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I agree with that. I think most people picture meeting up with good looking folks from the paid picture sites where as in reality 9/10 you will end up with the nutjob who turns up to the pub in a soiled nappy with a dummy pinned to his t-shirt!! Posts like I live in town A, being met by I live pretty close we should meet are rarely going to create friendships.

Which I'd why I thought a thread like this might be useful. Sadly I think people want to get instant gratification from this section and visualise meeting up straight away without doing the hard work. I'm not even sure I want to meet in real life but a safe place to chat Luke this thread may lead to friendships and then maybe meetups

Yeah its not really practical at work for me but thats not to say I wouldnt do it now and again if I am having a rough patch.

So tonight I will be going to bed in a nappy for the fourth night in a row and this is by far the longest stretch I have had padded overnight since I was an actual baby. I have made a concious effort to do this as I am about eleven months into an attempt to get mental equilibrium. Last year I started to suffer pretty bad anxiety due to the COVID lockdown here in the UK and the potental ramifications. I found myself on medication and only now (while still on tablets) am starting to take none medical ways to chill out when stress hits. So I have been wearing but not using overnight, I am starting to think that this might be someting I keep doing full time because i really am having a great time with it, Going forward I need to be looking at some more cloth or all in one nappies and as I am not using it really is only a case of getting the bulk right.

I have only ever worn drynites / goodnites to work but I have to say I found it both enjoyable and impractical at the same time!! I move around a lot at work and found I got very sweaty in my padded area. I did find work less stressful because I was aware of the padding and distratcted enough. I wont make it a regular thing!!

I'm certainly open to a gentle amount of forced regression but for my first role-playing experience I am looking to play the little as it is a role I am familiar with. Are you comfortable writing the point of view of the caregiver.

Wow. So I was looking back at my content and seeing my first post in 2006 I realise how inactive I have been. For something that has been so important in my life for decades I talk about it so little. In July last year I ended up on anxiety tablets and now about a year on I see quite clearly for the first time in twenty years. Sorry I'm rambling, I think I realise that I need to be more active in this world to achieve that peace I was missing before the tablets. Anyway after my first post in 2006, I am Pe@nut, I am 42 and to relax I like to wear and wet a nappy, and whisper it, I even on occasion like to act like a baby!!! PS I think this isn't most active day on Daily Diapers in 15 years. I think finally (with the help of medicine) I feel ready to be me.

For me anyway it's not a punishment to use sparingly. It makes the times I do wear feel more special. If I want to wear and not use I will wear cloth nappies. For me the best thing about being an adult baby rather than a real baby is that we have a choice. We choose when to wear, we choose when to wet and we are in control when we are pretending to lose control. From hating this part of me as a teenager I now know how lucky I am.

Again not for me. I'm interested in adult regression / journey to self acceptance type stories. Supported my caring but strong female leads.

Truthfully that's not really my thing. I prefer more realistic stories. Good luck finding somebody to write with though!?

Hi I'm new to this section but have started many stories (finishing is another thing!!) As it's my first attempt if like a one on one hopefully with somebody who has experience in the section so I can follow their lead a little. A couple of ideas I have are 1) a troubled teen accidently revealing his abdl side to his step mum who helps him accept his little side. His dad has left recently. 2) a female best friend helping a depressed friend find a release and introducing him to regression therapy. 3) I'm open to any ideas too. I'm prefer a female caregiver character but am happy to listen to ideas.

I suffer with this badly. I have bought nappies only twice. First time a big order of cuddlz all over print and last time I bought Arena, Tena and Molicare. That would have been five years ago. I wear so infrequently that I am today wearing my last one. I need to consider my next order!!

So this thread went down like a pee in your pants when you forgot the nappy. Do none of us Brit's want a pressure free chat.

It might just be that it's not your thing. I can't say it's mine and I find the cleanup is not worth the experience. No shame in only using a nappy for wee.

So further to this thread I can't help thinking it would be nice to have a thread where we could chat no strings attached with fellow ukers. This section in particular seems to be full of threads of people desperate to find friends to meet but there seems to be little success. Why not try to make friends online first. If you find some mutual ground you could pm each other. It would be nice to have a safe UK nappy chat outlet here though.

Chapter Two – Truth Will Out Sally looked at both of her kids who were both staring back at her. “What do you mean?” Chloe continued as the cat had obviously got Oliver’s tongue “Who decided it was time that we were taken out of nappies?” “Erm” Sally continued “Well, mine I suppose. You were both quite late and I trained you because you were due at school, obviously eighteen months apart. You both took exactly the same time to train. Identical in fact. Why the question?” “No reason it’s just something you never ask isn’t it so we were both interested that’s all, in fact we had a conversation a year ago about this. Why is it mandatory to potty train your children? Is it really the worst thing in the world if you go through life not learning.” Oliver finally spoke up “I have always found toilets or more so public toilets very hard to go in. They are so unhygienic and when you think about it a bit weird, I mean I stand at a urinal on a night out with maybe five other blokes with all our willies out peeing in front of each other. It’s odd really and that’s before you get to the cubicles!!” Sally laughed, her children were quite often bringing odd subjects like this and she loved the way they look at life. She went to the kitchen to get some more wine as her kids were continuing this deep philosophical discussion. They both paused as their mum slipped back into the discussion. “I think the problem is that most nurseries and schools will not accept children if they are not potty trained, I guess it’s a lot to ask to have a classroom of twenty or thirty children who would need changing. Also you would need to think that if we never potty trained anybody from day one, there would be a hell of a lot of nappies in landfill to deal with.” Chloe and Oliver were deep in thought as they hadn’t thought of this take on the subject; Sally was having all sorts of thoughts and continued. “Of course you have the issues of you children reaching puberty also; at what point do they want you to stop changing them, would you have to teach them to change themselves. What happens when they become sexually active? I mean say this hypothetical scenario was just me not potty training you two. If Chloe started dating in high school, how would any potential boyfriend feel about you using a nappy for its desired use? If you have zero control without being too graphic it could be embarrassing.” Oliver giving an answer to that part at least spoke up “Well there’s nothing to say that you have no control, it’s just that you use a nappy rather than a toilet!” Sally pondered this reply “I can’t imagine there would be a big uptake in people choosing to go this route rather than the route we currently have, there are too many problems that would arise from it” “God mum it was just a question” Chloe laughed as her mum was clearly thinking hard about the subject. “Ok then clever clogs, let me ask you both this. Do you wish that I had never potty trained you and given you a choice to stay in nappies”

I remember fifteen years or so ago I made a t-shirt into a babygrow, poppers and all. I literally put a nappy on and by the time my ex had done up the last popper I had climaxed. Very embarrassing but a great feeling.

I agree with a lot that you say, particularly the news articles we all too often see. I am not part of the community as such as I have never been to a meet, and I rarely post here. I think it's hard for some people to realise that even with you little side, you need to make smart, adult decisions. The only thing people can do is respect boundaries and let the extreme ones get on with it. Eventually they may see the errors of their ways.

Let me know if its worth continuing. Im actually going to try and finish a story for once.

Chapter One - Lockdown Three 2021 in West Yorkshire, England Sally and her daughter Chole and son Oliver are enjoying a night in. This is the third lockdown in the Covid-19 saga after the government had struggled to get it under control. The announcement was that they had decided to do a full lockdown for a year essentially meaning that if you are not in the emergency services you should stay at home. Food stores remained open as long as you adhere to the rules, but life would be difficult for twelve months. Sally was aware that her children had not managed to have a night out since the start of 2020 and thought it would be nice to have a few drinks as it was New Year ’s Day 2021. She felt it was criminal that her kids were missing out on a social life and was worried it could damage them in the future. Chloe was twenty and Oliver eighteen and a half. They were conceived so close together as their dad Ben, was diagnosed with a terminal illness and sadly died not long after Oliver’s first birthday. Ben was a reasonably wealthy man and left enough money that his wife could quit her job and bring their children up; subsequent insurance pay-outs further softened the blow. Sally never got over Bens death and they only relationship she had, had since was with a woman but it was short lived and she put all her attention into her children who she adored. Sally’s mother was still alive but her dad and both of parents had died over eighteen months between 2016-2017. She had a close group of friends who she had missed over the last year, so this night meant a lot to her too. They started watching comedy films and when the wine and gin was flowing, they put some music on and had a nice chat. Sally told the kids tales about their father and what kind of person he was and the kids asked questions about their childhood. Chloe was especially interested as to what it was like having two young babies and a sick husband to deal with. Sally explained that the first three years were both the happiest and saddest years of her life but that she is happy Ben had, had time to meet them and watch their first years. He himself had, had a tough upbringing and wanted a more open childhood for his children. He wanted them to be guided rather than told, he thought it better for the children to make important decisions and the parents support and guide them to make sure that this was the right thing. Sally had agreed with that and hoped she had done a good job. “You have done amazing mum” Oliver said “We had a great childhood” He looked to his sister. “Yeah, I hate that we never got our time with dad but you were great at both jobs and you guided us well… ……………… …… I’ve always wondered though?!............. ….. Nah it doesn’t matter” Sally smiled “come on Chloe you know the family rule, if you have something to say. Say it” “Go on sis its time” Oliver pushed. “I was just wondering about the potty training, I mean you said that you and dad wanted us to make the decisions…………. ……………… did we make that one?!”

Wow good luck. If you find a mummy and daddy as well as having an abdl wife I hope you put money on the lottery!! As I say good luck, hope you find your family.

I always find the backlash to this type of article interesting. It may reflect badly on the individual but also spreads negativity ABDLS in general. I have posted below a link for you perusal. https://forums.digitalspy.com/discussion/2388312/adult-baby-struggles-to-find-employment

Only you know your situation and relationship so any advice should be absorbed and used to fit your situation. I would say you need to be patient as this can be overwhelming and not just for your partner. It will change your relationship (hopefully for the better), so that can take some adjustment. Take it slow, don't force it and answer any and all questions your partner has honestly. If they aren't comfortable with any aspect, respect that and see if it changes the future for you. Good luck.

That's the tricky thing really isn't it we all have very different interests within the ABDL lifestyle / fetish itself, and that's before you start with real life interests. As I say I don't know how I would feel about a real life meet-up, I'm more interested in just how it works if at all via this section. Daily Diapers and more so social media seems to have a solid community of ABDL from the states but us UK followers are spread out a bit. I wonder if it might be an idea to have a thread in this section where we can communicate with fellow Brit's.

It's good you have a good hiding place that helps with the peace of mind, which in turn helps you to enjoy your 'you' time safely. Just beware of the binge / purge cycle as it seems you had an intense experience. This is often followed by more intense urges, then guilt, then purge. Glad you enjoyed it though.