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Just graduated college back in May and have plenty of experience with this type of contemplation. I had both a dorm for 2 years with 1 roommate/6 total guys the 1st year, 4 the 2nd, then the house would vary. Regardless, I would wear more the longer I was in college at home. When It comes down to it, most guys don't really care. If your roommates are cool they won't ask questions, but obviously don't go out of your way to get them noticed. As the guy above me said, taking out the trash yourself with your diapers is the best course of action. Really kills multiple birds with 1 stone (clean dorm, roommates will love it, no used diapers in the living space. College is the cool place where you can pretty much do whatever and no one will judge you.

I'm not a fan of wearing during leg day either or when doing abs because of the chafing more so. I feel the diaper just gets in the way, especially with squats. If you say you may have been able to pump out an extra set I wonder if you'll pay attention the next time you do. Interesting to think about I've ran in the Northshore lite twice and if someone put a gun to my head and said you have to run in them I absolutely could, but it's just not ideal. Especially all the sweat that builds up it's not worth it.

From time to time I go to the gym diapered to do weight training. I typically would wear a Northshore Lite diaper because it's not bulky and doesn't get in the way. Today I decided to throw caution to the wind and wore a Little Monsters diaper and had no issues as I did upper body. It got me thinking. We tend to lift better the more testosterone we have in our body and though I haven't really noticed a difference in my lifts when I do wear at the gym, I do like that I don't have to leave my area and risk having it taken over by someone if i need to go the bathroom. I was wondering A: Does anyone else have experience wearing at the gym/Was it worth it to you or no? B: What, if any, difference did you notice it making.

All of these responses are insightful. I've heard a lot of people around talk about cloth being good for night time, but I've never worth cloth so I don't know how exactly that helps better, but clearly it does. Perhaps some research is overdue. Also, man it sounds a lot more complicated for males than females with this subject. Yay anatomy Oh yeah. 1 thing I've noticed is I have been waking up on my back every time I wear to bed. Not to pee, but just from waking up. Probably hormones getting in the way. Used to never be able to sleep on my back and now it's getting a lot easier. Was usually a stomach sleeper. The body is a funny thing

A question for male bed wetters( nighttime incontinence). How do you reduce/eliminate leaking at night? Sounds simple, but obviously males tend to fill up the front long before the back of the diaper. Given that's the case, it seems way easier to leak if the urine is coming up as opposed to down. Something I've wondered from wearing to bed from time to time and trying to just wet wherever I am when I wake up, but hasn't gone too well with staying in.

Don't have an exact count at this point, but my stash consists of the following types: Tykables overnights Cushies 2 Fabines Princess Rearz Confidry 24/7 I'm pretty sure before I packed them all up to move back home from school( Yeah not my smartest move to go overboard...) I had somewhere in the ballpark of 50-60 diapers? Seemed like a fairly substantial amount until I read what some others have. They dwarf mine!

(I spent 20 minutes looking for this). This is from a blog I follow on tumblr(Resonantyes) and is honestly what helped me break my hatred and guilt of enjoying diapers. It's a long post, but I hope it helps you like it helped me. " Releasing ABDL Shame I recently got a private message on Fetlife from a new guy-friend who, like me and so many others have, is struggling with the guilt and shame of having ABDL interests, particularly in light of his outward masculinity. I thought I would repost my advice here in case it can be of any help to our Tumblr friends… while we aren’t by any means experts on shame or self-care, I thought perhaps my thoughts could help others. — For me, there have been a couple of core concepts that have helped me release that shame and guilt. I’ll share them here in full knowledge that these aren’t the kinds of things that seep in overnight: it took me a couple of years to deeply internalize them, and even today I have to remind myself at times that I lose self-compassion or feel threatened. So, be kind to yourself… this kind of self-integration is a process, and by reaching out to others you have started it brilliantly. Kudos for your bravery! Everyone is masculine and feminine. Seriously, we all contain both of these energies and their requisite traits in spades. Our culture tells us a lot about how we should feel, how each gender should act, etc., but most of it is polarized nonsense for the sake of quick characterization. (One researcher refers to it as a “social role heuristic,” basically a shortcut to understand where we fit in the pecking order). For a couple hundred millennia, males have been depended upon to be bigger, physically stronger, hunt, etc., and females have been depended upon to bear and nurse children, gather provisions, nurture community support, etc., and our cultural standards have developed around these necessities. Unfortunately, we have also lumped a whole lot of psychological concepts into these functional realities as our societies have gotten more complex and our ability to abstract has improved. So big/strong/independent has turned into a role and bear/gather/nurture has turned into a role which eventually turned into a set of beliefs which eventually turned into our concept of gender. All that to say, you are both. You are strong and independent and tough and assertive. You are also soft, open, in need of love, tender, small, and weak. Both are true, and neither requires the other to go away in order for itself to exist. As Walt Whitman famously wrote, “I am large. I contain multitudes.” I go to work, I make command decisions, sometimes I guide millions of dollars and hundreds of jobs with my choices… and when I come sometimes I want to get diapered and taken care of, and both are equally awesome. Neither requires the other one to go away in order to be true. You need to be taken care of, just like everybody else, and don’t let the business suit or power play trick you into thinking you need to polarize. You don’t. Go kick ass during the day, come home and Little-out at night. Or vice versa. You are contain multitudes. You are not broken. Man, this is the crux of it. Sexuality is impossibly complex, and it exists at such a fundamental level in our brain development and evolution… it pre-dates conscious thought, and our conceptualizations of our sexuality are merely best-guesses at trying to characterize something wholly abstract and base-functioning. To think of sexualities, regardless of how culturally deviant, as being character flaws or mistakes is to miss how sexuality works. If you don’t believe me, look at the NIH-funded studies that demonstrated how easy it is to create a lemon fetish in rats. Are these rats morally corrupt? Are they broken? Are they perverts? Are they broken? Nope… their sexual development happened to overlap with a sensory stimulus and they ended up with a fetish. Awesome. Anybody got any guesses on why men are attracted breasts? Yup. Because that’s how that works. There is nothing wrong with you. There never was. Your sexuality may be different than most people you know, but it’s not broken. There is no normal sexuality, and I guarantee that you are surrounded by dozens of men and women at work who have sexual fetishes, bizarre interests, turn-ons and practices that they work hard to hide from the world. You deserve to try to be happy. The pursuit of happiness is, as the US Declaration of Independence so eloquently puts it, an inalienable right. I think it’s an inherent trait; a motivational force built into each of us in some degree that drives behavior. So goddamnit, if something makes you happy and you can do it without violating others’ right to their pursuit of happiness, go after it. Few things make me as happy as diapering my wife, and few things make me feel as loved as being diapered. So I’m going to do it a lot; it’s fantastic. If I’m not doing it enough, I’m going to create time, and if I find I’m doing it too much, I’ll back it off, as it isn’t actually making me happy. Your pursuit of something that makes you happy isn’t just nice, it’s essential to embracing your own beautiful humanity. So fucking run after it; find your thing, and do it a lot. If your partner isn’t game, that’s OK… he/she doesn’t have to be, and he/she has a right to pursue happiness too, and you guys can work out how that will work for you. Pursuing happiness is part of valuing your own humanity; if you would want it for a friend, you can want it for yourself. Let shame teach you, then let it go. Shame and fear researcher Brenè Brown says it better than I ever could in her TED talk on shame: It’s OK to feel it. It’s OK really dislike that feeling, too. But let it teach you; let it tell you about your beliefs and your contradictions without judging yourself for feeling those things. Then, when you’re ready, choose to begin to step out of it. Avoiding shame (like avoiding any feeling) just compresses it into a more potent version of itself, and it comes out in dark and unpredictable ways. Don’t try *not* to be shameful, but rather ask what it teaches you about yourself, then choose to replace shame with compassion as you walk out of the swamp. I hope this is helpful, and I’m really glad you reached out; that moment of vulnerability is a moment of profound creative and renewing energy."

It's in north east NJ. I actually live roughly 20 minutes away. It's a more urban area typically. I guess this was an issue

I chose yes, but in reality I rotate between a few. I quite enjoy Cushies and Fabines, but would never wear them to bed with the intention of wetting them overnight(I wake up and use them not a sleep wetter). Tykables overnights are my favorite night time diaper especially because I can re tape them if I sleep the night without needing to go and I have no doubt they won't leak. My two favorites though are confi dry 24/7's because they're super comfortable and don't chafe my legs so doing any long walks and such I like wearing these and actually the princess rearz. I bought them to test them and was amazed by the comfort and how much the suckers could hold. Usually can't wear the same diaper for longer than 3-4 hours with how hydrated I stay(super active person), but even as I type this up I have been in the same one for roughly 5.5 hours and still have plenty of room to go. When I think it should leak it doesn't so props to them.

This is awesome. I really didn't expect to see so many responses. It's cool to see many who have had success, especially considering the "taboo", if you will, of meeting people from the internet. I suppose it's more common than one would think

I've seen a few abandoned things while Geocaching and it's a ton of fun. No real crazy stories to name, but I have seen an abandoned mine or 2. It had decayed as it had been years since it was touched, but it was still cool none the less.

Just because I see it on every sort of related site or content. Has anyone here actually had success meeting up with someone that they've met online related to this fetish? I feel like it's one of those things that never actually happens, but people will try anyway. That is, of course, if you find yourself in the right situation which can obviously happen. And i'm not talking about pursuing a relationship or anything. More general. Props to those that refuse to give up or actually succeeded. *For the record, no I have not tried nor have much of a desire to do such*