ABMonkey

I have seen a lot of people referring to punishment diapers. I find this odd as I love my diapers and wish my wife would be willing to diaper me. So my question is are diapers just part of life for you (play, necessity, whatever) or are they a tool used to correct your behavior. Maybe some of these punishment diapers are just more noticeable and that is why they are for punishment but I am a baby boy who loves the freedom, safety, and security I get from being padded.

I also use my my big boy back packs as I have to always take care of my self and therefore always have at least somewhat an adult side in charge even when I am playing I have only let go a couple of times. They were awesome but I can't risk letting go to far and getting in trouble. At home I can be a little more regressed but even then my wife does not really participate so I can't just let it all go and I have 2 kids at home we are not trying to show them either.

I would love to be diapered anytime by my wife. The movies is so much fun I usually bring my binky an if none is sitting next to me I will suck on throughout the movie.

I am a big baby and would prefer to be that way as much as I can. I stay diapered whenever possible and even when my wife wants me to be big I am easily switched back to little. Anger is the only thing that blocks my little side from running things.

Wow, that sounds wonderful. The only time any one has noticed me was at the movie theatre. I am not a 100% but I think these 2 teenage girls noticed my diapered but through my overalls. They got all giggly and they were talking about my crocs before they noticed. Their mother said to the father "I don't know why they are laughing so much, all the sudden." I turned and said they were admiring my shoes. The girls said that no those are in now. They kept staring at me.but never said anything, while I was around anyways.

I don't like wet pants or wet bed either but I am hoping I can become a bedwetter again because then I can hopefully get away with diapers more. I asked my wife if it would be easier for her if I needed the diapers medically and she said it would because at least then there would be a physical reason for them.

@puffy_bottom That sounds cute. I am wearing a sock monkey onesie over my diapers and pair of fun colorful socks. I also have my glow in the dark blue space themed paci.

I am 38 and recently told my mother because I felt I needed to tell her. I felt like I have been living a lie hiding it like have been so I have told everyone who needs to know and some who are closest to me and I felt could handle it. Now I have not told everyone and I still don't share with my kids as they are too young and it is not something they need to know. If my oldest was to ask I would talk with him and be honest but only after his mother and I discussed it further first. He is 14 and has enough on his plate dealing with my stuff is not something I am going to throw at him.

Adult coloring books stress me out. I love my Moana, Disney villains, and pixar coloring books

Depends on the weather and if I am alone or not. When I am away for work I keep my room about 68 which means I am in a diaper with my footed sleepers, paci, and have multiple stuffies. If I am home with my wife on nights when I am aloud to be diapered I wear a deeper over during the winter or a onesie and pajama bottoms. My wife does not want to see my diaper. She knows and is supporting me but it still weird for her. Other wise I wear boxer briefs and pajama bottoms.

I could not get those over my thighs. I used to be able to use the XL goodnight but my thighs are monstrous and muscular.

The stacking rings were the first toys I played with and did not even realise I was doing it. I recently bought a light up musical ball that rolls around and has a turtle that spins. I also got some soft rubber balls to play with. Toys can be so much fun.

Awesome and good luck with everything. I hope all turns out well.

Not to big for diapers, It sounds like you have a lot to talk. Absolutely it needs to be adult to adult. You should let her no your frustrations but make sure she knows what she is doing well too. I suggest opening up with and ending positively because it will be more easily received. Also as we are both submissive remember we chose this or at least gave into our desires and that means we put their needs above ours. What you can try to do along with talks is be more romantic without expecting anything in return. Show her the love and respect that the grown man should show his wife but also when you are being little or forced to be little be the living child and male her feel the absolute best you can. When she sees you efforts she may just start returning the affection you are desperately desiring. I will day I am sorry for your situation but I have not been there. I have had my battles and diapers almost caused a divorce but through constant open communication my wife and I have had an amazing change in both of us. Our sex life is thriving though we are long distance relationship currently due to work and I am searching to find that desire deep inside her. See my wife is relatively inexperienced as I am only her second and the first was am abusive sick. So she has her own issues. I will leave you with this thought though. You may be submissive but the relationship should still be mutually beneficial and based on love and respect.

@NotToBigForDiapers, Have you ever had a serious adult to adult conversations about these situations. Open honest communications is the only way to solve both your issues. Yes she is in charge as should be when you are little but unless you have decided to always be a baby you should still have adult communications. During these times you both need to listen and respect each others concern.

My adult side would love to wake up a wild animal in my wife that might make her more playful in the bedroom. When I am little I don't care I just need cuddles and loving from her. Though I am very much submissive and wish she would make me please her in any which way she wanted. When you are with someone who has not been with many people or ever really tried much and is stuck on societies definition of normal, it can be hard to do the wild. Basically I would love to be made to satisfy my wife in anyway even with a strap on. As for the kids, my wife and I are trying to ensure that our youngins never find out. They know I was a bedwetter at least until a few years ago. My are 5 and 14.

I use enfagrow formula. It tastes wonderful by itself but I typically add pb2 for some protein because formula is carb loaded for growing babies.

I love my mam bottles. I bought 4. 2 with size 2 to make me slow down and 2 with size 3. The size 3 is perfect for me. Congrats on your purchase.

I have been wondering if a catheter would help and how easy is it to obtain these and use them. It sounds like they are not as easy a fix as I hoped though.

I use enfagrow formula but add pb2 to even up the protein and carbs. I am a very health conscious baby. I am 6 foot and 210 lbs, very athletic, and my body fat ranges between 8 to 12% depending on my training. With any food you have to be conscious of what and how much you take in.

I love my paci I use all the time when I am away from the family and use it in bed as much as possible. My wife does not like them much but is alright with it as long as i am not talking with it in and the lights are out. She actually gave me.permission one time and it was the most awesomest ever. The more involved she becomes the happier I get. Stroller, It is a slow process but my wife has said she noticed that I am being a much better person, happier, more loving, and more playful.

I absolutely prefer being babied. I love my special time with my wife when I am diapered in a footed sleeper, pacifier in my mouth, snuggly bear under my arm, and me in her arms. Bestest feeling in the whole wide world.

What baby does not love when mommy buys them something. My favorite things are stuff my wife either bought for me or helped me pick out.

I love the bulge but have to be discreet because of children. I still enjoy being heavily diapered when I travel and even wore a nice thick rearz rebel yesterday when travelling through the airport to go back to work.

Tykables.com has made some nice baby jeans, shorts, shortalls, and bibs. I did not see any turtleneck onesies or lockable onesies. They are nice because they actually have little boy designs where as most ABDL sites are more geared towards girls and sissies.