers nor any related experience or anything, but why not I figured.

In winter mostly PJs and a diaper. When it's warm just a bare diaper. I never wear plastic pants or anything to bed. I do however always have a disposable bed mat over the mattress to take care of things should a leak develop during sleep.

For me it's definitely the diaper. It is impossible to trigger that natural feeling any other way. Due to health issues developed a while ago (which on its own sucks; I would absolutely reverse that in a heartbeat if I could) I now need to wear a diaper to bed. I consider myself fortunate not having to wrestle coming to terms with that. Wearing diapers and the comforting feelings arising from that have always been present from an early age on. But now that wearing partly became required I use those already existing feelings to deal with the new situation more easily and luckily enjoy not having stress about that too. So although the reason why still very much sucks, I ever still find it wonderful what a diaper does for me.

I couldn't agree more. It's soft, snug, warm and just very comforting. The security of a thick absorbent padding between the legs in bed feels natural and how it should be. Plus I don't have to get up in case I need to go during the night.

Agree, doing so and waking up all warm and wet is just heavenly.

In a diaper, yes of course! Mostly diapered in bed before sleeping, right after a good wetting. Cum, pass out and fall asleep totally relaxed ?

Yes, quite often, but I keep that to myself. I don't force it in anyone's face, so it's not like I'm standing in front of the windows then.

Somewhere around 3, but definitely 4. I already liked diapers (especially night diapers) very much while I still needed them at an early age. It only got worse from then on?