Kingdark

I'm confused. Why wouldn't I be able to hold it? By ultrasound, I'm having image in my head of what they do with pregnant women, so that's probably wrong? You might want to go a bit more in detail, because to answer the question: no, I never had a bladder ultrasound. Given by what you said, I'm guessing that they told you to make sure you went to the bathroom in advance? If they did and you didn't do this, then that's not OKAY at all. I'm awaiting further clarification. Afterthought: normally I would google this myself, before I comment on it, but I don't have the time for that right now. I apologize if I made the wrong conclusions myself.

Hi, Welcome to the forum. Tell us a bit about yourself, whatever you feel comfortable sharing.

Go for I say. I'm not sure if you're going to be the only one, but I'm assuming you're going to be dressed normally and aren't going to be naked from below the waist. (Diaper included obviously, not naked, naked.) But from the posts made, I've got the impression that IS going to be the case. Ergo, the diaper will be there for everyone to see. (Correct me if I'm wrong please.) Now, I do have a few thoughts about it. If you're not the only person there that does the same thing as you, I'd just go for it and to hell with what everyone else thinks. There's a thing in Belgium once a year, where people come out and there's a puppy march too. There's lots of them. My point is, that if you were one of those, you wouldn't stand out. My point is, if you're not the only one, you're not going to stand out. Now, if you ARE going to be the only one, then it's different I think. If you're the only person with their diaper in full view, then I don't think that doing that would be a good idea. Wearing it under your clothes? Sure, no problem. (It's not like you've got a choice in the matter.) I just think that confronting people with it, might not be a good idea? I did some googling and I don't think anyone is walking around exposed like that. What you could do instead, is tape something to your back. 'I have ms and that means I am fully incontinent and must wear diapers as a result' something like that.

That's a bit of a complicated question and it depends on what you want out of it. If you wear a lot and you let yourself go until it becomes a habit, then you could technically become a little incontinent. But not so far that you wouldn't be able to hold it. If you create a habit, you can also break it. But in order for them (the bladder muscle equivalent) to weaken, I think you would have to wear nonstop for months before that becomes a thing. I've been wearing on and off since I was sixteen-ish (give or take a year) and I'll be 39 this week, and I don't have any incontinence problems whatsoever. The only thing that happened to me recently, was that I was in bed, and I was waking up. You know, that feeling, when you're still in a dream phase, but you're waking up and you half know you're awake? At that point, I deliberately began to pee, but it was only when I felt wetness that I became wide awake and I realized I wasn't wearing a diaper. Thankfully, I cut it off before it got really wet and it was time for laundry anyway. Finally, I don't think you should worry about losing control or becoming incontinent if you only wear rarely. Because if it was possible, the forum wouldn't be flooded by 'how do I be come incontinent' topics. (Something nobody would really want, because there is a BIG difference between the fantasy and reality.) Hope my answer helped. Then I'm guessing both of you have jobs that pay really well? Because I know I couldn't afford to do laundry every day. (I do laundry twice a month on average.) You wear diapers during the day then? Since you first say neither of you wear protection during the night but both of you wet the bed? And I've never slept in a waterbed, but doesn't it begin to smell after awhile even if you clean it off? Hey, I wasn't talking about when you were a kid, obviously. And no offense, but I don't think I would've wanted to sleep in that bed, if you were a bedwetter when you were ten and your parents didn't even bother with plastic sheets. (again, no offense intended.)

Hang on a second, are you saying, you want to wet the bed... Without protection? I don't want to ask an 'obvious' question, but I'm assuming you're at least using plastic sheets? Because if you don't, you'll be ruining your mattress and if you have to do that a couple of times, that'll get really expensive really quickly. A man shouldn't throw stone in a glass house, but why would you want to wet the bed without protection or without plastic sheets? I mean this politely and I'm not trying to shame anyone (again, I wear and use diapers myself) Am I looking too much into this? Sorry for the double post, but it's one think to pee (almost) automatically and (almost) without control, but doing nr 2 will always be something you'll have to do consciously. I don't think there is any way you can become fully incontinent (as in pee and poop) without drastic measures like surgery or drugs. And those aren't things you should ever consider if it isn't absolutely necessary for your own health.

Okay, still confused about what this and that was supposed to be...

The price. Abdl diapers are getting ridiculously expensive. Like, there's a brand where you pay 40!! that's FORTY euro's for a single package. I refuse to pay that much money.

I know this is a late reaction, but I don't think that you fully understand the consequences of being fully incontinent. There's a very big difference between the fantasy and reality. I would think long and hard about it if it's something you really want.

I feel like every time it gets on tv or it gets some attention, that I'm cringing every time it comes up. It always feels weird and they never really give the right impression.

I think it was just pampers. There isn't really a chance for me to ask. (My mum knows) and it's kind of weird to ask out of nowhere. I don't remember, but I base my answer on the fact that my mum used to be home day care for baby's I guess? Not sure how to translate it, since a direct translation would translate to receive mother or something. (onthaal moeder in Dutch) In any case, I remember those being pampers and my mum was free to choose which one she wanted to use. (She was compensated for it.) It was that or the parents gave her enough diapers (pampers) for a period of time.

Just a random observation, but did you know this topic is like, ancient? It's from 2006 when it was originally asked. That's just... Wow. In any case, to answer the question, for me, I first wrap them in a plastic bag you can't see through. It's either black or purple. (Those one are perfumed.) Anyway, I only tend to pee in them, so now, during winter season, I just throw them in the trash and let that be it. During summer season though, I have to be a little more careful. Because when it's warm, it tends to start to smell a whole lot sooner. That's especially true for nr2 diapers.

For me, it depends on my mood a lot. Let's be honest about this, but nr two is, and please forgive the pun, but it's a godawful mess to clean up. I don't like sitting in it for long, and it feels like a waste, if I just go nr 2 and change out of the diaper immediately after. I might as well go to the toilet like a big boy, but sometimes, I just can't be bothered. That's usually when I'm writing or when I'm gaming or when I'm feeling lazy. I do wet a lot though. When I go outside, I don't even hesitate anymore, because nobody is going to notice and if they do, it's unlikely they're going to make a comment about it. Unless they're assholes of-course. Nobody is going to know if you're wearing for fun, or if you're wearing because you need them.

I've been wearing off and on since I was sixteen-ish and I'll be celebrating my 39th in five days. (The 24th) I've found that it's harder to hold my urine at times if I'm not paying attention. I also had one or two incidents where I was waking up, and I almost let go, before I remembered I wasn't wearing a diaper then. I haven't wet the bed in... Well, long enough that I don't remember ever having an accident, but well, EVERYBODY has an 'I-wet-the-bed-' accident once in their life, so I must've been pretty young.

You basically took the words straight out of my mouth. First of all, be welcome. Second, I can only echo that while the people here are friendly, always be cautious when meeting in person. This is just my personal experience and advice: When you're talking to someone, and they're asking to meet up, I strongly advice to delay until you've been chatting for a few months minimum. Why? Because it's hard(er) to keep up a fake persona without slipping once. Once you've been chatting for a few months, then you can get to meet for the first time. Of course, this is how I do things. If a few months are too long for you, that's fair. That said, I still recommend chatting for a few days at the absolute minimum. You know the saying, if it sounds too good to be true? Well, it probably is. Anyway, I've been inactive for awhile, but feel free to shoot me a message.

Be welcome to the forum. i would advice you to rank up some quality posts to increase the trust of people here. There are a lot of scammers out there. I'm not saying YOU are a scammer, just saying, that if you participate and get more quality posts, people will find it more believable. Still, make yourself at home around here 😉