TigerTy

So update 1..... This morning I woke up feeling terrible, but against my better judgement I decided not to wear today. This was widely regarded as a bad move. About 5 min into the meeting I was 100% convinced I was about to have an accident. I made it through, but directly after went directly to the least populated bathroom I could find and put on my little kings. The story does not end here however. Where I work has two stalls, and usually its pretty busy. This is a problem when you are convinced you have the loudest tapes on the planet and big gaps in the doors. I decided that since it was always risky to remove my diaper I would only do it to go #2. #1 was discrete enough to use the diaper as it was intended and meant that I could take it off less. All was going well until the 4th visit of the day when I accidently dropped my diaper on the stall floor, where I think someone saw. They didn't say anything but I wanted to crawl into a hole and hide. 😅 Overall though, I felt less stressed while padded and decided that I will try the 24/7 lifestyle. I accept that my friends will find out at some point, but I won't go out of my way to tell them. My family already suspects something, but would 100% support my decision if I told them this is what helps me. Me and my girlfriend decided that when I'm at work I'll be diapered and use it for #1 only while going to the potty for #2 (makes it easier to deal with), but once I get home I'm to be dressed in a onesie and be fully reliant on the diaper. She will handle all my diapering needs at home. I enjoy being diapered, and have accepted that people will eventually find out, but this is part of me, and makes me feel better. Its just a different kind of under where so I plan to treat it like one. @rusty pins you make a great point about personal choice. I think I'm going to do what you recommend in your last paragraph, but I'm not as concerned about being as discrete as possible. Just as comfortable as possible. I'm still nervous about accepting that I "need" diapers, but it feels like the right path for me, especially with support at home. My next hurdle is if anyone at work brings it up, but I'll be ready. I'll update as I learn, and if anyone wants to chat, reach out. 🌈

It's complicated. There are 4 types and each requires a different medication. I've tried an antidepressant (surprisingly) and didn't get any results. I have since others that can reduce the symptoms, but only after they start. Honestly, just being padded works better to lower my stress and symptoms that any meds I've tried. I find that stress is the main cause of my problem.

Any advice on my friends and family? If I'm 24/7 it's only a matter of time before an awkward conversation. I think it's what's best for me, but I'm a bit scared to fully commit to this. It's hard to hide my diaper mountain in my bedroom or the waddle as I walk.

I need advice. I feel really guilty about considering going 24/7. I've been diagnosed with IBS and do actually have times where I need to get to a bathroom quick, but I've only have like 5 accidents in a year and a half. I have a doctor's note saying that I require diapers, but lately I've felt more guilty than ever that maybe I'm just being dramatic or letting my abdl side persuade me. Paddeding up seems to help, particularly by lowering stress and symptoms and I've regretted not padding up for awhile now especially at work, but haven't had any accidents (but a few close calls). My question is if it's justified just to go 24/7? I don't need diapers all the time, but I'm having a harder time predicting when it would help so maybe I should just do it all the time instead. I also have a loving girlfriend how supports either decision 100%. Any ideas?

A very fine stash indeed

I told my girlfriend and she insistes I wear every night when I get home from work. She says my shoulders look amazing in a onesie and even wants to go to capcon next year (yay) . She was 100% vanilla when we met. There is always a chance. Stay positive y'all

There is no answer as to why you like it. Just accept that it's a part of you and makes you special. Have fun with it, and live your best life. Not always easy, but I'm trying to live this ethos myself

Haha. Phew. I would have died. Great story.

Thought I was share my Friday night outfit. I love my shortalls so much. These aren't even little/ ab ones, but instead a twisted tea co-brand with swoveralls. There basically sweatpants. Still feel a bit silly in them, but I'm super comfy and happy. And I can make my girlfriend giggle when she sees me ☺️

I'm getting to that point. My girlfriend is so accepting and actively encourages me to wear anytime I'm not at work. I've been drinking a lot before bed to enjoy wetting at night, but I'm now having nights that I'm not sure I didn't accidentally wet. I think I'm approaching the point of no return if I keep training myself. But considering I'm diaperd 14/ 24 hours a day it's probably not that bad. It's tempting to just say screw it and go full time.

When I was 7 or 8 I was playing Doctor with a friend and we "borrowed" a diaper from my little brother. I was the patient who had to get put back in a diaper. It was so exciting and felt naughty, but so good, especially having someone else do it to me. Unfortunately my skills at being subtle were not yet developed and we were playing with my door open. My mom came to check on us and was not happy. She brought me downstairs and after my friend left put me in a diaper herself since she figured this would fix my curiosity. She said "you don't want your dad to see you like this do you?" I was naked in just a diaper standing in front of my mom, and more embarrassed than I had ever been, but it cemented be as an ABDL. Lots more of embarrassing incidents later, but this was the first.

Hello everyone, I'm starting to venture out into the world more while padded and need a smaller bag that I can take into different places with bag size restrictions. The obvious choice was a descret real diaper bag. I found this one on Amazon and love it a lot especially since it can still fit a laptop or camelback in it for longer travel. The main question is that if someone reads the brand and are familiar with them they will 100% know it's a diaper bag. The styling looks like a cool smallish backpack. Do you think carrying this around would raise questions? Also Green or black camo? Thanks 😊 Amazon link: https://www.amazon.com/Speed-Daddy-Diaper-Backpack-Changing/dp/B07BFP4KK5/ref=mp_s_a_1_1_sspa?crid=KB9CR66OYS0I&keywords=high%2Bspeed%2Bdaddy&qid=1681387394&sprefix=high%2Bspeed%2Bdaddy%2Caps%2C142&sr=8-1-spons&psc=1&spLa=ZW5jcnlwdGVkUXVhbGlmaWVyPUFEUUhPQVI5V1NURjAmZW5jcnlwdGVkSWQ9QTAyMjMxMjcyTlhMUzVFUFlZRzdTJmVuY3J5cHRlZEFkSWQ9QTA2MTU4NTAyNVI4U1hBTEIxVFdPJndpZGdldE5hbWU9c3BfcGhvbmVfc2VhcmNoX2F0ZiZhY3Rpb249Y2xpY2tSZWRpcmVjdCZkb05vdExvZ0NsaWNrPXRydWU&th=1

Because I care about how our community looks and trust your opinion I have a question. I'm getting ready to do a lot of travel and will be spending a lot of time on planes and in airports. The goal is to change between fights when needed. While it's possible for me to change in a standard bathroom stall is is really cramped and embarrassing to undo my tapes with everyone listening. Not to mention carrying my soggy diaper out. Almost every airport and zoo in my area is equipped with a family restroom, all of which have an adult changing table. Using this facility would really make my life easier while changing. Am I wrong to do so since it wasn't designed with me in mind? Some context. I'm not really Incontinent but have been diagnosed with IBS and have a Doctors note saying I need diapers to manage my condition (yay HSA). I feel especially guilty since my little side is excited at the idea of getting changed on a public changing table 😊. Is it wrong to use a facility that can for real help make my life easier even though it wasn't explicitly designed with a user who is capable of changing in a normal restroom (with difficulty)? I actually think it would help me and would like to do it, but wanted to make sure I was being respectful. I love this community and would never give it a bad name. Thanks for the advice 🥰

Hey everyone, I'm curious about where everyone gets changed into their diapers. My girlfriend uses our bed, but I've always wanted to be changed on a changing table like a real baby. I'm even thinking about building my own. For people that are lucky enough to have one, is it long enough to fully lay down or do you need to bend your knees?. Getting some thoughts for my design. Thanks all! ?

I like a brand called forever lazy. Great quality fleace and customer service. Plus super cute and cozy ?. Does get hot in summer though.

Careful not to start that debate, or we'll be here all day, but ya I agree. The other recommendation I would have is to Angle your bottom tapes slightly up towards the center of the diaper. This can help with the fit around your legs.

Ok DD Family, I need an opinion. Can a guy wear the tykables shortalls in public without drawing too much attention. I get a warm fuzzy feeling inside when I think about doing it, but I think I might get embarrassed by drawing too much attention from others. Also, blue or black? But it still sparks my curiosity. Any advice for the aspiring little? Link below to tykables shortall page. site. https://tykables.com/collections/shortalls/products/shortalls

Alright everyone, gather round. I have a good story to share. Last night, I was playing video games with my girlfriend who is away for a bit, but we play online, and chatting on discord. I had my webcam on and she could see me. I was wearing a tee shirt, and a ABU alphagators. She could only see the shirt. Now, it should be noted that she knows about my little side and is super accepting, but I haven't shown her anything in person yet. (Side note, she said she would get me a stuffy for my birthday, and I'm super excited.) She gets up, and starts to change clothes, but is a little embarrassed, so to make her feel better I say, "Don't worry, I'm not wearing any pants either"........... Raise you hand if you see where this is going. Now the interesting part. She gets excited and asks to see. She knows that I like cute patterned underwhere and wants to see which ones I have on. She thinks they'll be cute, little does she know. While she will be introduced to my dips, this was not the "surprise" moment that I wanted to use, so naturally I started to panic a bit. "Think Ty, how are you getting out of this one", I thought to myself. Aha, an idea. I decided to say I needed to use the restroom, and took a quick break, changed into some normal......well at least normal for me underwhere and came back to show her. Also tossed on my forever lazy onesie for good measure (she thinks its cute). I dodged an odd surprise, but still looked kinda sus. I think I'll share my story with her later today so she doesn't think I was weird about her. I always try to ask her is something is OK and didn't want to surprise her. My guess is she will want to to wear while we play, but I want it to be only after she wants to. I feel amazing that she is so supportive, but thought I would share my funny story and hope is brough a little joy to your day. ?

That's a super bold move waiting till the day before its due. Sounds like something I would do ?

Last night I had "the talk" with my girlfriend, had here listen to the Confidently Kinky partner explanation (Lo's course), and rather by surprise she text me saying," ya. I'm down for all that". The course explains at a high level what an ABDL relationship looks like, and she actually seems interested in exploring and learning, but doesn't get into too many details about what exactly to do besides care for the person. I want to make this a fun experience for her. I think I'm going to discuss what I would like, listen to things that she likes or wants (she may not know yet), and establish some boundaries. I have two questions for the community: How to I bring up discussing wetting vs. messing without making things go from fun to very not fun (I have no preference, but messing sounds really embarrassing, and fun, but could mess up the relationship if she just says yes just because I like it) Once we start to discover our own style, what things can I do as a baby to make it more fun, satisfying, or less stressful and fulfilling. I'm an AB, but have never really been able to regress playing by myself, and am not fully sure what my role is (I know it sounds silly). What makes a fun AB for a caregiver? Thanks all for any wisdom. ?

I've been there. As Awaken said meet in person first. I think a lot like you and it can be dangerous for us to be too trusting. With that said I didn't listen to my own advice and met with two people without meeting in public first. While it was great both times, I put myself into a bad spot. Be safe, we like you here and want you to stick around ?

Hey, I have a new problem I noticed and thought I would get advice. I've been wearing the new Rearz Mermaid and had a bad leak when the diaper wasn't even half full. It seems that anytime I'm sitting in my office chair, my diaper seems more likely to leak, no matter which one I have on. Any advice on what I might be doing wrong, or tips to use more of the diaper while sitting upright? Thanks ?

Any thoughts on the Rearz Mermaid? I saw they hold 7000 mL. They have to be huge right?

I actually did, and it worked. I started in middle school with bedwetting and was allowed to wear a diaper to bed at night. Eventually I got bolder and had an "accident during the day, and began to wear diapers 24/7. Even had to go to the school nurse to get a fresh diaper. Kept it up for a few years too. I still feel kinda bad about it, but it was a great memory.

Hey guys, Tomorrow I'm meeting a new CG who wants me to join the Stinky crowd, but I never have before. I'm currently staying in a hotel and don't want to destroy the room either. Two Questions: What is a good commercial suppository or enema that will force me to go? I'm not going to be able to on command. How do I deal with it after AKA not make the room smell like death I know for a fact that both these questions have been answered before, but time is short and I want my little dream to come true. Come through for me team : )